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AIBU to stop offering work experience?

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Itsallacademic · 05/06/2026 10:47

Background: I work for a very large employer with many departments, my particular role involves specialised laboratories and equipment. For the past several years, I have offered work experience placements to 6th form students within my team (usually lasting a week or two). While this does require additional paperwork and specialised risk assessments, I felt it was worthwhile both to inspire the next generation and to contribute positively to the organisation’s wider profile.
Current situation: I now have a DD in Yr12 who is trying hard to secure summer work experience. Importantly, her subjects are not related to my area of work. DD's college regularly shares information about work experience opportunities, but due to our family’s income level/education level/postcode/etc, she is eligible for very few of the schemes. She has applied for everything she can but has not been successful so far.
So, I suggested that DD contact other teams and departments within my organisation assuming that there would be colleagues offering placements in the same way I have. However, every response so far has been negative - most say the organisation does not offer work experience at all, often citing H&S even for departments that are just office-based (obviously, as I work at the same employer, I know exactly what paperwork is required so I know this is not true).
My AIBU: This has left me wondering whether I have been overly generous all these years. Providing work experience for under-18s is time-consuming, comes with administrative burden and does require resources. I had always believed I was doing something worthwhile and contributing as a responsible member of the organisation. However, it seems that very few, if any, others are doing the same - basically they can't be bothered?
I have told DD that she is welcome to do her work experience in my team, even though it is not directly relevant to her studies (and perhaps it won't look so positive on her CV to have worked with her mum). But after this summer, I am seriously considering "closing shop" and declining any future requests from 6th form students. AIBU?

OP posts:
Apparentlystillchilled · 05/06/2026 11:07

I have a y12 child and my own business. I’ve hosted a y10 work experience student several times and this year I’ve got a y12 too. As you say, it’s a bit hard work. But I take the view that it’s good karma. That said, I won’t take 2 in one school year again.

Maxibon21 · 05/06/2026 11:03

My son has just tried securing a 4 day work experience and after lots of people saying no he finally secured one. I am grateful to the people who have decided to let him do the experience. If you being able to do it gives you a sense of purpose or that you're creating something positive then maybe continue as I'm sure that those you've helped in the past were grateful for the experience. But if you don't like doing it then I can understand your frustration. It feels really unfair for your DC though.

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