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Any coming back from this ick? Really like the man

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Rainss2 · 07/06/2026 20:47

This is a terribly awkward one but I don’t think there’s any coming back from the ick I am currently experiencing! The man I’ve been dating for about 3 months and really like sent me a photo earlier, except it wasn’t intended for me. It was meant to be sent to some of his mates in a group chat they have. They share particularly disgusting, um, ‘doings’ from their bathroom trips. I replied with a hmm emoji and he then deleted it and was really apologetic, but I have the major ick now!

Is there any coming back?!

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parietal · 07/06/2026 20:53

Just put it entirely out of your mind and concentrate on the good things about him. You know people use the bathroom, that isn't a surprise. he is dumb to share photos, but that is all. so if you want the relationship to grow, just pretend you never saw the picture and concentrate on other stuff.

Gloriia · 07/06/2026 20:52

Fatiguedwithlife · 07/06/2026 20:50

i sent a photo of a massive poo I did to DP the other day. Sorry

Why?!

TomatoSandwiches · 07/06/2026 20:52

There's no coming back from that, never.

Gloriia · 07/06/2026 20:52

Omg no 🤮, is this a thing do men share shit pics? Surely not.

Run for the hills.

Fatiguedwithlife · 07/06/2026 20:50

i sent a photo of a massive poo I did to DP the other day. Sorry

Brightbluesomething · 07/06/2026 20:50

No there’s no coming back from an ick.
Whenever you look at him you’ll see that log and be reminded that he’s a teenager in a man’s body.

Rainss2 · 07/06/2026 20:49

Arlanymor · 07/06/2026 20:49

Is he 12?

Ha, no he’s in his 30’s.

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ForSnappySwan · 07/06/2026 20:49

Sounds funny - I wouldn't be too bothered about it

Arlanymor · 07/06/2026 20:49

Is he 12?

Rainss2 · 07/06/2026 20:49

Offherrockingchair · 07/06/2026 20:48

That’s grim! No thanks! And are you sure it was an accident?!

Yes sure of it, he was mortified!

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Offherrockingchair · 07/06/2026 20:48

That’s grim! No thanks! And are you sure it was an accident?!

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