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AIBU to think USA has gone crazy - Karmelo Anthony is a murderer not a victim

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Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 14:32

From what I have read, Karmelo Anthony (who is black African American) took a concealed knife to a track event. When it started raining he ran to another team's tent to shelter. He was told to leave by a white athlete called Austin Metcalfe. KA refused saying ' 'Touch me and see what happens', According to one account I read he was repeatedly told to leave and replied the same way each time. Austin Metcalfe then pushed KA to get him to leave and KA pulled out the knife and stabbed AM in the chest, killing him.

Apparently sections of America are outraged that KA has now been convicted of murder. Possible sentence range in America is 5 to 99 years for this offence and he got 35 years.

I don't understand how this is not murder. In UK law if you can run away you must, and he didn't. In UK law if you kill someone when you could have run, you will be tried for murder.

KA took a knife. He could have left (even if he thought it was a dick move to ask him to leave when it was raining - you can't murder people for being dickish about their gazebo) but chose to not to, escalating the situation with threatening language and then stabbed a young man in the chest.

I just think something has gone terribly wrong in USA society where this man is treated as a victim, not the person who he killed, and this case is regarded as an injustice against him. I hope the UK does not go down this route.

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Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:21

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:17

Physical force is still physical force.
That is factually an escalation.
The motivation doesn’t change the fact it was an escalation.

So did George Floyd escalate his own death? Because he escalated by resisting the police didn’t he? Did Trayvon Martin, because he escalated by getting into an altercation with George Zimmerman? Did Renee Good escalate her own death by driving toward the police?

Anyahyacinth · 11/06/2026 20:20

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:16

You’re absolutely desperate to downplay the killer’s role in this but it’s not working on us, I’m afraid.

Yes he was a bright lad with a good future ahead of him. It’s a crying shame he threw it all away by playing the big man by carrying a knife and then whipping it out. If he had punched him and been apologetic, I would be able to understand and think he deserved another chance. But he didn’t, he murdered him. Ffs

The knife was a multi tool with a torch a 6 in 1 multi tool ..sold at Walmart

Everything is a little more complicated than the simplistics try to claim ..there are nuances …that this mob like reaction overlooks to fit personal agendas

EasternStandard · 11/06/2026 20:20

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:19

He turned himself in and was apologetic.
You seem to enjoy demonising a young Black man.
Yes he killed another young man and he should go to prison for it.
But to call it 1st degree murder is not justice,

You can’t just kill someone because they push you. A sorry won’t cut it.

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:19

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:16

You’re absolutely desperate to downplay the killer’s role in this but it’s not working on us, I’m afraid.

Yes he was a bright lad with a good future ahead of him. It’s a crying shame he threw it all away by playing the big man by carrying a knife and then whipping it out. If he had punched him and been apologetic, I would be able to understand and think he deserved another chance. But he didn’t, he murdered him. Ffs

He turned himself in and was apologetic.
You seem to enjoy demonising a young Black man.
Yes he killed another young man and he should go to prison for it.
But to call it 1st degree murder is not justice,

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:17

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:14

He did not ‘escalate’ it. He tried to remove him. Massive difference that only you are pretending not to understand.

Physical force is still physical force.
That is factually an escalation.
The motivation doesn’t change the fact it was an escalation.

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:16

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:11

Why would that be next? You have obviously failed to understand the concept of escalation when it comes to situations that end in violence. Surprising really as I thought all women knew that physical assault is the more serious escalation of verbal threats and increases the likelihood of serious injury or death.

You’re absolutely desperate to downplay the killer’s role in this but it’s not working on us, I’m afraid.

Yes he was a bright lad with a good future ahead of him. It’s a crying shame he threw it all away by playing the big man by carrying a knife and then whipping it out. If he had punched him and been apologetic, I would be able to understand and think he deserved another chance. But he didn’t, he murdered him. Ffs

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:16

catspyjamas1 · 11/06/2026 20:09

Advising others to not download a random Google Drive file from in Internet troll on MM.

You are a riot. I’m not a troll. You couldn’t even read two sentences in a link correctly or you gleefully misreported on them as a troll does and challenge me to post more evidence and when I post the link to the report in the news article the evidence you challenged me to provide, you then pretend again I’m a troll. Give over. You aren’t fooling anyone.

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:14

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:13

Yes he started it, but it was then escalated. I was more reacting to the OP claiming the words were more threatening and aggressive than the shoving as well as indicating more of a physical threat. How can words be more of a physical threat than when someone is actively assaulting you?

He did not ‘escalate’ it. He tried to remove him. Massive difference that only you are pretending not to understand.

Anyahyacinth · 11/06/2026 20:13

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 19:58

That’s funny because the Fordingbridge perpetrators are white and the public have been outraged by their ‘soft treatment’ to the extent they’re reviewing it..?

Yes I thought it was strange you raised it…though I think I have seen slurs on MN about them being travellers …my understanding about KA is that the outrage relates to NOT being tried by a jury of his peers and that if a black boy was aggressive and put hands on a white boy and then he used a folding knife and stabbed him..and the black boy died ..the sentence, even IF going to trial (and self defence wasn’t accepted) would not be the same. The supporters state cases to support their view.
Notwithstanding all that; he has been sentenced to 35 years in prison. So the faux outrage here seems to have another agenda, as do so many other threads on MN

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:13

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:10

Dont be so bloody ridiculous. Pushing into somebody else’s space and acting like a twat and refusing to leave means he very much started it and deserved to be removed.

