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AIBU to expect my neighbour to cut back their overgrown tree?

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Nicolasaa9 · 06/06/2026 20:43

I know some of you may disagree, but I’m genuinely looking for advice.

I’m disabled, use a wheelchair, and have severe mobility issues after breaking my spine ten years ago. My neighbour has a tree that’s now around 25 feet tall in our very teeny tiny new build gardens. It’s basically taking up a 1/4 of their garden and It’s growing into my garden, has damaged my fence, blocked our drains twice with leaves, blocks my garden drainage by my doors and constantly covers my AstroTurf in debris.

I had artificial grass installed because I physically can’t maintain a garden, but the mess from this tree has made it impossible to keep tidy and it’s ruined my garden! I’ve politely asked my neighbours several times to trim it back and have sent notes, but nothing has been done. Even our HOA has asked them, but because the tree is on private property, they say they can’t enforce anything.

I just feel it’s inconsiderate at this point, it’s so tall I need hire someone with equipment to cut it back and I really can’t afford to pay a gardener right now. Yes I have people who can help cut it but it’s so tall you would need equipment. I would never expect my neighbours to put up with damage and ongoing mess from something on my property and it makes me so depressed because it’s basically ruining my garden, what would you do in this situation? The council said they can’t do anything as it’s not causing an issue to public paths or anything

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FoxtrotOscarKindaDay · 07/06/2026 21:37

OneThreadOnlybyN · 07/06/2026 02:53

Yes wheelchairs just love gravel.

being disabled people have to make all kinds if unwanted compromises. It might nit be Jew gardens, but it's an adapted outside sauce.

Take your Astro turf issue up with less worthy uses of it.

I have as much right to complain about people using environmentally damaging fake grass as anyone has to complain about leaves falling from a tree making their fake grass messy.

Not that it is any of your business but @Nicolasaa9 isn't the only person with disabilities on this thread. You feel better taking your attitude out on another disabled person because you don't like their opinion?

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AllyMacbealmyarse · 07/06/2026 15:32

LoremIpsumCici · 06/06/2026 22:49

Sorry what? We do know
It’s growing into my garden, has damaged my fence, blocked our drains twice with leaves, blocks my garden drainage by my doors - OP

That’s obviously the leaves- leaves blowing into a garden does not reach an actionable standard, nor could the op prove they’re from the neighbour’s tree.

DrPrunesqualer · 07/06/2026 11:59

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 07/06/2026 11:52

I’m confused how a tree can grow that high in what you say is a new build
Was it there when you bought?

actually this, have also used the good
ol AI to ask how old would the tree be and it’s said can’t be either of the trees op thinks *If either a Japanese Pittosporum (Pittosporum tobira) or a Griselinia (Griselinia littoralis) managed to reach the height of a standard 3-story UK house (9 to 12 metres), it would be an absolute geriatric titan of a plant.
In fact, for one of them, it’s practically impossible, while for the other, it would take generations. then says if they were would be 50-80 years! Not a gardener so have no idea if is true!

Exactly
I’m wondering if original trees on the plot were left
Some better developers do this
In which case it may have a tpo

Nevertheless if it was there before OP bought, which it seems likely, people who don’t like trees would be wise not to buy a house with a big one next door
🤷‍♀️

DrPrunesqualer · 07/06/2026 11:55

giantlemons · 07/06/2026 03:55

I have a slightly different problem, neighbours giant tree has pushed concrete fence post over into our garden and knocked two panels down but it is their fence not ours. Should they legally pay to dig out the old fence post and put new panels in? They don’t want to know and it’s sticking out onto our patio. It also now reaches the whole width of our garden (3meters), is blocking light into the house (terraced) Patio and furniture gets covered in bird poo, patio isn’t level now because of roots. We could trim branches on our side but it’s taller than the house and I think that can make it unstable. I love trees but some are too big for small spaces!

