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New neighbour has asked us to stop construction until daughter has finished exams update.

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Grammarninja · 09/06/2026 18:50

So, the last thread filled up so quickly, I barely got a chance to reply to most people. I really wasn't expecting that but I was reassured by the vast majority of replies.
I always like to see a follow up so I'll post this for anyone who's interested.
Anyway, the neighbours turned down our offer of the office space for now but did say the may take us up on it in the coming weeks.
We now have issues on the other side as neighbour there has claimed that knocking our garden wall did damage to his conservatory window. Thankfully, our builders took photos of said conservatory before they knocked the wall as they've clearly been around the block a few times and cracks were there before.
Pretty sure we'll be social pariahs by the time we move in. Such a pity!
I will, of course, be delivering presents to both sets of neighbours in recognition of the hardship they're facing at the moment.

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BeSunnyLion · 09/06/2026 19:13

Check the time stamps on the photos of the builder he could be lying about the damage being there, it could also be he made it worse. A home with sour neighbours isn't nice to live in no matter how fabulous.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 09/06/2026 19:11

Poppy2520 · 09/06/2026 19:04

Huh? I've just came across this thread? So I am taking it you have bought your house and your well in your rights to do renovation works as long as goes with council regulations in how high a fence is etc? I don't know whole story, but I am sorry for the neighbours to ask you to postpone works to your garden until there daughter passes her exams is bewildering! Unless she has a condition that restricts her from going to a nice quiet public library or even using the school to revise? I just found this strange, it's a good job your neighbours don't stay were I am and local works getting done on a regular basis from the council fixing streets etc, is your neighbour going to go ask them to stop there works so there daughter can study, I probably will get backlash here but heho, if was my house and I was getting my garden renovated to actually make the neighborhood more appealing then I probably be more inclined to offer the work to be completed before the summer months and you distract them from sitting in there gardens peacefully. If I have got all this wrong then I do so apologise and accept my opinion is not valid, but that is all it is end of the day, and opinion. Cheers.

Well you’ve only just come across this thread because it was only posted 14 minutes before you commented 😆.

Zanatdy · 09/06/2026 19:09

Exams are not far from finished. My DD is doing her A levels and done a week tomorrow, and most of her friends finish before her. Think GCSEs finish bit earlier. Cheeky beggers re conservatory, some people are so cheeky. Would have loved to have seen their face when builders showed them the photos taken pre work commencing.

Scrumptiousy · 09/06/2026 19:07

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Poppy2520 · 09/06/2026 19:04

Huh? I've just came across this thread? So I am taking it you have bought your house and your well in your rights to do renovation works as long as goes with council regulations in how high a fence is etc? I don't know whole story, but I am sorry for the neighbours to ask you to postpone works to your garden until there daughter passes her exams is bewildering! Unless she has a condition that restricts her from going to a nice quiet public library or even using the school to revise? I just found this strange, it's a good job your neighbours don't stay were I am and local works getting done on a regular basis from the council fixing streets etc, is your neighbour going to go ask them to stop there works so there daughter can study, I probably will get backlash here but heho, if was my house and I was getting my garden renovated to actually make the neighborhood more appealing then I probably be more inclined to offer the work to be completed before the summer months and you distract them from sitting in there gardens peacefully. If I have got all this wrong then I do so apologise and accept my opinion is not valid, but that is all it is end of the day, and opinion. Cheers.

cherrypipp · 09/06/2026 18:59

I have a neighbour who asked us to pause construction every day for 2hrs from 1 to 3 so he could nap.

Scrumptiousy · 09/06/2026 18:59

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