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To not support England?!

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Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 10:12

Live and work in England. Not English. My team didn’t qualify for the World Cup so I’m supporting Scotland! Lobe a plucky underdog, have some Scots heritage ( and some English to be fair) plus I NEVER support English sports teams. EVER.
Football has inevitably come up in the office and several colleagues are generally pissed off that I’m not supporting England, insist I should be etc etc. Stupidly I mentioned that I never support England … did not gone down well.
If you live here then you should etc etc

YANBU - support who you like!
YABU - you ingrate, you live in the country you should support the national team.

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Differentforgirls · 16/06/2026 18:32

DontBuyAnotherBook · 16/06/2026 18:31

@Differentforgirls Oh I completely understand loving your country. No problem there although I don't think every supporter of the countries you mention are loved. You have your own arseholes as fans. I have no problem with you btw. I do take issue with the several threads OP starts that are blatant in their hatred of the English. It is just weird. Just being hated because we are English.

I don't hate you if that's any consulation?

DontBuyAnotherBook · 16/06/2026 18:31

@Differentforgirls Oh I completely understand loving your country. No problem there although I don't think every supporter of the countries you mention are loved. You have your own arseholes as fans. I have no problem with you btw. I do take issue with the several threads OP starts that are blatant in their hatred of the English. It is just weird. Just being hated because we are English.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 16/06/2026 18:26

Differentforgirls · 16/06/2026 17:47

I'll give you one thing - you're consistant!

You obviously love your country.

As I Iove mine. I'm lucky in this instance because my country is Scotland and Scots, like the Irish (and Welsh tbh) are loved wherever they go.

There is nothing wrong with people supporting Scotland and the Tartan Army.

They cause a wee lump in my throat tbh as you can see the joy they're feeling, and they never cause any bother. Locals everywhere love them. We got adopted at the Euros!

You love England - I'm kind of guessing you don't love Scotland.

Why don't you just support your own team instead of getting upset by people who don't?

Liverpool is in England in case you didn't realise.

Edited because I thought you were the OP. I know what country you are from as I have read posts from you before.

Differentforgirls · 16/06/2026 17:47

DontBuyAnotherBook · 16/06/2026 14:19

That is pathetic.

I'll give you one thing - you're consistant!

You obviously love your country.

As I Iove mine. I'm lucky in this instance because my country is Scotland and Scots, like the Irish (and Welsh tbh) are loved wherever they go.

There is nothing wrong with people supporting Scotland and the Tartan Army.

They cause a wee lump in my throat tbh as you can see the joy they're feeling, and they never cause any bother. Locals everywhere love them. We got adopted at the Euros!

You love England - I'm kind of guessing you don't love Scotland.

Why don't you just support your own team instead of getting upset by people who don't?

Desert76 · 16/06/2026 17:29

I’ll watch the England matches, but my allegiance will mainly lie with my favourite players - none of whom happen to play for England.

I’ll be cheering for the Netherlands, but there are a few teams that I hope will do well - Cape Verde have definitely been added to that list since their performance yesterday.

It’s just a bit of fun, and you can support whomever you like - it doesn’t mean you hate the country you live in, what an odd notion.

musicandmen · 16/06/2026 16:54

DontBuyAnotherBook · 16/06/2026 14:19

That is pathetic.

If you new the history of how the rest of this country and government has treated this city you would understand why people are anti England and anti establishment

Goditsmemargaret · 16/06/2026 14:56

Grghf · 16/06/2026 14:14

Not sure whether youre aware but the last one was over a century ago...

Oh really? I'd no idea things had calmed down (having grown up during The Troubles).

DontBuyAnotherBook · 16/06/2026 14:19

musicandmen · 16/06/2026 14:17

Come to Liverpool! More people here supporting Scotland than England

That is pathetic.

musicandmen · 16/06/2026 14:17

Come to Liverpool! More people here supporting Scotland than England

Grghf · 16/06/2026 14:14

Goditsmemargaret · 14/06/2026 13:20

Not sure whether youre aware but the last one was over a century ago...

