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AIBU to think USA has gone crazy - Karmelo Anthony is a murderer not a victim

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Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 14:32

From what I have read, Karmelo Anthony (who is black African American) took a concealed knife to a track event. When it started raining he ran to another team's tent to shelter. He was told to leave by a white athlete called Austin Metcalfe. KA refused saying ' 'Touch me and see what happens', According to one account I read he was repeatedly told to leave and replied the same way each time. Austin Metcalfe then pushed KA to get him to leave and KA pulled out the knife and stabbed AM in the chest, killing him.

Apparently sections of America are outraged that KA has now been convicted of murder. Possible sentence range in America is 5 to 99 years for this offence and he got 35 years.

I don't understand how this is not murder. In UK law if you can run away you must, and he didn't. In UK law if you kill someone when you could have run, you will be tried for murder.

KA took a knife. He could have left (even if he thought it was a dick move to ask him to leave when it was raining - you can't murder people for being dickish about their gazebo) but chose to not to, escalating the situation with threatening language and then stabbed a young man in the chest.

I just think something has gone terribly wrong in USA society where this man is treated as a victim, not the person who he killed, and this case is regarded as an injustice against him. I hope the UK does not go down this route.

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FlowerPower666 · 11/06/2026 21:53

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:29

Ok. I see you have immense faith in Texas courts.
I am sure you are applauding their 3rd degree murder convictions as we speak.

Texas doesn't have 3rd degree murder convictions?

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 21:53

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:49

Many on here do not understand the concept.
It’s why they think shoving is a de-escalation to words.

( whereas shoving is an escalation and not a proportionate response to words)

To ‘de-escalate’, somebody else must have done something to ‘escalate’. Who escalated to start with?

FlowerPower666 · 11/06/2026 21:52

SpiritofaPanda · 11/06/2026 20:52

And bear in mind he shouldn’t have even been at the event (KA). He was suspended from school for having a weapon and banned from athletic events but he turned up anyway.

To the poster who keeps implying KA was scared because of the shove. 12 witnesses all stated he was the aggressor, not Austin.

If you're scared, you run. You don't start stabbing!

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 11/06/2026 21:51

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:55

Murder, so do you think it was 1st, 2nd or 3rd degree murder? And if so why?
(hoping you will look up the difference and realise….hmmm this wasn’t 1st degree)

Edited

I just want to point out that Texas doesn’t have degrees of murder. You’re getting confused between degrees of murder and degrees of felony.
Murder is a first degree felony.
In Texas, premeditation is not required for a murder charge.
The most serious charge is Capital murder.
Karmelo Anthony was not convicted or charged with capital murder.

You need to read up about Texas law.

Edits cos I missed a few things.

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:55

Gloriia · 11/06/2026 20:53

'don’t think he coldly planned to murder anyone when he went out that evening to the track meet.'

Maybe not but clearly with a weapon he was happy to do it anyway. Not like he pushed him and he fell and cracked his head and died. That would have obviously been tragic but not murder. This was murder.

Murder, so do you think it was 1st, 2nd or 3rd degree murder? And if so why?
(hoping you will look up the difference and realise….hmmm this wasn’t 1st degree)

Gloriia · 11/06/2026 20:53

'don’t think he coldly planned to murder anyone when he went out that evening to the track meet.'

Maybe not but clearly with a weapon he was happy to do it anyway. Not like he pushed him and he fell and cracked his head and died. That would have obviously been tragic but not murder. This was murder.

SpiritofaPanda · 11/06/2026 20:52

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 20:10

Dont be so bloody ridiculous. Pushing into somebody else’s space and acting like a twat and refusing to leave means he very much started it and deserved to be removed.

And bear in mind he shouldn’t have even been at the event (KA). He was suspended from school for having a weapon and banned from athletic events but he turned up anyway.

To the poster who keeps implying KA was scared because of the shove. 12 witnesses all stated he was the aggressor, not Austin.

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:52

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 20:47

The way to achieve that would be to have left. Drunk drivers don’t set out to kill anyone either but they still rightly go to prison.

I have to go now, but I am going to circle back to what I said at the start about UK law, as this case shows well the sense of that law ( maybe it applies in USA too), if you are able to leave, you leave. If you stay to attack, you are responsible for the harm you cause to others. Because if you had left, that harm would not have occurred.

Drunk drivers don’t get convicted of 1st degree murder.
No one is saying he shouldn’t go down for unlawful killing, we are simply pointing out that the killing doesn’t meet the legal requirements for the worst degree of murder- 1st degree.

