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To be sick of threads being removed ‘at the request of the author’

82 replies

Lilaleily · 07/06/2026 21:52

It’s almost always someone who’s not getting the response they want and is having a flounce. But everyone else has given their time and energy to the thread and having their conversations wiped out is just not on.

MN should provide the option to remove the ops posts past the first one as a gesture but stop deleting whole threads. It’s happened multiple times in a couple of days to me. What’s the point of a forum?

OP posts:
followtheswallow · 07/06/2026 22:01

I think some replies on here can be bloody awful and if it’s having a detrimental impact on somebody then absolutely they can remove it.

I don’t give a stuff if it upsets some indignant MNetter.

LadyLooo · 07/06/2026 22:00

YANBU OP although I'm a bit torn.

I do believe posters should be able to have their threads removed if they're causing them distress.

But on the other hand, some take the piss.

They get a thread removed and then start another one on the same subject a couple of days later.

Arlanymor · 07/06/2026 22:00

mumofoneAloneandwell · 07/06/2026 21:56

Its not always women

I'm also not always sure they are people. Honestly I think alien civilisations are already here from outer space judging by some of the nonsense that people spout!

*To be fair to aliens, they are just adjusting to life on earth...

Fridgemanageress · 07/06/2026 21:58

mumofoneAloneandwell · 07/06/2026 21:56

Its not always women

🤣

mumofoneAloneandwell · 07/06/2026 21:56

Fridgemanageress · 07/06/2026 21:55

Why do grown women behave like that?

Its not always women

Over It Whatever GIF
Fridgemanageress · 07/06/2026 21:55

mumofoneAloneandwell · 07/06/2026 21:54

Some people pile on to the op, out of pure nastiness tbh, as annoying as it can be when you've offered genuine advice

Why do grown women behave like that?

mumofoneAloneandwell · 07/06/2026 21:54

Some people pile on to the op, out of pure nastiness tbh, as annoying as it can be when you've offered genuine advice