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Holidaymodeon · 07/06/2026 09:30

Hi, posting here for traffic!
Writing a grievance, ACAS has advised it but won’t read it prior to sending.
Can’t go to citizens advice as it is linked to my work…
is there a legitimate organisation who will read my grievance prior to sending?
it is long and covers so many issues in multiple areas, primarily disability discrimination, bullying and poor, possibly illegal practices but I am conscious I am coming from a place of high stress and emotion as well as sick with pain and don’t want to write a sprawling document that might be overkill and not taken seriously.
I’m neurodivergent and have been told I give too much info and find it really hard to pare down whilst maintaining the importance of the grievance.

thank you

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ExtraOnions · 07/06/2026 09:41

Are you the poster that was let go during probation? I think you said it was due to lack of adjustment being made for your ND.

Motnight · 07/06/2026 09:40

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ProudCat · 07/06/2026 09:39

Your union. Won't deal with pre-existing stuff

Tinglylips · 07/06/2026 09:38

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Tinglylips · 07/06/2026 09:37

Of course you can go to citizens advice. Strictly confidential

Motnight · 07/06/2026 09:36

Op can I ask, have you posted about this before?

Darker · 07/06/2026 09:35

Unions (well, my union) won’t help with a pre-existing issue.

Can you get a friend to read it through?

Quine0nline · 07/06/2026 09:35

HeidiAI as well.

Inmysportsmumera · 07/06/2026 09:33

join a union - they are normally only around £7-£10 per month. They will help you

RoseField1 · 07/06/2026 09:31

Put it through chatgpt but tell it not to change the wording, just give you feedback on strengths and areas to change.