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AIBU to think customers’ behaviour about evacuating in the heavy rain was childish

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Loppp · 10/06/2026 12:45

I visited my local supermarket this morning. It was dry at the time. The supermarket’s fire alarms were going off, when the thunder and lightning happened along with torrential downpours.

Some customers were being difficult to evacuate the store as it was raining! Guessing that from those who moaned at the staff and security were the older side.

How pathetic did these customers sounded?

The fire assembly point is not under cover.

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Okiedokie123 · 13/06/2026 21:40

@Loppp as I said, we all have different skills. Plenty pf what you’ve said is offensive about other people.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 13/06/2026 21:33

And anyone over about fifty may have found your comments about "older people" offensive.

It's your shirt now!

Loppp · 13/06/2026 21:28

Okiedokie123 · 13/06/2026 21:23

I accept you maybe didn’t intend this thread as an opportunity for oldie bashing but as your grammar and punctuation is terrible I’ll happily bash that instead.
In addition, since when has it been acceptable to refer to anyone as “one bitch” in the way you have.
You are better at coping in a storm in the circumstances you’ve described but you lack skills in other ways. We are all different, maybe be kinder in future and less judgy!

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I find your comments over my grammar offensive. I am dysleixic.

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AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 13/06/2026 21:26

Better than who? The scores aren't in.
Let the gods of evolution say who'll win.
Better at what? In what way?
Let the gods of evolution have their say.

Okiedokie123 · 13/06/2026 21:23

Loppp · 10/06/2026 14:17

Yes. I did made a passing comment to one bitch

I accept you maybe didn’t intend this thread as an opportunity for oldie bashing but as your grammar and punctuation is terrible I’ll happily bash that instead.
In addition, since when has it been acceptable to refer to anyone as “one bitch” in the way you have.
You are better at coping in a storm in the circumstances you’ve described but you lack skills in other ways. We are all different, maybe be kinder in future and less judgy!

Loppp · 12/06/2026 06:11

SomeGarlic · 11/06/2026 20:58

I'm not surprised by the many depressing stories told here - though I'm shocked at the study showing most of the fatalities at Manchester Woolworths were those who stubbornly stayed in the cafeteria. It's one of those "How stupid can you be?" moments that remind you there's no limit to human idiocy.

So I shouldn't be surprised at so many PPs saying they wouldn't leave a building during a fire alarm or other emergency ... because they'd rather die in a fire than leave their shopping behind, their coffee unfinished or risk a lightning strike (!)

I hope you all enjoy your posthumous Darwin Awards 🤨

The serves them right analogy applies here

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daleylama · 11/06/2026 23:30

Loppp · 10/06/2026 17:09

I believe the tutting, whinging is louder from older people. Younger people keep their comments to themselves

You're really invested in dumping on 'older people' aren't you. Wondering what age you are - physically that is - you're already demonstrating your mental maturity

SomeGarlic · 11/06/2026 20:58

I'm not surprised by the many depressing stories told here - though I'm shocked at the study showing most of the fatalities at Manchester Woolworths were those who stubbornly stayed in the cafeteria. It's one of those "How stupid can you be?" moments that remind you there's no limit to human idiocy.

So I shouldn't be surprised at so many PPs saying they wouldn't leave a building during a fire alarm or other emergency ... because they'd rather die in a fire than leave their shopping behind, their coffee unfinished or risk a lightning strike (!)

I hope you all enjoy your posthumous Darwin Awards 🤨

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Loppp · 11/06/2026 20:38

ainsleysanob · 11/06/2026 20:05

Because they have been known to shove past our workmen, workmen have gone on lunch only to return and have been left with a present! The stories I get told are fascinating!

I meant doing a poo in one of the display loos you get in the likes of B&Q? A colleague's son works for B&Q and probably gets about the dummy toilets frequently. Never seen anyone do the act in the flesh but on CCTV.

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FFSItsTooHot · 11/06/2026 20:26

I don't think I'd be too thrilled about standing outside in heavy rain and a thunderstorm!

MibsXX · 11/06/2026 20:18

Loppp · 10/06/2026 13:15

My friend worked for a supermarket and the store flooded. Customers wanted to buy their shopping and refused to move even though they were ankle deep in water.

Its not like the supermarket is the only place where food is sold

Actually, where I live, the supermarket often floods and IS the only place to buy food at a sensible price! But still, we all shop elsewhere for a couple of weeks every two or three years!

ainsleysanob · 11/06/2026 20:05

Loppp · 11/06/2026 20:01

I had to Google Chapter 8 barriers. I recognise them

I bet these are the same people who move road closed signs then drive into floods or a massive hole dug out.

Actually if these idiots slip, trip and fall - they won’t be able to claim compensation. As supermarket will save CCTV footage of them moving barriers etc

Also ask anyone who works or has worked in a shop with bathrooms displays. They will all say they have found an unplumbed toilet on display with a poo in it. More to the point, how could they get away from doing a poo with other people about?

