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TalkToTheHand123 · 06/06/2026 14:00

Rainbows everywhere. Hi. I walked into the office building yesterday and rainbow stuff everywhere. Nearby nursery has all rainbow colours on fencing and there was an ambulance with rainbow colours. A bit ridiculous?

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TheLandlordsAreFrowning · 06/06/2026 15:49

sontamol · 06/06/2026 15:45

Straight people get murdered too, mostly for being women.

Yes they do, but no-one on the thread is saying they don't.

sontamol · 06/06/2026 15:47

All murders are wrong. No one has a hierarchy of suffering.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:46

sontamol · 06/06/2026 15:45

Straight people get murdered too, mostly for being women.

They don't get murdered for being attracted to the opposite sex though, way to spectacularly miss the point.

sontamol · 06/06/2026 15:45

Straight people get murdered too, mostly for being women.

Magpiesinthegarden · 06/06/2026 15:45

🌈 Here’s a rainbow just for you 😍

Spongebob Squarepants Rainbow GIF
TheLandlordsAreFrowning · 06/06/2026 15:45

Katypp · 06/06/2026 15:38

And none of that happens now. Move on

How do you explain all this, then?

Man critical after suspected homophobic attack in Bristol - BBC News https://share.google/qkV7WF2ZneysIYZxk

life sentences for teenagers who murdered Brianna Ghey - BBC News https://share.google/0OkdMn8yVr1aKh8em

Caught Liverpool murderer would have killed again, court told - BBC News https://share.google/S0DvMTazovl4FVyF5

Drag Race star The Vivienne suffers homophobic attack - BBC News https://share.google/OxHZlCQqbVespbYQh

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:44

Katypp · 06/06/2026 15:38

And none of that happens now. Move on

Are you actually serious?! Of course people still get attacked for being gay!

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:43

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 15:35

Plus you know if you let straight men anywhere near organising a straight pride festival it is going to be sexualised to the max and give Pride a run for it's money. Does anyone want a festival of straight male kink?

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😭 Yeah, thinking about it, Straight Pride would be a testosterone fuelled nightmare, wouldn't it 😁
Do people on here really want to be walking hand in hand with their DH/DP under a flag, declaring their Pride in being straight?
I don't.
Others not in a relationship would probably be chanting some kind of song and drinking.

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 15:41

Katypp · 06/06/2026 15:38

And none of that happens now. Move on

Are you kidding? Please just see some of the threads on her about gay men seeking surrogates, or whether gay men should be allowed to adopt. Have you forgotten the two girls in London who were beaten up on the bus? That happens more than is reported on the news. Have you seen the social media content where young men say they'll disown their son if they're gay? That's happening now.

sontamol · 06/06/2026 15:41

Why not have an Equality Act Pride day, you know celebrate all the protected characteristics together. Join as one, be happy for everyone and have a big diverse party. Gay alphabetic Pride has had far too much party cake by now, time to slice it up fairly.

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 15:39

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:34

Well, now you know when it is you could raise awareness yourself next time round?
What kind of flag are you envisaging? Maybe design one.

There's Mad Pride, which is just like gay Pride in that mentally ill people are horrifically stigmatised and this is a grass roots response to say we are different but great: https://www.onedoor.org.au/news-updates/blog/dr-richard-schweizer-blog-october-2022

Mad Pride - One Door Mental Health

Dr Richard Schweizer Blog - October 2022

https://www.onedoor.org.au/news-updates/blog/dr-richard-schweizer-blog-october-2022

Katypp · 06/06/2026 15:38

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 15:28

Straight people haven't historically gone to prision for falling in love with someone of the opposite sex. They havn't been forced by threat of prison to find secretive ways to meet each other and invent code languages to talk to each other. Straight people today don't have to think carefully about holding hands in public in case it draws the wrong attention. Straight men don't suffer insinuations that they are a paedophile for simply wanting to become a father. Straight women aren't told they are only pretending to be attracted to men to turn other men on.