JudgeJ · 16/06/2026 11:22

Feetballislife · 16/06/2026 07:04

Babes, aren’t we all! Big Cape Verde fan now! How fickle…

Aren't we all! It increases my optimism about one of my sweepstake teams, DRC! Go guys and stuff Portugal tomorrow, if only to wipe the smirk off Ronaldo's face.
Interesting how many draws there have been so far, could make the battle for second place go down to goal difference!

Differentforgirls · 16/06/2026 07:11

Feetballislife · 16/06/2026 07:04

Babes, aren’t we all! Big Cape Verde fan now! How fickle…

I couldn't believe that post when I read it. 2026 and people still use words like "speshul".

Feetballislife · 16/06/2026 07:04

FarmersWifeOf30Years · 15/06/2026 21:39

Op, you are totally speshull and younique.

Babes, aren’t we all! Big Cape Verde fan now! How fickle…

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FarmersWifeOf30Years · 15/06/2026 21:39

Op, you are totally speshull and younique.

JudgeJ · 15/06/2026 21:33

JackGrealishsCalves · 11/06/2026 21:45

Honestly love, no one gives a shit who you pretend to support.
Bet you can't even name 4 players from your "adopted" team. Yay, go you

To be fair I would struggle these days to name the England team, I did recently ask someone when they were going to see Harry Kane at Wembley, singing not kicking!

JudgeJ · 15/06/2026 21:29

Feetballislife · 14/06/2026 21:24

A win win either way???

It's England FFS we are Irish and do not cheer for England.**

Cheer for who you wish as you certainly won't be cheering for Ireland!

JudgeJ · 15/06/2026 21:23

DontBuyAnotherBook · 12/06/2026 12:54

I haven't heard anything negative of the English either.

If one England fan farts at the wrong time the UK press will make a meal out of it, I've lived in quite a few countries and have never known a media so anti their home nation, in other countries any misbaviour is brushed under the metaphorical carpet.

Lottapianos · 15/06/2026 20:20

Goditsmemargaret · 14/06/2026 16:33

Let me guess; Wicklow or Meath?

Neither! Why did you guess those two?

SerendipityJane · 15/06/2026 15:44

The nice thing about living in a nation of nations, is you can enjoy your neighbours ... currently enjoying the Bostonians being overwhelmed with the Tartan Army ... it warms the cockles it does, as DF might have said.

Feetballislife · 14/06/2026 21:24

NoWordForFluffy · 13/06/2026 12:48

Well, I'm English and would usually support England, but I got Croatia in the work sweepstake, so I'm in trouble on 17 June! 😬🤣

A win win either way???

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Goditsmemargaret · 14/06/2026 16:33

Lottapianos · 14/06/2026 14:12

I'm Irish, I'm aware

Let me guess; Wicklow or Meath?

Lottapianos · 14/06/2026 14:12

Goditsmemargaret · 14/06/2026 13:20

I'm Irish, I'm aware

Goditsmemargaret · 14/06/2026 13:20

Lottapianos · 14/06/2026 13:04

'So the anyone but England is a way to unite the country in following the world cup when Ireland isn't part of it. You know everyone in the pub will be shouting for the same side.'

Ah well, isn't that lovely 🙄 You could always 'unite' by following England as it's one of your nearest neighbours but I know there's more chance of pigs flying

We could but there's a tiny bit of historical tension there
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_armed_conflicts_involving_Ireland_against_the_United_Kingdom

List of armed conflicts involving Ireland against the United Kingdom - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_armed_conflicts_involving_Ireland_against_the_United_Kingdom

Differentforgirls · 14/06/2026 13:14

Lottapianos · 14/06/2026 13:04

'So the anyone but England is a way to unite the country in following the world cup when Ireland isn't part of it. You know everyone in the pub will be shouting for the same side.'

Ah well, isn't that lovely 🙄 You could always 'unite' by following England as it's one of your nearest neighbours but I know there's more chance of pigs flying

We’re mostly the same in Scotland except for die hard Rangers supporters.

Lottapianos · 14/06/2026 13:04

'So the anyone but England is a way to unite the country in following the world cup when Ireland isn't part of it. You know everyone in the pub will be shouting for the same side.'

Ah well, isn't that lovely 🙄 You could always 'unite' by following England as it's one of your nearest neighbours but I know there's more chance of pigs flying

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