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Rainbow colours everywhere

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TalkToTheHand123 · 06/06/2026 14:00

Rainbows everywhere. Hi. I walked into the office building yesterday and rainbow stuff everywhere. Nearby nursery has all rainbow colours on fencing and there was an ambulance with rainbow colours. A bit ridiculous?

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Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 15:28

sontamol · 06/06/2026 15:23

Why is there no Straight Pride month. Equality for all.

Straight people haven't historically gone to prision for falling in love with someone of the opposite sex. They havn't been forced by threat of prison to find secretive ways to meet each other and invent code languages to talk to each other. Straight people today don't have to think carefully about holding hands in public in case it draws the wrong attention. Straight men don't suffer insinuations that they are a paedophile for simply wanting to become a father. Straight women aren't told they are only pretending to be attracted to men to turn other men on.

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TheLandlordsAreFrowning · 06/06/2026 15:28

MagpiePi · 06/06/2026 14:54

Oh good.
Another thread for faux naivety saying the holy month of pride is just about being happy colours and celebrating wearing bondage gear leather accessories and men dressed as female porn stars diversity.

holy month of pride

Is that you, Mr Fox?

I am watching Victoria at the moment. You are awful as Palmerston.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:27

sontamol · 06/06/2026 15:23

Why is there no Straight Pride month. Equality for all.

😂

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:27

Marieb19 · 06/06/2026 15:17

I can't understand why one unremarkable group in society has to be celebrated in this way, especially as many gay people find themselves at odds with what Stonewall and Pride now represent. Celebrating pride week and trans visibility month is almost mandatory in some sectors. Are disabled people, carers, volunteers etc not deserving of a fraction of the platform and forced visibility this political movement has hijacked.

Here you go - Disability Awareness Month.
So no need to worry, there's one for disabilities awareness too. https://www.healthassured.org/blog/disability-history-month/

Carers Week starts on Monday! https://www.carersuk.org/press-releases/carers-week-2026-launches-theme-building-carer-friendly-communities/
Just in time for you to show your support.

Disability History Month 2026 - What you need to know

Attitudes towards people with a disability have been largely seen as unemployable. In modern times we know this is unfair, but extremely discriminatory.

https://www.healthassured.org/blog/disability-history-month/

FrippEnos · 06/06/2026 15:26

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 15:20

Ah I think you've misunderstood and that's ok.

I am saying if people don't like Pride they don't have to go, and that rainbows in themselves are not offensive.

I compared this is Christmas for myself as a non- Christian. I don't go to church, but I am not offended by Christian images of the birth of Jesus.

Both rainbow flags and the birth of Jesus may have deep meanings attached to them, and people may not agree with what they represent, but are not offensive to anyone in themselves. If anyone choose to go to Pride or to Church and hears or sees something they don't like, the onus is not on Pride or the Church to change what they're doing, it's on me to choose not to go there.

You have conflated this idea of not engaging with things I don't like, to mean I won't enage in debate I don't like. My continued discussion on this demonstrates that's not the case though.

Edited

I apologise for my error.

And its through discussion/debate that an understanding has been reached.

ForSnappySwan · 06/06/2026 15:24

Something like 8 Pride organisers have been jailed for paedophilia in the last year alone.

I'm amazed that's not a bigger story.

Rainbow colours everywhere
sontamol · 06/06/2026 15:23

Why is there no Straight Pride month. Equality for all.

Gofaster2023 · 06/06/2026 15:21

My dpd tracker had me living with a rainbow flag and a unicorn was delivering my parcel. It was awesome!

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:20

saveforthat · 06/06/2026 15:17

Probably, but the B don't think that men should be in women's spaces or compete against women in sport, so I'm happy with the Bs.

What, all the Bs? Sounds unlikely. Seeing as they're not one great big mass and are presumably individuals.

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 15:20

FrippEnos · 06/06/2026 15:07

Come you understand well enough.
You have quoted those calling others bigoted yet claim not to be bigoted by saying that you engage but that those that don't agree shouldn't engage with you.
That is bigotry.

Ah I think you've misunderstood and that's ok.

I am saying if people don't like Pride they don't have to go, and that rainbows in themselves are not offensive.

I compared this is Christmas for myself as a non- Christian. I don't go to church, but I am not offended by Christian images of the birth of Jesus.

Both rainbow flags and the birth of Jesus may have deep meanings attached to them, and people may not agree with what they represent, but are not offensive to anyone in themselves. If anyone choose to go to Pride or to Church and hears or sees something they don't like, the onus is not on Pride or the Church to change what they're doing, it's on me to choose not to go there.

