To find lazy adults really grating?

Op will be tucked up in bed now anyway, ready for her sanctimoniously early arising.

It is only the lazy outlaws still up and going.

Do you think you’re better than anyone because of how you schedule your sleep? Bit mental and this post suggests you don’t have as much going on in your life as you think.

In this case, I think because OP is gobsmacked we haven't all been rushing to agree with her.

OP if you don't agree with her life style why is she your friend? So you can bitch about her? So you can feel better about yourself? So you can pat yourself on the back that "at least I am not like x"? There is a saying "Protect me Lord from my friends because from enemies I can protect myself". She is judging you because you judge her. Mind your own buisness and get of your high horse, you are no better than her because you sew and run. Better even, block her and never talk to her again. You will be doing her a favour, trust me.

I always struggled with early shifts, chose to do late shifts when not doing night in the nhs for 36yrs. Now at just 60 living with autoimmune diseases that looking back I think I had it from my late 20’s I now have stage 4 kidney disease about to start dialysis. Don’t judge, none of us know what’s around the corner.

You’re fucking insane.

This! Plus, how have we jumped from staying up late and having a lie in, to going straight to bed and eating a takeaway in bed?! Lol

You don't sound like much of a friend.
What is it about morning people thinking they are morally superior??

My sleeping patterns before kids were 2am til 10am and I would happily spend an entire Sunday in bed! Blissful..

Far from lazy, just ADHD and a later circadian rhythm. Was plenty productive in the other hours running a successful business that now fits around my kids. She has a full time job, just different ideas about what down time looks like.

You didn't go to work til about 1pm though to be fair.

Not the last time I went, but I have been before. And yes it is rather infamous!

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Have you ever worked in a nursery OP? It is physically and mentally exhausting. She is absolutely not lazy or she wouldn’t be doing that job.
After I’ve done the things that need done, I will just go and lie down and watch tv and chill. The last thing I want to do is go to the gym or out for a run!
We find enjoyment in different things, it doesn’t make me lazy.

How are you two even friends? From your posts it seems like she despises you, and obviously the feeling's mutual. We are only hearing your side of things so yes you are being unreasonable and should end the friendship for her sake...

I expect that most of the people on this thread are looking down on you. Tell your friend to sign up.

This is so nasty. I know who I’d rather be friends with.

Ah, so you are jealous.

It’s a shame that you haven’t spent your time educating yourself to either answer perfectly straightforward questions (that might actually result in greater support for your contention); or conduct an argument that supports your premise, rather than metaphorically sticking your fingers in your ears and stropping off. I have quite a lot of respect for your friend putting up with your “friendship” if you behave irl as you have on this thread. It sounds like she has the measure of you, and fights your ire with some humorous fire.

Haha! That's the equivalent of knowing people are talking sense but sticking your fingers in your ears and going Lalala!

Again, your reading comprehension isn’t the best, is it?

Did I say that I was pondering out loud and drawing comparisons to people I KNOW in real life? I don’t doubt there are people that just enjoy being active for the sake of being active, fair play to them.

But, in my experience (key phrase there), the people that fill every single minute of their day with activity are avoiding something.

I am dealing with vicarious trauma through my job so although I enjoy lying down and doing the bare minimum more than the average person, these days a big part of it comes from being chronically overwhelmed from keeping children safe from being neglected and abused.

Enjoy your gardening 💐

It's not a competition. Of course a fully manual job would be more tiring but the OP can't pretend that a shift in a nursery is lazy.

The more you post about her, the more amazing she sounds!!

Nobody was going to change your mind because you never had any intention of changing it! You are relishing putting your friend down too much. Enjoy polishing your halo.

Probably a good idea to end the friendship, since she annoys you so much.

Nobody’s really changed my mind to be honest.

I don't know whether to 😂or 🙄

Good luck with that....😄 You're just raging that people don't agree with you. Fair play to you, you've given it a good go...😂

🤣 had to check what board this was then. It is AIBU. Why do people ask questions they don’t want the answer to?