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TalkToTheHand123 · 06/06/2026 14:00

Rainbows everywhere. Hi. I walked into the office building yesterday and rainbow stuff everywhere. Nearby nursery has all rainbow colours on fencing and there was an ambulance with rainbow colours. A bit ridiculous?

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Sesma · 07/06/2026 19:52

It's just another one of those things that has gone a bit over the top like everything does here. A load of rainbows suddenly appeared in the covid times, were they for Pride or something different that went along with the manic clapping and pot banging.

PinkyFlamingo · 07/06/2026 19:45

Are you homophobic?

GeneralPeter · 07/06/2026 19:43

EmBear91 · 07/06/2026 18:47

Actually it’s nothing to do with wanting to change bigots minds. I couldn’t give a shit about homophobes, transphobes etc. It’s actually to represent to the people in the LGBTQ community that you are a safe space. I’m a queer woman and midwife and I want everyone to know that I am a safe person so will continue to wear a pride badge at work.

Is there something about you that would make people suspect you would discriminate on grounds of sexuality if you didn’t wear a badge?

Once you’ve bought into that premise, the badge, at best, only shows you are a “safe person” for LGBTQ people.

How will Muslims know you are a safe person? I’m sure you aren’t an Islamophobe so I hope you wear a badge.

And Jews of course. They aren’t any less worthy than Muslims, I’m sure you agree. What do you wear for them?

Also Christians, atheists, those with hearing loss, travellers, immigrants, people with dementia, children, black people, white people, etc etc etc.

I’m sure you get the point.

Wouldn’t it be more efficient for staff to wear badges denoting who they are unsafe around, and then everyone else can relax?

Scout2016 · 07/06/2026 19:41

One issue I have is that it's cheap and lazy virtue signalling for PR without doing anything meaningful. eg. Put some rainbows up at the train station but don't sort out accessibility issues for disabled passengers because that involves money and effort.

StormGazing · 07/06/2026 19:15

It’s great that lots of people are supporting the community .., my dog has a suitable bandana for this month 🌈🏳️‍🌈

ReflectingPool · 07/06/2026 19:13

It’s pride month. And no it’s not ridiculous - it’s needed given that we appear to be going backwards

If we went backwards it would be just a day.

ReflectingPool · 07/06/2026 19:08

Maybe because being a disabled person,carer volunteer etc have never been a criminal offence that had to be kept quiet

Having a child/relative with LD was extremely "kept quiet" in the 50s/60s when I grew up.

A child like mine would have been locked away in an institution. I grew up near the Meanwood Park Colony. Google it. Pretty much a prison for nothing they did wrong. There were similar places all over the country.

Today my adult child lives in a house with 2 friends, supported 24 hours by
carers. A world of difference from the people in Meanwood Colony.
I think this is just as worthy of a month long celebration

Likewise the carers who aid people with their day to day living and help them reach their full potential.

Katypp · 07/06/2026 19:06

Loloblue · 06/06/2026 18:59

What is the problem with people who have been historically oppressed celebrating their difference? Just live and let live ffs

Nothing at all. I'm just not sure why there has to be such a song and dance about it. Live and let live. IMO the whole Pride thing has morphed into an annual virtue-signalling extravaganza

EmBear91 · 07/06/2026 18:47

Katypp · 06/06/2026 14:18

Seconded. Why we have adopted this silly ostentatious signalling of our allegiances is beyond me. It's the same as the NHS lanyards, which thankfully the Government looks like it's bringing an end to.
We don't need others' views rammed down our throats as we go about our business.
It's just an opportinity to virtue signal and draw attention to yourself. It's also diversive but i suspect that is why some do it anyway

Actually it’s nothing to do with wanting to change bigots minds. I couldn’t give a shit about homophobes, transphobes etc. It’s actually to represent to the people in the LGBTQ community that you are a safe space. I’m a queer woman and midwife and I want everyone to know that I am a safe person so will continue to wear a pride badge at work.

EmBear91 · 07/06/2026 18:44

ClaudiaCasswell · 06/06/2026 14:08

Utterly OTT. I’m with you OP. And why they need to be in a nursery is beyond me.

Because it’s pride month. And shock horror, some of the children in those nurseries will have two mum or two dad families.

EmBear91 · 07/06/2026 18:42

TalkToTheHand123 · 06/06/2026 14:00

Rainbows everywhere. Hi. I walked into the office building yesterday and rainbow stuff everywhere. Nearby nursery has all rainbow colours on fencing and there was an ambulance with rainbow colours. A bit ridiculous?