Yes he started it, but it was then escalated. I was more reacting to the OP claiming the words were more threatening and aggressive than the shoving as well as indicating more of a physical threat. How can words be more of a physical threat than when someone is actively assaulting you?

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:11

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:07

What next? Breaking into somebody’s house and if they push you to get you out, that’s threatening too is it? 😂

There’s a clear aggressor here and no amount of ‘hE pUsHeD hIM’ is going to make us believe he stabbed Austin in ‘self defence’.

Why would that be next? You have obviously failed to understand the concept of escalation when it comes to situations that end in violence. Surprising really as I thought all women knew that physical assault is the more serious escalation of verbal threats and increases the likelihood of serious injury or death.

MyTwinklyMoose · 11/06/2026 20:11

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:09

No, I’m English and in England. I have no idea how this has been viewed in Texas but this relentless downplaying of stabbed teen boys because the aggressor fits a narrative is tedious.

Ah, I thought something you said earlier suggested you were in the US.

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:11

catspyjamas1 · 11/06/2026 20:09

Advising others to not download a random Google Drive file from in Internet troll on MM.

Sensible.

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:10

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:07

Right, I am minimising when it’s you lot claiming words are more of the threat than physical assault. Love to see you argue that in any other context.

Dont be so bloody ridiculous. Pushing into somebody else’s space and acting like a twat and refusing to leave means he very much started it and deserved to be removed.

catspyjamas1 · 11/06/2026 20:09

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:46

Full 222 page report on 70 lynchings from 2000-2025 in 7 southern states by JULIAN
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1twIekbOTlto0wEtY0uAL_0IW__VV1Ity/view

Advising others to not download a random Google Drive file from in Internet troll on MM.

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:09

MyTwinklyMoose · 11/06/2026 20:08

Are you in America? Some of your responses sound as though you are. Is this being seen a a big deal outside of Texas? Or is it really only in that state (and online) that tensions are high?

No, I’m English and in England. I have no idea how this has been viewed in Texas but this relentless downplaying of stabbed teen boys because the aggressor fits a narrative is tedious.

PistolPacker · 11/06/2026 20:09

"you lot".

Says it all doesn't it.

MyTwinklyMoose · 11/06/2026 20:08

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:04

We’re really not in agreement. No.

Your minimising is fooling absolutely nobody and just reveals you as somebody desperate to downplay something because of the races of those involved.

Are you in America? Some of your responses sound as though you are. Is this being seen a a big deal outside of Texas? Or is it really only in that state (and online) that tensions are high?

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 20:07

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:01

Black boy saying words is more threatening, aggressive and scary than a white boy pushing and shoving.

That’s exactly the kind of racism we are highlighting.

Yes KA killed and should be punished, but the punishment should match the crime and when events are filtered through lens of racism that’s when you get punishments that do not match the crime. Certain criminals are let off easy and others have the book thrown at them and are made an example of.

This is an absolutely ridiculous distortion. See my other reply above.

its this sort of distortion that undermines attempts to deal with racism.

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AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:07

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:04

We’re really not in agreement. No.

Your minimising is fooling absolutely nobody and just reveals you as somebody desperate to downplay something because of the races of those involved.

Right, I am minimising when it’s you lot claiming words are more of the threat than physical assault. Love to see you argue that in any other context.

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:07

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:05

No. There was no equating going on. Please don’t put words in my mouth. I was replying about perceived threat. Apparently being pushed and shoved is not at all threatening, whereas verbal challenges are very threatening.

What next? Breaking into somebody’s house and if they push you to get you out, that’s threatening too is it? 😂

There’s a clear aggressor here and no amount of ‘hE pUsHeD hIM’ is going to make us believe he stabbed Austin in ‘self defence’.

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 20:05

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 19:55

Wait, so words are aggressive provocation, but physically shoving someone is perfectly ok? Not threatening at all?

You are welcome to your opinion, but under an equal justice system using physical violence is an escalation compared to verbal threats.

Edited

So if someone came into your house and you repeatedly told them to get out, but the refused and said ‘ touch me and see what happens’ as well as other verbal aggression and you said ‘I won’t fight you’ and they carried on, so after the 15 th or so time of telling them to leave you pushed them to get them out of your house, would you honestly think you were the one being aggressive?

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AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:05

EasternStandard · 11/06/2026 20:02

Are you really equating a shove or push with murder?

No. There was no equating going on. Please don’t put words in my mouth. I was replying about perceived threat. Apparently being pushed and shoved is not at all threatening, whereas verbal challenges are very threatening.

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:04

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:03

I am not swapping them. So we are in agreement.

We’re really not in agreement. No.

Your minimising is fooling absolutely nobody and just reveals you as somebody desperate to downplay something because of the races of those involved.

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:03

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:01

Black boy saying words is more threatening, aggressive and scary than a white boy pushing and shoving.

That’s exactly the kind of racism we are highlighting.

Yes KA killed and should be punished, but the punishment should match the crime and when events are filtered through lens of racism that’s when you get punishments that do not match the crime. Certain criminals are let off easy and others have the book thrown at them and are made an example of.

I don’t believe for a single moment he felt terrified by being pushed. This was a boy carrying a knife - he set out to do violence. Why else would you carry it?