Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To not support England?!

640 replies

Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 10:12

Live and work in England. Not English. My team didn’t qualify for the World Cup so I’m supporting Scotland! Lobe a plucky underdog, have some Scots heritage ( and some English to be fair) plus I NEVER support English sports teams. EVER.
Football has inevitably come up in the office and several colleagues are generally pissed off that I’m not supporting England, insist I should be etc etc. Stupidly I mentioned that I never support England … did not gone down well.
If you live here then you should etc etc

YANBU - support who you like!
YABU - you ingrate, you live in the country you should support the national team.

OP posts:
Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2026 13:19

HelenHan67 · 11/06/2026 13:04

I'm supporting France. No reason. I haven't told my colleagues though as they're all ardent England supporters. I like to pick a different team each tournament. I think it's because I don't really care.

Edited

I'm supporting France as my 3rd team behind England and Scotland. I've got them in the office sweepstake and took home the pot last time I got them. Plus, I like France and it's almost a second home for me.

118bd · 11/06/2026 13:18

Brefugee · 11/06/2026 12:55

Nah.

It is the rabid hatred. You won't support England because you "hate" (your words iirc) the players who play for PL teams?

That is part of the problem.

I support Sheffield Wednesday - i don't hate United or their fans. I support my local team (not in UK) but i don't hate all the other kwague teams. That is why so many people really can't stand football.

Honestly it’s not that deep.

I’m a passionate fan, hate was probably the wrong word but unfortunately I can’t turn my feelings off at the end of the season and suddenly get behind the players I have disliked from Aug-May.

Like I’ve said in a previous post it wouldn’t bother me at all if England did well or even won it, I’m not ‘rabid’ enough to be supporting whoever plays against them, I simply just wont be cheering them on. I’m gonna enjoy the World Cup as a football fan but just not support anyone in particular. Not sure how I’m part of any “problem”.

MajorProcrastination · 11/06/2026 13:16

You don't have to support any team that you don't want to support.

You can live in a country and not be that nationality and therefore not support that team in a national competition.

Supporting Scotland is a lovely way for you to still feel involved.

In the past I've been involved in sweepstakes for international sports competitions which has given me a team to follow even when Wales hasn't made it.

I see the comments saying "why would you set up home in a country and not support the national team" and I remember living in England during rugby world cups as a Welsh person and there was no way on earth that I would've switched loyalty! I have cousins who've been born in England and raised in England who have a Welsh parent and have played international sport for Wales. They are not going to support England in a sports competition even if they live and work in England.

I live in Wales and we have friends from England, Scotland, France and other countries. They will support their own home nations during the World Cup as is their right. They still engage fully in the community, they love living and working here and we love having them here. I would never ever expect or request or demand that they support Wales just because they live here.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 13:16

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2026 13:12

Oh come on. I'm an England supporter and even I can see that England fans have had a well earned reputation over the years. Domestic violence increases when England play, for a start. This isn't just by a few percentage points either - by 26% even if England win or draw and by 38% if they lose.

Given the recent penchant for adorning lamp posts and roundabouts with the George Cross to mark their territory, there's a hard core who are even more primed to cause trouble this time around.

I support the England team, and I want them to do well. But I'd much rather see the Tartan Army celebrating in the streets if we're talking about the fans.

Guess you haven't heard of the Old Firm? I also imagine domestic violence is the same across any country or club playing.

IcedPurple · 11/06/2026 13:16

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2026 13:12

Oh come on. I'm an England supporter and even I can see that England fans have had a well earned reputation over the years. Domestic violence increases when England play, for a start. This isn't just by a few percentage points either - by 26% even if England win or draw and by 38% if they lose.

Given the recent penchant for adorning lamp posts and roundabouts with the George Cross to mark their territory, there's a hard core who are even more primed to cause trouble this time around.

I support the England team, and I want them to do well. But I'd much rather see the Tartan Army celebrating in the streets if we're talking about the fans.

Can you be specific about recent poor behaviour involving travelling England fans?

It's easy to gush sentimental about the 'Tartan army' when they rarely qualify for major tournaments and are usually only involved for a short time (not slagging them off, it's simply the truth). Given the extremely poor behaviour seen by fans of certain teams in the Scottish domestic league, it's wishful thinking to imagine that Scottish fans as a whole are any 'better' than England fans.