They don’t legally have to have a fence at all
They must however ensure what they do have is safe
If it’s falling into your garden ask them to remove it within a specified period of time. If they don’t Suggest telling them you will Remove it yourself and give it to them

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 07/06/2026 11:52

I’m confused how a tree can grow that high in what you say is a new build
Was it there when you bought?

actually this, have also used the good
ol AI to ask how old would the tree be and it’s said can’t be either of the trees op thinks *If either a Japanese Pittosporum (Pittosporum tobira) or a Griselinia (Griselinia littoralis) managed to reach the height of a standard 3-story UK house (9 to 12 metres), it would be an absolute geriatric titan of a plant.
In fact, for one of them, it’s practically impossible, while for the other, it would take generations. then says if they were would be 50-80 years! Not a gardener so have no idea if is true!

feelingalittlehorse · 07/06/2026 11:50

OP, you just need to get someone - a tree surgeon, gardener whatever to cut back the bits that are overhanging your fence/ garden. You can do that legally without your neighbours permission.

DrPrunesqualer · 07/06/2026 11:46

Soontobe60 · 07/06/2026 11:43

A wheelchair user would find a tiled patio area much easier to navigate on than plastic grass.

Agree the gaps allow the soil underneath to breath aswel
which
whilst not as great as grass does at least not kill the entire ecosystem underground

DrPrunesqualer · 07/06/2026 11:45

I’m confused how a tree can grow that high in what you say is a new build
Was it there when you bought?

Nevertheless
The only issue I can see is that it’s potentially damaging your fence.
In which case you need to get someone in to see if it’s the tree that's actually doing that.

In terms of leaves that’s not the neighbours responsibility and a gardener will help clear that up
Or. Put the grass bavk and they’ll mulch down as nature intended

In terms of overhanging branches you can legally have them cut back on your side. It’s not your neighbours legal responsibility to do that or to not allow you to

Ultimately if you are struggling to maintain your garden you need to get help with that or consider in the long term to live somewhere without a private garden.

Soontobe60 · 07/06/2026 11:43

OneThreadOnlybyN · 07/06/2026 02:28

Picking on a disabled person for using fake grass to make their garden manageable is a lie blue. Proud of yourself?

A wheelchair user would find a tiled patio area much easier to navigate on than plastic grass.

Soontobe60 · 07/06/2026 11:40

LoremIpsumCici · 06/06/2026 21:11

Yes, but a 25ft monstrosity in a tiny postage stamp garden is going to cause more damage than good.

So is loads of plastic on the floor instead of grass!

OP, you need to get yourself a leaf blower to sort the leaves out. We have one that sucks up leaves and shreds them too - takes 10 minutes to clear our back garden.
https://www.screwfix.com/p/mac-allister-mbv2800-2800w-230-240v-corded-blower-vac/404fg

GottaBeStrong · 07/06/2026 11:34

I don't know how long you've been in the property OP, but I would have thought trying to pay someone to cut the tree back on your side before it became such a massive job would have been the best course of action. So if you do pay to get a tree surgeon to cut it back on your side, then perhaps factor in ongoing maintenance.

I'm disabled and have to pay a gardener out of my PIP to mow my lawn every fortnight. I then have to pay him extra for one off jobs to maintain the garden such as cutting things back and tidying up areas where bits have blown in from other gardens.

IamFamousIam · 07/06/2026 10:31

I think we can cut the OP some slack for having astro turf.
”I’m disabled, use a wheelchair, and have severe mobility issues after breaking my spine ten years ago”

OP doesn’t have money for a Gardener.

I would assume if op can’t afford a gardener then she is probably not jetting off on holiday very often so we can cut her some slack for wanting to cut down one tree.

justasking111 · 07/06/2026 10:16

I know someone with artificial grass who uses some type of garden vacuum cleaner.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 07/06/2026 09:40

Meadowfinch · 07/06/2026 03:27

Yabu. Pp are right. Leaves drop off deciduous trees and it is your job to keep your gutters and drains clear. Having plastic grass is an issue. If you had ordinary grass the leaves would break down into the soil.

