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To not support England?!

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Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 10:12

Live and work in England. Not English. My team didn’t qualify for the World Cup so I’m supporting Scotland! Lobe a plucky underdog, have some Scots heritage ( and some English to be fair) plus I NEVER support English sports teams. EVER.
Football has inevitably come up in the office and several colleagues are generally pissed off that I’m not supporting England, insist I should be etc etc. Stupidly I mentioned that I never support England … did not gone down well.
If you live here then you should etc etc

YANBU - support who you like!
YABU - you ingrate, you live in the country you should support the national team.

OP posts:
BashfulClam · 11/06/2026 15:08

LizardyGuts · 11/06/2026 14:46

Yes, that's why I said "and your country of origin". Of course your colleague wants England to win, but if they weren't in it at all would she not support Scotland more than another random team, since she lives in Scotland? It's fine if she wouldn't, but I think most people would, that's all.

Nah she doesn’t bother if England aren’t in it. We gave her a slight ribbing as her husband and son are Scotland supporters.

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 15:03

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 15:00

Of course she can. You missed my point though. Scotland have a shitty history with Ireland too.

I DON'T CARE. It's about 22 men kicking a ball!

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 15:00

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 14:57

She can support who she wants ffs.

Of course she can. You missed my point though. Scotland have a shitty history with Ireland too.

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 14:57

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 14:52

She shouldn't support Scotland either then. What a load of shit they did to Ireland too.

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She can support who she wants ffs.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 14:52

Goditsmemargaret · 11/06/2026 14:48

Hahahaha hahahaha OP, you're obviously Irish and therefore ywbvvvu to support England. 800 years and all that!

And to the sensitive English, you really should take all that energy you waste on being offended and use some of it reading a history book or two.

She shouldn't support Scotland either then. What a load of shit they did to Ireland too.

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 14:49

Dappy777 · 11/06/2026 14:18

I'm English, and can trace my family back to the 14th-century, but I won't be supporting England either – mainly because I don't feel English anymore. Why would I support a country in which it is controversial even to fly your national flag?! Any sense of living in a nation, with a shared history and a shared culture, is long dead.

The left got what they wanted. In 1997, a speechwriter for Blair said the plan was "to rub the right's nose in diversity and render their arguments out of date." That has been achieved. They have demonized our national heroes and taught us to feel ashamed of our history. God, Radio 4 can't even mention Jane Austen without linking her to slavery or colonialism. I'll watch the World Cup, but I couldn't care less about England.

All this about 22 grown men kicking a ball about a field.

Goditsmemargaret · 11/06/2026 14:48

Hahahaha hahahaha OP, you're obviously Irish and therefore ywbvvvu to support England. 800 years and all that!

And to the sensitive English, you really should take all that energy you waste on being offended and use some of it reading a history book or two.

LizardyGuts · 11/06/2026 14:46

BashfulClam · 11/06/2026 12:42

Not really, my colleague has lived in Scotland for over 30 years but she supports England as she is English. Why can’t you support whatever team you like. If Scotland don’t qualify I support France or Spain.

Yes, that's why I said "and your country of origin". Of course your colleague wants England to win, but if they weren't in it at all would she not support Scotland more than another random team, since she lives in Scotland? It's fine if she wouldn't, but I think most people would, that's all.

Dideon · 11/06/2026 14:43

maidai78 · 11/06/2026 11:47

I’m Irish and I live in England. I cheer for both teams, also cheered for France when I lived there. I don’t like the “never support England in anything” crowd

…. Because your obviously not insecure

Dappy777 · 11/06/2026 14:18

I'm English, and can trace my family back to the 14th-century, but I won't be supporting England either – mainly because I don't feel English anymore. Why would I support a country in which it is controversial even to fly your national flag?! Any sense of living in a nation, with a shared history and a shared culture, is long dead.

The left got what they wanted. In 1997, a speechwriter for Blair said the plan was "to rub the right's nose in diversity and render their arguments out of date." That has been achieved. They have demonized our national heroes and taught us to feel ashamed of our history. God, Radio 4 can't even mention Jane Austen without linking her to slavery or colonialism. I'll watch the World Cup, but I couldn't care less about England.

Livpool · 11/06/2026 14:05

OneEagerLeader · 11/06/2026 10:31

It's weird that you're making such a point of not supporting England.

That is the odd bit

IcedPurple · 11/06/2026 13:44

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2026 13:35

Can you be specific about recent poor behaviour involving travelling England fans?

