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Fed up with colleague rimming this down my throat?

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Glasgowrache · 09/06/2026 18:48

I’ve a colleague who I get along with at work, we chat and know a reasonable amount about each other.

She has dated a few people over the past year of two, she’s currently seeing someone who is getting divorced. It seems to be getting a bit serious in her words (only been a few weeks) and they’ve discussed buying a house down the line.

He has a very well paying job and she has said they’ll either be able to buy somewhere and be Mortgage free, or buy a big house in a great area which she never thought she’d be able to live in. Great, I do want her to be happy.

My ‘AIBU’ is whether I am wrong to feel fed up with her mentioning his wealth at every opportunity, and how she could never dream of ‘being mortgage free at her age’. It is starting to feel gloaty now…

OP posts:
thistimelastweek · 09/06/2026 18:52

She would be very foolish to be putting this much store on a relationship of a few weeks standing.
And yes, tedious to listen to.

reallyagainplease · 09/06/2026 18:51

Well that wasn’t the post I expected to read!

Glasgowrache · 09/06/2026 18:51

Ffs 😂ramming is what I meant of course!

OP posts:
BreadInCaptivity · 09/06/2026 18:51

YANBU - Rimming at work…you need a career change😂

TheCurious0range · 09/06/2026 18:51

Not a word my autocorrect jumps to....

UnimatrixZeroOne · 09/06/2026 18:50

Get your title adjusted! 😅

PrueRamsay · 09/06/2026 18:50

Interesting thread title…

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