Because they have been known to shove past our workmen, workmen have gone on lunch only to return and have been left with a present! The stories I get told are fascinating!

Loppp · 11/06/2026 20:01

ainsleysanob · 11/06/2026 10:22

The company I work for do both planned and emergency maintenance works in the 3 largest supermarkets nationwide. You’d be surprised at just how idiotic many customers are! The will literally remove barriers, put there for their safety, venture into what is essentially a building site, so they can reach for a tin of beans. They will walk into closed customer toilets, removing chapter 8 barriers, and shit in toilets that haven’t even been plumbed in.

I had to Google Chapter 8 barriers. I recognise them

I bet these are the same people who move road closed signs then drive into floods or a massive hole dug out.

Actually if these idiots slip, trip and fall - they won’t be able to claim compensation. As supermarket will save CCTV footage of them moving barriers etc

Also ask anyone who works or has worked in a shop with bathrooms displays. They will all say they have found an unplumbed toilet on display with a poo in it. More to the point, how could they get away from doing a poo with other people about?

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Secretseverywhere · 11/06/2026 13:53

SerendipityJane · 11/06/2026 10:18

Wait till you hear what they do with people who die on flights ....

I have to admit I always just assumed they cover with a blanket and get in with it if a short flight.

SerendipityJane · 11/06/2026 11:39

You’d be surprised at just how idiotic many customers are!

I really, really, really wouldn't actually.

Little tip: Never make a bet where you need the phrase "nobody could be that stupid" to win.

ainsleysanob · 11/06/2026 10:22

The company I work for do both planned and emergency maintenance works in the 3 largest supermarkets nationwide. You’d be surprised at just how idiotic many customers are! The will literally remove barriers, put there for their safety, venture into what is essentially a building site, so they can reach for a tin of beans. They will walk into closed customer toilets, removing chapter 8 barriers, and shit in toilets that haven’t even been plumbed in.

SerendipityJane · 11/06/2026 10:18

Secretseverywhere · 10/06/2026 21:34

Its company policy in most bingo places, in theory it keeps things calm and prevents panic but ime there were some patrons muttering that it was shocking to carry on but vast majority were very pragmatic, She’d of wanted us to carry on type stuff. It was a good 25 years ago and the demographic was largely chain smoking ( you could smoke at bingo halls back then) ladies over pension age.

Wait till you hear what they do with people who die on flights ....

Girlsjustwannahavefunno1 · 11/06/2026 02:44

Aren't most buildings meant to have at least one drill every 6 months (recommended) or at least (legally) 1 x per year. I used to be a fire warden and we got told off once in an old building I was a receptionist for as my froend left her toast in the toaster and nearly burned the building down ...this was a long time ago though?

BlackRowan · 11/06/2026 01:25

It’s actually unsafe to stand outside when there is lightning. I’ve had lightning hit a tree 10 feet away from me and it’s not the experience I wish to repeat. I’m lucky and now I’m staying inside when there is a thunderstorm. So I would be pissed off too.

andnowwhatdowedo · 10/06/2026 22:25

So why 'guess' that the troublesome customers were on the old side?

Secretseverywhere · 10/06/2026 21:34

mercilousming · 10/06/2026 21:00

That's wild! Talk about committment!

Its company policy in most bingo places, in theory it keeps things calm and prevents panic but ime there were some patrons muttering that it was shocking to carry on but vast majority were very pragmatic, She’d of wanted us to carry on type stuff. It was a good 25 years ago and the demographic was largely chain smoking ( you could smoke at bingo halls back then) ladies over pension age.

ilovesooty · 10/06/2026 21:29

SockPlant · 10/06/2026 17:10

Oh but it is. Think about how you use words

Oh this thread has some gems from the OP. We've had someone defined as a bitch and a reference to chav kids as well.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 10/06/2026 21:25

Loppp
Excuse me I was not making this an ageist post. I was just commenting on people refusing to leave a supermarket fire alarm going off and those who were most reluctant to leave as it was tipping were on average older than the rest of the shoppers.

You had a valid point which you screwed up by being ageist. Repeatedly.

There was absolutely no need to emphasise any characteristic of the people involved in what you rightly saw as stupid and selfish behaviour in refusing to leave when there was a fire alarm – though you did not in fact say they had refused, only that they moaned about it – whether it was sex, age, colour, creed, sexuality, hair colour, nose shape or any damn thing whatever. Doubling down on your error really doesn't help your position.

grumpygrape · 10/06/2026 21:21

Loppp · 10/06/2026 21:17

I have no idea why posters think this was a drill. The fire alarm got triggered by thunder. Anyone who thinks of planning a drill in torrential rain. Well....

Some drills or tests will be driven by predetermined regularity. Who hasn’t seen the notice in hotel rooms saying the alarms with be tested on, say, Mondays at 10.00am ?

Low level regular drills can be moved to accommodate weather conditions but some drills must be performed regardless of the weather conditions or number of customers/guests/staff present.

OonaStubbs · 10/06/2026 21:20

Supermarkets seem to turn people into arseholes for some reason. I don't know why.