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To not support England?!

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Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 10:12

Live and work in England. Not English. My team didn’t qualify for the World Cup so I’m supporting Scotland! Lobe a plucky underdog, have some Scots heritage ( and some English to be fair) plus I NEVER support English sports teams. EVER.
Football has inevitably come up in the office and several colleagues are generally pissed off that I’m not supporting England, insist I should be etc etc. Stupidly I mentioned that I never support England … did not gone down well.
If you live here then you should etc etc

YANBU - support who you like!
YABU - you ingrate, you live in the country you should support the national team.

OP posts:
Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 11:20

Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 11:17

Seriously? Not for the football team, put it that way 🤣

Aka ‘I’m so deep and interesting, please beg me for insights as to why your country is so shit’

StrawberryFieldsForeverWhatever · 11/06/2026 11:19

Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 11:17

Seriously? Not for the football team, put it that way 🤣

Not for ANY England team EVER, actually. Why?

118bd · 11/06/2026 11:19

Born in England, live in England. Will not be supporting England. I’m petty and bitter, I support a premier league team and I cannot switch off my hatred towards some of the other PL teams players. It is what it is 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m just going to enjoy the World Cup and if I was going to choose anyone to ‘support’ it would be Portugal as we holiday there twice a year and I love the place.

Itiswhysofew · 11/06/2026 11:19

I wont be following it.

When I lived in Spain, I cheered them on and had a great night when they won. But, I still supported England throughtout.

I live in Ireland now, but would still support England - I'd keep that v 🤫 though😂

BettyyB00 · 11/06/2026 11:18

Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 11:17

Seriously? Not for the football team, put it that way 🤣

Seriously - I'm interested.

Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 11:17

BettyyB00 · 11/06/2026 11:15

Why do you choose to live in England, out of interest. A list will suffice.

Seriously? Not for the football team, put it that way 🤣

OP posts:
Dollymylove · 11/06/2026 11:17

Bobbisocks · 11/06/2026 11:15

I’m English (although genetically a mixture of things like most Brits) but have lived in Wales for the last 25 years. My kids are fluent Welsh speakers etc.

Growing up in England, if England wasn’t playing we’d support another British team - Wales, Scotland etc. To be honest I’m not a big sports fan anyway, but I’ve always found the ‘anyone but England’ sentiment, even in jest, to be utterly tedious.

Isn't it just. Claim to hate England.
Yet want to live here 😕

Dollymylove · 11/06/2026 11:15

You can support who you like.
Seriously, nobody gives a shiny shit

Bobbisocks · 11/06/2026 11:15

I’m English (although genetically a mixture of things like most Brits) but have lived in Wales for the last 25 years. My kids are fluent Welsh speakers etc.

Growing up in England, if England wasn’t playing we’d support another British team - Wales, Scotland etc. To be honest I’m not a big sports fan anyway, but I’ve always found the ‘anyone but England’ sentiment, even in jest, to be utterly tedious.

BettyyB00 · 11/06/2026 11:15

Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 10:42

‘Obviously if you are watching an England match in a public place you shouldn't be booing them or anything because that's rude.’

stupid and dangerous is what it would be. Also, no way am I going to watch anywhere with England fans.

Why do you choose to live in England, out of interest. A list will suffice.

BettyyB00 · 11/06/2026 11:13

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 11:08

I’ll answer.

Because:
Racism
Colonialism
Superiority complex
Empire
The King
Tommy Robinson
The Tories, Reform and Restore
We’re Better People Than You Even Though We Choose To Live In England

Is my Bingo card complete? Grin

That's a Full House!

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Canttalkinreallife · 11/06/2026 11:11

Why did you have to announce “I NEVER support England” etc.

I lived in Australia for 5 years when I was younger and while I supported England in sporting events, if they weren’t playing I would support Australia but I certainly wouldn’t have announced to Australians that I would never ever support them etc.

Why do you choose to live here and then actively try to put peoples backs up. It’s weird

BettyyB00 · 11/06/2026 11:11

Support who you like. But why announce it / start a tedious thread about it, as if it's an important news flash?

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 11/06/2026 11:10

Littlebitpsycho · 11/06/2026 11:09

Lol I'm English and openly tell people I hope they get knocked out in the first round.

Hate football, England are shite at it (well the men's team are), and the constant 'footballs coming home'...no. No it isn't

I mean, they aren’t shit, are they?

or they wouldn’t get a spot.

they aren’t the best in the world though. Or Europe. Obviously. 😂

Greyblankie · 11/06/2026 11:10

You sound like a boring shit stirrer OP. You make a point of saying you “never support England” - the country that is your home and you wonder why people are a bit raised eyebrow about it?

grow up maybe?

Littlebitpsycho · 11/06/2026 11:09

Lol I'm English and openly tell people I hope they get knocked out in the first round.

Hate football, England are shite at it (well the men's team are), and the constant 'footballs coming home'...no. No it isn't

Walkyrie · 11/06/2026 11:08

StrawberryFieldsForeverWhatever · 11/06/2026 11:04

"I NEVER support English sports teams. EVER."

Okay I'll bite. Why?

I’ll answer.

Because:
Racism
Colonialism
Superiority complex
Empire
The King
Tommy Robinson
The Tories, Reform and Restore
We’re Better People Than You Even Though We Choose To Live In England

Is my Bingo card complete? Grin

WillieBanjo · 11/06/2026 11:08

I am English. I would be pleased if they won and would watch them with friends, but I have not supported the football team in a tournament since Andy Cole was left out of the squad in 1998 and have instead supported the Netherlands.

nam3c4ang3 · 11/06/2026 11:07

I support my own country first - then England as my husband and kids are english. England wont win anyway 😂

Howmanycatsistoomany · 11/06/2026 11:06

SpudGunToo · 11/06/2026 10:38

Aye, it’s funny how the most passionate scotch so often choose not to live there.

Sean Connery, Alan Cummings, Nicola Sturgeon…

Also funny how so many dumplings refer to Scots as "scotch" 🙄

As a Scot exiled in France I will be supporting both Scotland and France.

BillieWiper · 11/06/2026 11:06

Just say you've Scots background so that's your team. Surely there's plenty of people supporting Scotland?

I kind of want them to do really well as they rarely seem to get through. I'll watch the England games and wish them well too. But I'm not exactly a hardcore England fan. I think a lot of people know that the best footballers in the UK leagues are often not British.

StrawberryFieldsForeverWhatever · 11/06/2026 11:04

"I NEVER support English sports teams. EVER."

Okay I'll bite. Why?

DeftGoldHedgehog · 11/06/2026 11:01

Of course YANBU. Support who you like, it's only a sport.

Ohpleeeease · 11/06/2026 11:01

It was twatty to say you never support England, it sounds confrontational. Support who you like, it’s a free country (that you chose to live in).

TheJuryIsOut · 11/06/2026 10:58

Cooshawn · 11/06/2026 10:46

Probably in response to the weird over-zealousness so many england fans adopt. Or actually, more likely those who are only fans every couple of years for the major tournaments but could tell you little to nothing about most of the players in the squad.

Over zealousness? Wanting your country to win the World Cup is over zealous now is it? 🙄 Deary me.

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