Edenmum2 · 11/06/2026 13:15

IcedPurple · 11/06/2026 13:13

That was bad but it was an isolated incident which was widely and instantly condemned by everyone in the footballing world. Hardly indicative of the majority of England fans, who on the whole are as well behaved as any other group of international fans.

well I guess we just have different bars

IcedPurple · 11/06/2026 13:13

Edenmum2 · 11/06/2026 13:11

Well spraying offensive graffiti over a mural of Marcus rashford because he missed a penalty was pretty bad….hundreds of racist comments on Saka and Sancho’s social media….appreciate that was the euros but I felt truly ashamed to be English that day

That was bad but it was an isolated incident which was widely and instantly condemned by everyone in the footballing world. Hardly indicative of the majority of England fans, who on the whole are as well behaved as any other group of international fans.

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2026 13:12

IcedPurple · 11/06/2026 12:48

What 'behaviour' specifically? Have England fans behaved particularly badly at recent World Cups?

Oh come on. I'm an England supporter and even I can see that England fans have had a well earned reputation over the years. Domestic violence increases when England play, for a start. This isn't just by a few percentage points either - by 26% even if England win or draw and by 38% if they lose.

Given the recent penchant for adorning lamp posts and roundabouts with the George Cross to mark their territory, there's a hard core who are even more primed to cause trouble this time around.

I support the England team, and I want them to do well. But I'd much rather see the Tartan Army celebrating in the streets if we're talking about the fans.

Edenmum2 · 11/06/2026 13:11

IcedPurple · 11/06/2026 12:48

What 'behaviour' specifically? Have England fans behaved particularly badly at recent World Cups?

Well spraying offensive graffiti over a mural of Marcus rashford because he missed a penalty was pretty bad….hundreds of racist comments on Saka and Sancho’s social media….appreciate that was the euros but I felt truly ashamed to be English that day

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 13:07

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 13:03

Looks like I can't but sorry for the snappiness.

Ok no worries.

HelenHan67 · 11/06/2026 13:04

I'm supporting France. No reason. I haven't told my colleagues though as they're all ardent England supporters. I like to pick a different team each tournament. I think it's because I don't really care.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 13:03

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 13:00

Thank you.

Looks like I can't but sorry for the snappiness.

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 13:02

FridayFeelingIsTheBest · 11/06/2026 13:00

Don’t worry, I’m not even on here that often and I can see what is going on as I have seen the other threads. I’m sure others know too.

Edited

Can you give a clue about the nature of them?

FridayFeelingIsTheBest · 11/06/2026 13:00

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 12:58

Fair enough. I will probably get in trouble if I link the threads.

Don’t worry, I’m not even on here that often and I can see what is going on as I have seen the other threads. I’m sure others know too.

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 13:00

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 12:59

I am sorry. I will edit the post.

Edited

Thank you.

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 12:59

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 12:58

Fair enough. I will probably get in trouble if I link the threads.

I think that's the least of your worries. I have no idea why I am being personally attacked by you. I have no idea who you are.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 12:59

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 12:58

Oh wait, I'm getting the personal attacks now?

I am sorry. I will edit the post.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 12:59

BackToLurk · 11/06/2026 12:55

Probably “being a bit common”. MN hanging offence.

I suspect the main problem English fans have is the reputation going before them and then they get attacked by opposition fans.

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 12:58

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Oh wait, I'm getting the personal attacks now?

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 12:58

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 12:57

I don't know who it is!

Fair enough. I will probably get in trouble if I link the threads.

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 12:57

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

I don't know who it is!

HelenaWaiting · 11/06/2026 12:56

Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 10:12

Live and work in England. Not English. My team didn’t qualify for the World Cup so I’m supporting Scotland! Lobe a plucky underdog, have some Scots heritage ( and some English to be fair) plus I NEVER support English sports teams. EVER.
Football has inevitably come up in the office and several colleagues are generally pissed off that I’m not supporting England, insist I should be etc etc. Stupidly I mentioned that I never support England … did not gone down well.
If you live here then you should etc etc

YANBU - support who you like!
YABU - you ingrate, you live in the country you should support the national team.

Are you really this desperate for attention?

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 12:56

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Brefugee · 11/06/2026 12:55

118bd · 11/06/2026 11:25

Seriously?! 😂 if there was no rivalry it would be a much less interesting game

Nah.

It is the rabid hatred. You won't support England because you "hate" (your words iirc) the players who play for PL teams?

That is part of the problem.

I support Sheffield Wednesday - i don't hate United or their fans. I support my local team (not in UK) but i don't hate all the other kwague teams. That is why so many people really can't stand football.

BackToLurk · 11/06/2026 12:55

IcedPurple · 11/06/2026 12:48

What 'behaviour' specifically? Have England fans behaved particularly badly at recent World Cups?

Probably “being a bit common”. MN hanging offence.

Swipe left for the next trending thread