Context. Me and DD’s father met in 2017. DD
born 2019.
Broke up last year. Reconciling.
Durinf the relationship I put myself on the back burner, we only did stuff if I paid, I bought him clothes etc. he works full time. I paid all the bills.
We live apart now but have been seeing each other and coparenting. Reconciling to an extent.
I get 200 a month CSA. He doesn’t have DD overnight.
He still gets treats off me etc. Has been hounding me to sort DD’s passport out as she’s never been abroad.
I paid the fee. We went to the cinema on Friday paid for by me.
I put petrol in his car. I also do not have a lot of time to myself and virtually no social life as we coparent he doesn’t have DD alone.
He’s messaged me today saying he’s in Benidorm with his friend. I didn’t know anything about this.
I am so upset and hurt.
I know im gonna get harsh comments. I had a very angry dad and an overly critical self absorbed mum so my views on relationships have been skewed. Most men I’ve dated have had issues. I put up with it because I don’t know anything different.
AIBU to be fucking angry at him and myself!
Please give me a shake.