Depends on the state as to the ability to leave. Some states have a hold your ground exception which means you can use deadly force on an aggressor even if you can leave or use less force.

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 20:52

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:47

You omitted it here, which is what I said. I didn’t say you’d never mentioned it.
The difference here is that KA was carrying a knife, repeatedly provoking a fight with someone who was bigger than him ‘touch me and see what happens’ , refusing all de-escalation ‘Leave’ ‘I won’t fight you’ and then took out and used the knife to stab through the chest with great force.

my question still stands, why are you choosing to omit everything that provoked KA but keeping in and adding emotive adjectives to the provocation KA did?

I didn’t choose to omit anything. I’ve repeatedly for what, 9 pages spoken about it. It’s a bit pathetic you are trying to use this as a gotcha when I’ve spoken about this throughout the thread. No one can seriously say I’m pretending the shove did not happen. From my perspective your attempt to use this as a gotcha shows how weak your case is that you have to grasp such a feeble argument.

Anyway, I really am going now.

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likelysuspect · 11/06/2026 20:51

Ponoka7 · 11/06/2026 20:32

The weather was stated as a reason he went into the tent. He sat down. The victim's twin brother started hassling Anthony. Austin Metcalf (the victim) wouldn't let it go and is on camera shoving Anthony. Both brothers and another boy was standing over him (on camera). Other students in the tent said it was a scuffle, instigated by the Metcalfs. Anthony stabbed him, he claims, in self defence. The coach said, in court that it wasn't unusual to share tents and they had no reason to bulky Anthony out of the tent. The knife he was carrying wasn't illegal. Three black women were cut from the jury. Anthony was 17, considering everything, he shouldn't lose his whole life to this.

I wonder if people would be so sympathetic if the victim was black and the perpetrator was white?

Gloriia · 11/06/2026 20:50

likelysuspect · 11/06/2026 20:48

The USA in general probably hasnt gone crazy about his sentence. A mad minority who will claim this is racist has gone crazy.

No need to take any notice of them

Just like the knee crap.

The people who have gone crazy as seen on sm seem a crazy minority. Absolute aresholes screaming and leaping about.

Vast majority seem to support the conviction and sentence.

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:49

Gloriia · 11/06/2026 20:47

Oh please. Acting in self defence would've been shoving back not stabbing someone to death. Do you understand what proportionate response means?

Many on here do not understand the concept.
It’s why they think shoving is a de-escalation to words.

( whereas shoving is an escalation and not a proportionate response to words)

likelysuspect · 11/06/2026 20:48

The USA in general probably hasnt gone crazy about his sentence. A mad minority who will claim this is racist has gone crazy.

No need to take any notice of them

Just like the knee crap.

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:47

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 20:43

Look back over my posts. I have REPEATEDLY referred to the pushing and shoving. As I’ve just repeated, I said in my OP it may have been a fuck move to tell KA to get out of the tent, but you don’t stab people for being dicks.

You omitted it here, which is what I said. I didn’t say you’d never mentioned it.
The difference here is that KA was carrying a knife, repeatedly provoking a fight with someone who was bigger than him ‘touch me and see what happens’ , refusing all de-escalation ‘Leave’ ‘I won’t fight you’ and then took out and used the knife to stab through the chest with great force.

my question still stands, why are you choosing to omit everything that provoked KA but keeping in and adding emotive adjectives to the provocation KA did?

Gloriia · 11/06/2026 20:47

Ponoka7 · 11/06/2026 20:37

@Malinia he acted in self defence. He shouldn't have been threatened with assault. He reacted as a lot of 17 year olds would. The Police said he was in shock, remorseful and scared, when arrested. The Metcalfs were described by other students as bullies.

Oh please. Acting in self defence would've been shoving back not stabbing someone to death. Do you understand what proportionate response means?

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 20:47

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:39

He turned himself in the next morning as well. He may have been spoiling for a fight, but I don’t think he coldly planned to murder anyone when he went out that evening to the track meet.

The way to achieve that would be to have left. Drunk drivers don’t set out to kill anyone either but they still rightly go to prison.

I have to go now, but I am going to circle back to what I said at the start about UK law, as this case shows well the sense of that law ( maybe it applies in USA too), if you are able to leave, you leave. If you stay to attack, you are responsible for the harm you cause to others. Because if you had left, that harm would not have occurred.

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PistolPacker · 11/06/2026 20:46

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:39

He turned himself in the next morning as well. He may have been spoiling for a fight, but I don’t think he coldly planned to murder anyone when he went out that evening to the track meet.

