To be disappointed with how soft play handled this man

Very surprised at these comments, so many being ok with this.

A woman enjoying time with her child in a very very child-centric place should not ever have to endure Random Mediocre Man implying, completely out of the blue, that he would rather be paying money to buy "consent" to have her literal arsehole on his face.

Fucking pig, why can't he just focus solely on the time meant to be spent playing with his children? Porn sick loser.

They police our bodies and actions, they think they can comment on even the most thoroughly disinterested women's bodies in even the most unsexual venues. It's not funny or flattering, when so many of them objectify and ( eitherinsidiously or outright) hate us and enjoy our discomfort.

You’d have said to another woman ‘if I knew I’d get an arse on my face I’d have come here months ago?’

Weird

🤣🤣🤣 and back quietly out of the room with their hands up

Doesn't sound like it from his comment about how he would have paid for it

Dadsnet are probably suspecting the OP of being a pervert who shoves her bum in men's faces then gets off on reporting it.

Very surprised at these comments, so many being ok with this.

A woman enjoying time with her child in a very very child-centric place should not ever have to endure Random Mediocre Man implying, completely out of the blue, that he would rather be paying money to buy "consent" to have her literal arsehole on his face.

Fucking pig, why can't he just focus solely on the time meant to be spent playing with his children? Porn sick loser.

They police our bodies and actions, they think they can comment on even the most thoroughly disinterested women's bodies in even the most unsexual venues. It's not funny or flattering, when so many of them objectify and ( eitherinsidiously or outright) hate us and enjoy our discomfort.

What a filthy pervert. He probably seeks out environments where he can implant his head into unsuspecting woman’s arses

You’ll get a pile on saying this was a joke and to get over it, but I’d agree he should have been told to leave. We need to come down hard on all these comments by men every single time.
When my kids were toddlers, I was in a cafe and knelt down to tie it oldest son’s shoelace when a man at the next table open his legs a bit and said, “while you’re down there love” with a guffaw. I had a very loud reply, and they were asked to leave but only because I made a fuss and that cafe replied on mums with toddlers to earn it’s money.
It’s just men treating women as objects. It should be dealt with every time.

What a filthy pervert. He probably seeks out environments where he can implant his head into unsuspecting woman’s arses

I’m amazed he wasn’t accused of waiting at the bottom of the ladder to ensure OP got her arse in his face!

WTAF. You really need some help if this is how you are going through life. You know nothing about this man yet you have described him as mediocre, porn sick, a loser, a woman hater. He is just a man and a random woman put her arse in his face and he made a lighthearted comment. Jeez.

But her own spelling and punctuation was wrong too (she did edit it later)

Do you find that people around you tend to sigh a lot?

You’ll get a pile on saying this was a joke and to get over it, but I’d agree he should have been told to leave. We need to come down hard on all these comments by men every single time.
When my kids were toddlers, I was in a cafe and knelt down to tie it oldest son’s shoelace when a man at the next table open his legs a bit and said, “while you’re down there love” with a guffaw. I had a very loud reply, and they were asked to leave but only because I made a fuss and that cafe replied on mums with toddlers to earn it’s money.
It’s just men treating women as objects. It should be dealt with every time.

So you think men should be able to make unsolicited sexual 'jokes' to women, if they feel like it? And women should just take it? Why?

No, I wouldn't be wading into an in-depth discussion about the issue between many different people in softplay, so I wouldn't use it. It wouldn't be an appropriate context; the poor staff member would just be bewildered.

It's a little like how the man should've kept his sexual joke to his friends, instead of putting it onto the OP, unsolicited. There is a time, and a place.

Are you using “some people” to mean me? If so, please do just say so. No need to stand in ceremony being passive aggressive here. 🤣

I’m fully grown thanks. I just don’t find “jokes” like this man had aimed at OP funny. We do all have different senses of humour (and different boundaries as well) and if not finding this funny makes
me a humourless old prude, I accept that with pride.

Tbf you’re the one who shoved your arse in his face….

Very surprised at these comments, so many being ok with this.

A woman enjoying time with her child in a very very child-centric place should not ever have to endure Random Mediocre Man implying, completely out of the blue, that he would rather be paying money to buy "consent" to have her literal arsehole on his face.

Fucking pig, why can't he just focus solely on the time meant to be spent playing with his children? Porn sick loser.

They police our bodies and actions, they think they can comment on even the most thoroughly disinterested women's bodies in even the most unsexual venues. It's not funny or flattering, when so many of them objectify and ( eitherinsidiously or outright) hate us and enjoy our discomfort.