And none of that happens now. Move on

PickAChew · 06/06/2026 15:38

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 15:35

Plus you know if you let straight men anywhere near organising a straight pride festival it is going to be sexualised to the max and give Pride a run for it's money. Does anyone want a festival of straight male kink?

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I know of an old, orange faced man who would probably love to do this.

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 15:35

FrippEnos · 06/06/2026 15:29

I'm not even sure what that would look like.

And would we be allowed to design our own flag instead of the beige monstrousity that we have been alloted? 😁

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Plus you know if you let straight men anywhere near organising a straight pride festival it is going to be sexualised to the max and give Pride a run for it's money. Does anyone want a festival of straight male kink?

TheLandlordsAreFrowning · 06/06/2026 15:34

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🎶 Sing if you're glad to be grey 🎶

It doesn't have quite the same ring, does it?

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:34

daysofpearlyspencer · 06/06/2026 15:32

So completely passed me by, guessing there were no flags or specially labelled products in the shops

Well, now you know when it is you could raise awareness yourself next time round?
What kind of flag are you envisaging? Maybe design one.

Katypp · 06/06/2026 15:34

MyCottageGarden · 06/06/2026 15:32

You’re being wilfully ignorant here, rainbows as decoration in a nursery and the pride flag are not the same things and you know it. They absolutely do not need to be wafting the pride flag in a sodding nursery.

I think the poster is under the impression she is being amusing

Gladystheimpaler · 06/06/2026 15:33

daysofpearlyspencer · 06/06/2026 15:28

Would be nice to have a disability awareness or carers month, with a special flag flown in supermarkets and town halls etc. Not going to happen though is it, just the Holy Month of Pride which is not as inclusive as it likes to make out....

In my work disability week, specific condition awareness days, carers week and all kinds of different times are acknowledged.

I love Pride, and I love the idea of having a big party and parade to celebrate these other things! One thing doesn't have to cancel out the others, let's have a year filled with celebrations! Especially young carers, how wonderful it would be to have a festival celebrating them ❤️

scalt · 06/06/2026 15:32

Some of us associate rainbows with 2020, symbolising children trapped in their homes, unable to play outside or see their friends, and being labelled “vectors of transmission”.

Only partly joking there.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:32

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That is the most bland flag ever 😁
Gimme a rainbow any day🌈🌈🌈

daysofpearlyspencer · 06/06/2026 15:32

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:31

There is a Disability Awareness Month. I posted it upthread.

So completely passed me by, guessing there were no flags or specially labelled products in the shops

MyCottageGarden · 06/06/2026 15:32

custardlover · 06/06/2026 14:14

This is so funny.

Why on earth would children like a rainbow? Outrageous! It’s WELL KNOWN that children HATE rainbows! Stop THRUSTING RAINBOWS DOWN CHILDREN'S NECKS. Colours are disgusting to children!

You’re being wilfully ignorant here, rainbows as decoration in a nursery and the pride flag are not the same things and you know it. They absolutely do not need to be wafting the pride flag in a sodding nursery.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 06/06/2026 15:31

daysofpearlyspencer · 06/06/2026 15:28

Would be nice to have a disability awareness or carers month, with a special flag flown in supermarkets and town halls etc. Not going to happen though is it, just the Holy Month of Pride which is not as inclusive as it likes to make out....

There is a Disability Awareness Month. I posted it upthread.

FrippEnos · 06/06/2026 15:29

sontamol · 06/06/2026 15:23

Why is there no Straight Pride month. Equality for all.

I'm not even sure what that would look like.

And would we be allowed to design our own flag instead of the beige monstrousity that we have been alloted? 😁

daysofpearlyspencer · 06/06/2026 15:28

Would be nice to have a disability awareness or carers month, with a special flag flown in supermarkets and town halls etc. Not going to happen though is it, just the Holy Month of Pride which is not as inclusive as it likes to make out....