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Rainbow colours everywhere

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TalkToTheHand123 · 06/06/2026 14:00

Rainbows everywhere. Hi. I walked into the office building yesterday and rainbow stuff everywhere. Nearby nursery has all rainbow colours on fencing and there was an ambulance with rainbow colours. A bit ridiculous?

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Dancingsquirrels · 06/06/2026 15:02

If only people were so keen to champion vulnerable people with poor health, learning disabilities etc

i'm fed up of hearing that TW are the most oppressed, disadvantaged section of society

FWIW, my take is that companies and local authorities etc are keen to champion the underdog when it costs nothing eg pronouns

But now that it's starting to cost money eg lawsuits about toilets, the tide is turning

Fizzybluewater · 06/06/2026 15:00

I support Pride as I have two gay adult kids, but they aren't keen of the 'over kill' and say it's just virtue signalling with most people and it will be forgotten in a few weeks.
They want to live their lives quietly and to be accepted for being decent and respectful humans not because of what they may or may not do in their private lives.
I'm inclined to agree with them.

FrippEnos · 06/06/2026 14:58

HisNotHes · 06/06/2026 14:39

What’s your problem?

I’m not LGBTetc, I have no friends or family who are but I have no issue with the pride flags.

I have no issue with the original pride flag, I do have issues with the new one.
I also don't like how pride has been hijacked by various communities trying to pus all of the different communites into one whilst excluding various members of said communities.

Lets not forget the various pride marches that have excluded lesbians for daring to say that they won't sleep with men (that identify as women).

Needmorelego · 06/06/2026 14:57

MagpiePi · 06/06/2026 14:54

Oh good.
Another thread for faux naivety saying the holy month of pride is just about being happy colours and celebrating wearing bondage gear leather accessories and men dressed as female porn stars diversity.

The OP never actually mentioned the word "pride".
(this of course is actually a stupid thread where the OP makes one post to stir up trouble then buggers off to watch us all fight.... I'm only playing because I'm bored)

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 14:56

FrippEnos · 06/06/2026 14:51

Ah yes, #nodebate, how very tolerant of you.

If your point of view is worth anything at all then it should be worth defending.

Sorry I don't understand. Am I not debating with you right now? I'm giving my view, am I not? And my view is the world is full of things I don't personally like, so I don't seek them out. We can all choose how much to engage with things. I am not a Christian and don't go to church, but I find carol services magical and have no problem with seeing Christian imagery around Jesus in the manger in the barn. I can choose the level to which I engage.

Owly11 · 06/06/2026 14:55

So funny how it's people who aren't actually part of the so called lgbtqi*+ community that want to celebrate it so much. There's not much to celebrate within it right now.

MagpiePi · 06/06/2026 14:54

Oh good.
Another thread for faux naivety saying the holy month of pride is just about being happy colours and celebrating wearing bondage gear leather accessories and men dressed as female porn stars diversity.

ilovesooty · 06/06/2026 14:52

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/06/2026 14:24

The women in FWR know better.

Perhaps the OP could move the thread over there then.

FrippEnos · 06/06/2026 14:51

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 14:44

No one is ramming anything. Rainbows aren't offensive, and if you don't like Pride don't go. I don't like vintage car shows, so I don't go. But I don't consider the posters for it as 'ramming vintage cars in my face'

In the words of our queen Dua Lipa "If you don't wanna see me dancing with somebody, if you want to believe that anything could stop me... Don't show up"

Ah yes, #nodebate, how very tolerant of you.

If your point of view is worth anything at all then it should be worth defending.

butterfliesandrainbows2022 · 06/06/2026 14:45

Katypp · 06/06/2026 14:42

Not wanting to have others ramming their views in your face does not make you a bigot
Lazy thinking but you've found your tribe here.

mate its just some pretty colours not like people are shagging in front of ya

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 14:44

Katypp · 06/06/2026 14:42

Not wanting to have others ramming their views in your face does not make you a bigot
Lazy thinking but you've found your tribe here.

No one is ramming anything. Rainbows aren't offensive, and if you don't like Pride don't go. I don't like vintage car shows, so I don't go. But I don't consider the posters for it as 'ramming vintage cars in my face'

In the words of our queen Dua Lipa "If you don't wanna see me dancing with somebody, if you want to believe that anything could stop me... Don't show up"

BiddlyBipBipBeeBop · 06/06/2026 14:43

Needmorelego · 06/06/2026 14:08

Is it just me or does anyone else always sort packets of crayons or felt tip pens into rainbow colour order?

Oh yes absolutely, it’s compulsory

Katypp · 06/06/2026 14:42

Bumcake · 06/06/2026 14:38

In case the child is being brought up by bigots - it’s good for them to see another perspective.

Not wanting to have others ramming their views in your face does not make you a bigot
Lazy thinking but you've found your tribe here.

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 14:41

Some kids have two mums, some kids have two dads. I have had to correct DC regularly when they come home from school saying 'kids at school say only boys can marry girls'. Pride means kids don't have to feel scared telling their parents they've fallen in love. Pride means a loving pair of grown ups do not have to write off being a parent because of who they love. The earlier kids know that, the better as far as I'm concerned.

HisNotHes · 06/06/2026 14:39

What’s your problem?

I’m not LGBTetc, I have no friends or family who are but I have no issue with the pride flags.

Bumcake · 06/06/2026 14:38

ClaudiaCasswell · 06/06/2026 14:08

Utterly OTT. I’m with you OP. And why they need to be in a nursery is beyond me.

In case the child is being brought up by bigots - it’s good for them to see another perspective.

Needmorelego · 06/06/2026 14:38

murasaki · 06/06/2026 14:36

Purple end for me.

This could be an interesting survey 🤔

Needmorelego · 06/06/2026 14:37

Thatcannotberight · 06/06/2026 14:35

I would bet that in the old days the rainbows had seven stripes and children knew how many colours made up a rainbow.

I've come across children now who think rainbows have 6 stripes of colour.

Surely it depends if you say Indigo and Violet separately or just Purple.
Both are fairly normal.

murasaki · 06/06/2026 14:36

Needmorelego · 06/06/2026 14:19

@TheignT when you sort out crayons /felt tip pens do you put the pink ones at the red end or the purple end?
I'm never sure what is the acceptable method.

Purple end for me.

Thatcannotberight · 06/06/2026 14:35

CaptainMyCaptain · 06/06/2026 14:24

Nurseries have always had Rainbows. I refer you to Noah's Ark.

Children like colour.

I would bet that in the old days the rainbows had seven stripes and children knew how many colours made up a rainbow.

I've come across children now who think rainbows have 6 stripes of colour.

RaraRachael · 06/06/2026 14:34

No rainbows here other than ones in the sky

LilacDrift · 06/06/2026 14:26

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/06/2026 14:24

The women in FWR know better.

Off you pop then.

ThatLilacTiger · 06/06/2026 14:25

ClaudiaCasswell · 06/06/2026 14:08

Utterly OTT. I’m with you OP. And why they need to be in a nursery is beyond me.

Because some of those children will have two mammies or two daddies and it's nice to acknowledge that their parents' love, or marriage, is legitimate. The children will grow up facing bigotry about the make-up of their family that children of straight couples simply won't, so they need a visible, tangible reminder that their family is safe and welcomed at their nursery in a way that children of straight parents do not. Hth.

LilacDrift · 06/06/2026 14:25

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Alottatopspin · 06/06/2026 14:25

Our children’s nursery had rainbow colours up all year round, the bastards! How fucking dare they. Children should absolutely be reared surrounded by the dullest shades possible- it’ll help them adjust to adulthood.