How has it damaged your fence? This is the only bit that it is reasonable to expect some action on. You could arrange to have the tree cut back on your side if it is annoying you that much.

This, am assuming the leaves just lie on top of the artificial grass whereas had it been real grass and soil as @Meadowfinch put they would compost down on it?

fluffiphlox · 07/06/2026 09:36

If you have your side trimmed you give your neighbour the off cuts if they want them but you can’t bill them.

HoraceCope · 07/06/2026 09:31

can you claim the broken fence on their insurance
do you have tree insurance?

NaiceCupOTea · 07/06/2026 09:31

I am with the OP on this one. I think it's outrageous that you, not your neighbour, is responsible for their tree growing into your property. My neighbour has a 25ft high leylandii hedge which is overgrowing into my garden and will require a tree surgeon to cut it back. But I'm the one who has to pay for it, but it's not my tree?

I'm going to ask my neighbour if they will pay towards it or at least pay half, but legally they can tell me to shove it.

Seems mad.

APC303 · 07/06/2026 09:30

Hoardasurass · 07/06/2026 08:53

Leaves blocking a drain is not something that the op can sue over. This is because the 1st question she will be asked is what she did to prevent the blockage and her answer would be nothing. Whereas there's plenty of things she could do such as cut any overhanging branches off or raking up the leaves from her garden before they get washed into her drains.
Damage to the fence if its a fence that the op is responsible for and the tree can be proven to have caused the damage then yes she can sue in small claims crt for the fence.
Damage yo the house would require, evidence of damage and a structural engineers report that was 100% certain that any structural damage was caused by the tree and that there's no other causes or contributing causes.
Even if you can prove the tree has caused and will continue to cause damage to your property it still wouldn't be an excuse or mitigating circumstances when it comes to criminal damage, worse it will be treated as a crime in criminal crt and civil judges don't like it when you break the law to remedy a crt matter, it usually ends up with you receiving a greatly reduced settlement or loosing your case.
The law is not your friend when you use illegal tactics and then come to crt.

51% certain, and only contributory factor not the sole or dominant cause.

APC303 · 07/06/2026 09:29

LoremIpsumCici · 06/06/2026 21:43

A neglected overgrown tree the owners refuse to properly care for is hazardous to other plant and animal life as well as humans.

Overgrown trees can lead to many problems for your garden. These trees affect everything from soil health to safety. Large trees create hidden dangers that grow worse over time.
Starving Nearby Plants of Sunlight
Dense canopies create thick shade that kills your garden. Overgrown trees can overshadow smaller plants in your garden completely. You’ll notice patchy grass and yellowing leaves. Your vegetables stop growing, and flowers won’t bloom properly.
Nutrient Competition in the Soil
Tree roots spread wide and steal water from other plants. Overgrown roots take most nutrients before flowers can use them. Your plants wilt even when you water them regularly. The soil stays dry near the tree base.
Increased Risk of Plant Disease Spread
Poor airflow around thick foliage creates damp conditions everywhere. Pests and diseases thrive in the dark, wet spots in your garden. Mold grows easily in these shaded areas. You’ll see powdery mildew and black spots on leaves.
Pest Harborage
Overgrown and unkept branches provide insects and rodents perfect hiding places. You’ll find chewed leaves and bug problems throughout your garden. Animal droppings appear on your plants regularly.
Root Damage to Garden Structures
Underground roots push into raised beds and damage pipes. They break through concrete and garden edging. Structural damage appears as cracked walkways and lifted soil. Your garden borders become misaligned and uneven.
Weakened Branches as Hazards
Heavy falling branches threaten people and damage property during storms. Weak limbs break easily, especially during storms or high winds. You’ll see low-hanging branches and splitting bark. Light winds drop twigs and small branches regularly.
Disturbed Soil Structure and Erosion
Aggressive roots change how water moves through your garden. Shaded areas develop bare patches and uneven ground. Water does not drain properly but pools in strange spots instead. It makes the soil become unstable and hard to work on.