He was apprehended and arrested immediately. And admitted it.

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:44

Ponoka7 · 11/06/2026 20:32

The weather was stated as a reason he went into the tent. He sat down. The victim's twin brother started hassling Anthony. Austin Metcalf (the victim) wouldn't let it go and is on camera shoving Anthony. Both brothers and another boy was standing over him (on camera). Other students in the tent said it was a scuffle, instigated by the Metcalfs. Anthony stabbed him, he claims, in self defence. The coach said, in court that it wasn't unusual to share tents and they had no reason to bulky Anthony out of the tent. The knife he was carrying wasn't illegal. Three black women were cut from the jury. Anthony was 17, considering everything, he shouldn't lose his whole life to this.

It’s a gazebo which has open sides, that is understood to be shared. It’s not private. Who pushes someone out into the rain because they don’t like them?

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 20:43

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:37

Ok you’re rewriting history here to omit the shoving. Wonder why you are so desperate to edit out some of the facts? Is it you think a victim has to be perfect to be a victim?

KA is a killer, he is guilty and deserves prison.

But do you see what you are doing? You are manipulating what happened, erasing context (what some would call lying by omission) to sway opinion.

Look back over my posts. I have REPEATEDLY referred to the pushing and shoving. As I’ve just repeated, I said in my OP it may have been a fuck move to tell KA to get out of the tent, but you don’t stab people for being dicks.

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Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 20:40

Ponoka7 · 11/06/2026 20:32

The weather was stated as a reason he went into the tent. He sat down. The victim's twin brother started hassling Anthony. Austin Metcalf (the victim) wouldn't let it go and is on camera shoving Anthony. Both brothers and another boy was standing over him (on camera). Other students in the tent said it was a scuffle, instigated by the Metcalfs. Anthony stabbed him, he claims, in self defence. The coach said, in court that it wasn't unusual to share tents and they had no reason to bulky Anthony out of the tent. The knife he was carrying wasn't illegal. Three black women were cut from the jury. Anthony was 17, considering everything, he shouldn't lose his whole life to this.

I said in my OP that it may have been a dick move to tell him to get out of the tent, but you can’t go around stabbing people for being dickish about their gazebos.

He was told to leave. He could get away. You don’t stay and stab people to death. That’s murder.

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AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:39

Ponoka7 · 11/06/2026 20:37

@Malinia he acted in self defence. He shouldn't have been threatened with assault. He reacted as a lot of 17 year olds would. The Police said he was in shock, remorseful and scared, when arrested. The Metcalfs were described by other students as bullies.

He turned himself in the next morning as well. He may have been spoiling for a fight, but I don’t think he coldly planned to murder anyone when he went out that evening to the track meet.

Ponoka7 · 11/06/2026 20:38

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 20:35

The fact is it was a knife capable of killing a man, did kill a man and was carried by a man who felt confident enough to provoke a fight with someone bigger than him.

Young men, teenagers, boys, not men. All under 18. You can kill with a pen.

AmberTigerEyes · 11/06/2026 20:37

Neutralnames · 11/06/2026 20:32

The difference here is that KA was carrying a knife, repeatedly provoking a fight with someone who was bigger than him ‘touch me and see what happens’ , refusing all de-escalation ‘Leave’ ‘I won’t fight you’ and then took out and used the knife to stab through the chest with great force.

That sounds very much like someone who from the start of the confrontation felt emboldened by the knowledge he had a knife to use on the bigger guy.

Ok you’re rewriting history here to omit the shoving. Wonder why you are so desperate to edit out some of the facts? Is it you think a victim has to be perfect to be a victim?

KA is a killer, he is guilty and deserves prison.

But do you see what you are doing? You are manipulating what happened, erasing context (what some would call lying by omission) to sway opinion.

Ponoka7 · 11/06/2026 20:37

@Malinia he acted in self defence. He shouldn't have been threatened with assault. He reacted as a lot of 17 year olds would. The Police said he was in shock, remorseful and scared, when arrested. The Metcalfs were described by other students as bullies.

SpudGunToo · 11/06/2026 20:35

MyTwinklyMoose · 11/06/2026 19:22

Ah Okay, so chased by an unarmed
person = shoot them at close range, pushed by an unarmed person = just walk off.

Oh, and Rittenhouse had an all white jury bar one (which caused a huge controversy) and he has gone on to say some awful stuff.

Honestly, quit pretending.

So not all white then?

You really are beclowning yourself now.