You've changed the parameters of the question you originally asked, which was:

What 'behaviour' specifically? Have England fans behaved particularly badly at recent World Cups

I gave you an example of behaviour (domestic violence) by England fans that is worse during major tournaments. They might not have been rioting in the streets in recent times (excepting some notable disorder in Germany in 2024 of course...), granted. Yet, I should add.

My original question was about 'travelling England fans'.

So no, I didn't change the 'parameters' of my question.

Slowdownyouredoingfine · 11/06/2026 13:41

There’s a difference between supporting another country because it’s your home nation and making a point of saying you’ll never support England under any circumstances. The first is understandable, the second can come across as hostile or disrespectful. I think the way you expressed it was unnecessarily provocative, and I think you knew that.

Differentforgirls · 11/06/2026 13:41

SapphireSeptember · 11/06/2026 13:38

I usually support Italy and I was born and raised in England. I hate enforced patriotism. They didn't qualify, so I'll be supporting Scotland instead. (I have Italian and Scottish blood in me, as well as Welsh.)

You're one lucky person with that heritage!

KnowledgeableAvocado · 11/06/2026 13:40

Gosh how silly

SapphireSeptember · 11/06/2026 13:38

I usually support Italy and I was born and raised in England. I hate enforced patriotism. They didn't qualify, so I'll be supporting Scotland instead. (I have Italian and Scottish blood in me, as well as Welsh.)

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2026 13:35

IcedPurple · 11/06/2026 13:16

Can you be specific about recent poor behaviour involving travelling England fans?

It's easy to gush sentimental about the 'Tartan army' when they rarely qualify for major tournaments and are usually only involved for a short time (not slagging them off, it's simply the truth). Given the extremely poor behaviour seen by fans of certain teams in the Scottish domestic league, it's wishful thinking to imagine that Scottish fans as a whole are any 'better' than England fans.

Can you be specific about recent poor behaviour involving travelling England fans?

You've changed the parameters of the question you originally asked, which was:

What 'behaviour' specifically? Have England fans behaved particularly badly at recent World Cups

I gave you an example of behaviour (domestic violence) by England fans that is worse during major tournaments. They might not have been rioting in the streets in recent times (excepting some notable disorder in Germany in 2024 of course...), granted. Yet, I should add.

Nourishinghandcream · 11/06/2026 13:35

I am English born & bred but not supporting England.

That said, I am not supporting any country because as far as I am concerned it is a total non-event of absolutely no interest to me whatsoever.
My OH is exactly the same so there will definitely be no football in this house and no supporting of any team.

It's not just football, neither of us follow any type of sport.

Quine0nline · 11/06/2026 13:35

What were the teams which won lost in the African cup of nations whose performance caused massive rioting in Paris?

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 13:27

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2026 13:23

As a country, even taking account of your point about Celtic v Rangers, England still lead the pack. Every game, of every major tournament, the stats are similar. Not so with Scotland internationals.

I don't deny that but I do dispute that Scottish fans are a group of benign fans who never drink and never cause violence when they are away. Of course they do. However I think the behaviour of English fans has massively improved and I don't think I have read about many instances of violent disorder recently.

Marmalademorning · 11/06/2026 13:24

Support who you like OP. No one cares. Everyone is entitled to support which ever team they want 🤷‍♀️

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2026 13:23

DontBuyAnotherBook · 11/06/2026 13:16

Guess you haven't heard of the Old Firm? I also imagine domestic violence is the same across any country or club playing.

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As a country, even taking account of your point about Celtic v Rangers, England still lead the pack. Every game, of every major tournament, the stats are similar. Not so with Scotland internationals.

Slowdownyouredoingfine · 11/06/2026 13:21

Everyone but the English hates England in the World Cup, keeps it interesting. ❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

FridayFeelingIsTheBest · 11/06/2026 13:21

Edenmum2 · 11/06/2026 13:11

Well spraying offensive graffiti over a mural of Marcus rashford because he missed a penalty was pretty bad….hundreds of racist comments on Saka and Sancho’s social media….appreciate that was the euros but I felt truly ashamed to be English that day

Unless you had the spray paint and were making racist comments, why would you feel ashamed? I didn’t know any English fans involved in that and everyone I knew was disgusted. If you’re not doing it, you don’t need to feel ashamed, unless you believe in judging the many by the few. It’s not a good thing to do.

IcedPurple · 11/06/2026 13:19

Edenmum2 · 11/06/2026 13:15

well I guess we just have different bars

In the sense that I don't blame an entire fandom for the behaviour of a small group of people (many of them anonymous online posts) from several years ago then yeah, I guess we do.

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