It’s pride month. And no it’s not ridiculous - it’s needed given that we appear to be going backwards.

ReflectingPool · 07/06/2026 18:11

Will you feel the same when England progress in the World Cup and the flags are everywhere? Did you feel the same for the jubilee?

That would be a yes from me

BlueSlate · 07/06/2026 12:15

mondaytosunday · 07/06/2026 10:09

@abathofmilkwithladydii haven’t seen anything from Hello Fresh - not even a Gay Pride special meal (we had Easter, St Patrick’s Day and Mothers Day ones).
One of our zebra crossings in town is a rainbow but that’s permanent. So pretty!

It might look pretty but one of the reasons zebra crossings are black and white is to make them more easily visible to visually impaired people.

So, not very inclusive.

ReflectingPool · 07/06/2026 10:58

So funny how it's people who aren't actually part of the so called lgbtqi+ community that want to celebrate it so much. There's not much to celebrate within it right now*

Being an older person, with several gay friends from way back, none of them are happy with the new iteration which has strayed so far from the original concept of pride day. They don't feel it's for them any more.

FrippEnos · 07/06/2026 10:32

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 21:42

Pride is about sexuality and love. Unless those guys are having sex with cars its not a fair comparision. How do you imagine straight men would celebrate straight sex and love?

You do seem to have a fascination with kink.

mondaytosunday · 07/06/2026 10:09

@abathofmilkwithladydii haven’t seen anything from Hello Fresh - not even a Gay Pride special meal (we had Easter, St Patrick’s Day and Mothers Day ones).
One of our zebra crossings in town is a rainbow but that’s permanent. So pretty!

MickyMoonshine · 07/06/2026 10:04

FrenchT0ast · 07/06/2026 09:56

Can we do away with all the tacky Union Jack bunting and flags too?

My Union Jack bunting is gorgeous. It’s handmade and fabric.

Needmorelego · 07/06/2026 10:01

@TalkToTheHand123 oh you came back.
I will tell you a secret about how to handle seeing rainbow flags that you don't like.....
You ignore them.
That's it.

FrenchT0ast · 07/06/2026 09:56

TalkToTheHand123 · 07/06/2026 09:46

You win all the tacky bunting.

Can we do away with all the tacky Union Jack bunting and flags too?

MickyMoonshine · 07/06/2026 09:53

TalkToTheHand123 · 07/06/2026 09:46

You win all the tacky bunting.

Fabulous. I’ll add it to my collection.

I notice that you didn’t answer the question about how it’s ’ramming It down people’s throats’. TBH it sounds like you’re just trotting out phrases you’ve seen elsewhere without thinking about what it actually means.

IsadoraQuagmire · 07/06/2026 09:50

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/06/2026 14:20

I absolutely loved Pride month when I first came out about 30 years ago, but back then it was about LGB & the right to be same sex attracted.

Now, it’s about the TQ+ & is the exact opposite.

I’m staying well away & I think a lot of these posts are either bloody disingenuous or don’t know what’s going on.

Exactly

TalkToTheHand123 · 07/06/2026 09:46

MickyMoonshine · 07/06/2026 09:11

My bingo card is now full!

We’ve got ‘ramming it down people’s necks’ ( please explain how displaying a flag does this)
OTT
Tacky
Wokery

What do I win?

You win all the tacky bunting.

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LeftieRightsHoarder · 07/06/2026 09:41

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/06/2026 14:20

I absolutely loved Pride month when I first came out about 30 years ago, but back then it was about LGB & the right to be same sex attracted.

Now, it’s about the TQ+ & is the exact opposite.

I’m staying well away & I think a lot of these posts are either bloody disingenuous or don’t know what’s going on.

Sadly true.

I’m sending best wishes to all LGB people, and asking the sex-fetishists to give the rest of us a break.

daysofpearlyspencer · 07/06/2026 09:40

Clonakilla · 07/06/2026 07:58

How did pass you by, given your commitment to disabled activism? It wasn’t mentioned at any of the charities for which you volunteer or by any of your many friends with disabilities? It didn’t come up in your many networks of people commited to representing and supporting people with disabilities?

Assuming of course that you’re interested in and committed to the rights of disabled people not just engaging in embarrassing whatsaboutery whilst being too lazy even to google.

I don't do activism, sadly haven't got the energy or physicality any more, I volunteer when I can for very small charities, we are not big organisations, struggling to just do what we can.

Seebiscuits · 07/06/2026 09:35

RampantIvy · 07/06/2026 09:32

It's the same in Barnsley.

I wonder why? 🤔

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