You have conflated this idea of not engaging with things I don't like, to mean I won't enage in debate I don't like. My continued discussion on this demonstrates that's not the case though.

Bigboldfont · 06/06/2026 15:18

I have to do pride for work. I have rebelled by using the old pride flag, for LGB rights and refuse to "upgrade" to the progress pride flag.
I see the TQ+ as directly contradictory to the LGB rights.

Marieb19 · 06/06/2026 15:17

I can't understand why one unremarkable group in society has to be celebrated in this way, especially as many gay people find themselves at odds with what Stonewall and Pride now represent. Celebrating pride week and trans visibility month is almost mandatory in some sectors. Are disabled people, carers, volunteers etc not deserving of a fraction of the platform and forced visibility this political movement has hijacked.

saveforthat · 06/06/2026 15:17

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:14

I bet there's others that would say exactly the same about the B on there too.
Or is it only ok if it's a letter you don't like or agree with being on there?
It's not likely to stop at the T. You're naive if you think it will.

Probably, but the B don't think that men should be in women's spaces or compete against women in sport, so I'm happy with the Bs.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:16

BoredZelda · 06/06/2026 15:14

Will you feel the same when England progress in the World Cup and the flags are everywhere? Did you feel the same for the jubilee? Or in November when you can’t move for poppies? Or at Christmas when there are lights and decorations? Or is it just Pride you think it’s too much for?

Be quietly gay. Why do we need Pride anyway? All these rainbows being rammed down our throats.
<disclaimer> not my view

BoredZelda · 06/06/2026 15:14

TalkToTheHand123 · 06/06/2026 14:00

Rainbows everywhere. Hi. I walked into the office building yesterday and rainbow stuff everywhere. Nearby nursery has all rainbow colours on fencing and there was an ambulance with rainbow colours. A bit ridiculous?

Will you feel the same when England progress in the World Cup and the flags are everywhere? Did you feel the same for the jubilee? Or in November when you can’t move for poppies? Or at Christmas when there are lights and decorations? Or is it just Pride you think it’s too much for?

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:14

saveforthat · 06/06/2026 15:11

Well said. LGB was great. Shame they had to add the other letters.

I bet there's others that would say exactly the same about the B on there too.
Or is it only ok if it's a letter you don't like or agree with being on there?
It's not likely to stop at the T. You're naive if you think it will.

MyGhastIsFlabbered · 06/06/2026 15:13

I love a rainbow 🌈

saveforthat · 06/06/2026 15:11

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/06/2026 14:20

I absolutely loved Pride month when I first came out about 30 years ago, but back then it was about LGB & the right to be same sex attracted.

Now, it’s about the TQ+ & is the exact opposite.

I’m staying well away & I think a lot of these posts are either bloody disingenuous or don’t know what’s going on.

Well said. LGB was great. Shame they had to add the other letters.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:11

I've voted YABU as I love rainbows.
If I see one in the sky, it genuinely makes my day.
As for seeing them around as flags or posters or whatever, good - bright and cheery.

FrippEnos · 06/06/2026 15:07

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 14:56

Sorry I don't understand. Am I not debating with you right now? I'm giving my view, am I not? And my view is the world is full of things I don't personally like, so I don't seek them out. We can all choose how much to engage with things. I am not a Christian and don't go to church, but I find carol services magical and have no problem with seeing Christian imagery around Jesus in the manger in the barn. I can choose the level to which I engage.

Come you understand well enough.
You have quoted those calling others bigoted yet claim not to be bigoted by saying that you engage but that those that don't agree shouldn't engage with you.
That is bigotry.

Fizzybluewater · 06/06/2026 15:07

Owly11 · 06/06/2026 14:55

So funny how it's people who aren't actually part of the so called lgbtqi*+ community that want to celebrate it so much. There's not much to celebrate within it right now.

Virtue signalling shite as usual.

ChamonixMountainBum · 06/06/2026 15:07

HisNotHes · 06/06/2026 14:39

What’s your problem?

I’m not LGBTetc, I have no friends or family who are but I have no issue with the pride flags.

Good for you. Many others increasingly see the pride flag as a regressive, misogynistic, homophobic (men can be lesbians), intolerant ideology that at its worse has seen untold damage to children and vulnerable adults and pushed back womens rights.

LilacDrift · 06/06/2026 15:06

ilovesooty · 06/06/2026 14:52

Perhaps the OP could move the thread over there then.

Don't worry I think they found this thread.

ChamonixMountainBum · 06/06/2026 15:02

I see this year there seems to be more of the old school rainbow flags rather then the seizure inducing pride flags which is nice to see.