Fed up with colleague rimming this down my throat?

Lol my reaction too!

This. Just nod and smile.
If it happens, good luck to her. But seems very premature of her.

Reply with "that's nice for you" and move on to another subject.

Thanks for the laugh with the title !

Sounds like a lot of things will have to fall into place for her to have this dream come true. No point saying anything to her as she’s in a bubble, but I would just be very busy and distracted when she talks and not comment back at all if you can help it. The more you engage in it now the more you’ll be dragged into it if it all goes wrong and she wants to talk to you about that too.

So after likely giving half of the marital assets to his wife, including the existing house, and paying child support he is likely not going to be mortgage free himself and I doubt his plans include putting her on the deeds and making her mortgage free at a stroke. She might get to move to pay "rent", and provide domestic and sexual services to the chap - the cooking, the cleaning, the grocery shopping etc. Just keep saying vaguely, "How lovely". I think reality is going to catch up with her shortly.

Why are you giving her the time of day.
Can't you have your coffee somewhere else. Or when she speaks to you say. Sorry you are busy.

Her story sounds like complete BS

I'd be worried she was setting herself up for heartbreak or at least a very difficult situation. I would be tempted to say that I'm concerned about it all moving too quickly, because he's not even divorced yet, there are teens involved, and even if the friend and the new man stay together, dealing with a recent ex-wife and teens who have just been through a big upheaval is bound to bring a lot of difficulties and challenges.

But she would probably just think you were envious and wanted to be negative.

So I don't think there's much you can do about it except nod and smile, or say straight up, with some humour, "Well, I'm happy for you, but since I'll be working for decades yet, put a sock in it would you!"

When my dad was going through divorce I’m sure he was telling his 29 year old gf how loaded he was and how they were going to live happily ever after in a big house.. but he was also sobbing on the phone to my mum every night begging to come home 😭😭 can’t trust a word a lot of these men say

If it sounds too good to be true, it usually is. Get her a reservation at Heartbreak Hotel. Maybe she has a lot to learn and a few more frogs to kiss before she comes back down to earth.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 just leave me here I’ve died

Are there sound effects too?

Still making me laugh. 😁

Ramming, Rimming both are open to sniggering comments…and I’m hear for it 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Irritating granted, but get over it. There are plenty of dickheads out there.

TbH sounds like shes falling for some serious bullshit. Divorced men do not tend to be rolling in it especially if they have kids.. I'd be more worried about mopping up copious tears in a few months time! but yep a pain to.listen to...

You're right to be annoyed... That's going to make you late to the fisting... 😐

I’d never heard of rimming in my late 20s, I’m now 54.

I would have to change my surname LOL!!! Mind you, when you were younger/when I was younger, the term 'rimm-ing' wasn't a thing (I don't think so anyway. I hadn't heard of it myself til this century ...)

I think I’d smile kindly, drink my brew and let her get on with it

I met a girl through work events and became friends with her. She had been with her DP for years - he had a very well paying job, slightly older than her and he had got in at a good time with buying his property so now was mortgage free AND had serious equity

She told me they were looking for large 4-5 bed houses in my area - she has one child who wasn’t his - and she would be mortgage free, able to go part time or if they bought a slightly smaller/cheaper house she could give up work altogether. I even sent her details on a few I’d seen near to me

Ive no doubt she loudly told a LOT of people

Fast forward 12 months and there was no move, they have in fact split up. And she’s back in her smallish house she had rented out to move into his house.

I feel so sorry for her. I’ve no doubt she’s had to have a large slice of humble pie

She sounds like an arse

Maybe OP’s colleague would secretly like to be rimmed by her or vice versa?!

🤣🤮

Honestly? He’s getting divorced and has children. If he really is rich then the divorce is going to take a while … and he will be appalled to discover that his wife is entitled to half.

At best this won’t last long, he wants a distraction but he won’t be in a position to get serious for quite a long time.

At worst, he could really do with somewhere decent to live and someone to help feed / clothe / house his children when they are with him.

The title of this post pulled me in. It promised so much.

......

And delivered so little.

I'm gutted. 😭