AI slop

Plumbed · 07/06/2026 09:27

Check local restrictions.
Save up and use a tree surgeon. You can’t bill them.
If the fence is very damaged claim on insurance against them.

Onlyme7575 · 07/06/2026 09:24

LoremIpsumCici · 06/06/2026 21:10

I’d secretly poison the tree in your position.
If it’s diseased/dying, they will be forced to cut it down.

This comment is so wrong.:(

Hoardasurass · 07/06/2026 09:21

giantlemons · 07/06/2026 03:55

I have a slightly different problem, neighbours giant tree has pushed concrete fence post over into our garden and knocked two panels down but it is their fence not ours. Should they legally pay to dig out the old fence post and put new panels in? They don’t want to know and it’s sticking out onto our patio. It also now reaches the whole width of our garden (3meters), is blocking light into the house (terraced) Patio and furniture gets covered in bird poo, patio isn’t level now because of roots. We could trim branches on our side but it’s taller than the house and I think that can make it unstable. I love trees but some are too big for small spaces!

In your case it would depend on the age and type of tree, how long it has been there, whether it provides a "protected habitat for wildlife" or if it has a TPO
You should contact both your insurance provider and local council because your council may be able to order the felling of the tree if you can prove that its causing a statutory nuisance or damage to your house but even if you can prove both its still not a guarantee that they will order its felling.
Also if cutting the tree back to the fence line would cause harm to the tree (due to cutting half the canopy off for example) then you cant legally do so and really should have kept cutting it back each year before it got to the point that its canopy covers the entire width of your garden.
I'm not saying this to be a dick but because I've seen loads of this over the last few years due to trees planted 100+ years ago when a local village was expanded and they planted trees in the pavement but the council haven't maintained them for over a decade and they've caused all sorts of damage to the pavement, roads and houses in the village and nobody can get them felled or polaxed as they provide a "protected habitat for wildlife"
Good luck with your tree problems

Middlechild3 · 07/06/2026 09:20

PinkTonic · 06/06/2026 21:00

The only thing you’ve mentioned which is genuinely a reasonable thing to bring up with them is the fence if the tree has actually damaged it. Leaves fall off deciduous trees and blow about. It’s unreasonable to expect other people to keep their gardens like deserts just because you prefer plastic. You either need to pay someone to keep your garden tidy or live somewhere where you aren’t responsible for a garden.

So true, strange state of affairs when people choose to have gardens with artificial grass then moan when real leaves droo or blow onto it. Nature is nature. Embrace the beauty and messiness. Life isn't all about order and sanitation.

Hoardasurass · 07/06/2026 08:53

LoremIpsumCici · 06/06/2026 22:49

Sorry what? We do know
It’s growing into my garden, has damaged my fence, blocked our drains twice with leaves, blocks my garden drainage by my doors - OP

Leaves blocking a drain is not something that the op can sue over. This is because the 1st question she will be asked is what she did to prevent the blockage and her answer would be nothing. Whereas there's plenty of things she could do such as cut any overhanging branches off or raking up the leaves from her garden before they get washed into her drains.
Damage to the fence if its a fence that the op is responsible for and the tree can be proven to have caused the damage then yes she can sue in small claims crt for the fence.
Damage yo the house would require, evidence of damage and a structural engineers report that was 100% certain that any structural damage was caused by the tree and that there's no other causes or contributing causes.
Even if you can prove the tree has caused and will continue to cause damage to your property it still wouldn't be an excuse or mitigating circumstances when it comes to criminal damage, worse it will be treated as a crime in criminal crt and civil judges don't like it when you break the law to remedy a crt matter, it usually ends up with you receiving a greatly reduced settlement or loosing your case.
The law is not your friend when you use illegal tactics and then come to crt.