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50sandFabulous · 05/06/2026 10:37

"Hey guys and gals, and non binary pals..... remember to check your chest"

If you can't manage to say the word BREAST, when you are urging women to check their breasts, then quite frankly, you can Fuck Off.

New radio advert - GAH.

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CasperGutman · 05/06/2026 11:08

Gladystheimpaler · 05/06/2026 11:06

Why can't they say breasts chests and pecs? That would cover everyone. I agree men don't like the idea of having breasts, so using positive language like pecs might help encourage them and direct them to the right kind of area

Pecs would be incorrect. Breast cancer doesn't occur in pectoral muscles, it occurs in breast tissue, which is situated in the chest. I suppose they could have said "breasts and chests". Maybe they thought that "chests" covered it, since that's where breasts are. 🤷

BauhausOfEliott · 05/06/2026 11:08

Gladystheimpaler · 05/06/2026 11:06

Why can't they say breasts chests and pecs? That would cover everyone. I agree men don't like the idea of having breasts, so using positive language like pecs might help encourage them and direct them to the right kind of area

Why can't they say breasts chests and pecs?

Because 'chest' already covers 'breasts' and 'pecs'. Saying 'breasts, chests and pecs' is a bit like saying 'cats, animals and dogs' or 'apples, fruit and cherries'.

Lavendersmell · 05/06/2026 11:07

Breasts and pecs then.
Chest are just largearea of body.

It's like saying check your pelvic region instead of testicles for testicular cancer

ScaryM0nster · 05/06/2026 11:06

Im pretty sure that the vast, vast majority of the population can work out where they're supposed to check from that advice.

Whereas if it said breasts then men would assume it didn’t apply to them. It is clearly a campaign aimed at all. Not just women.

BauhausOfEliott · 05/06/2026 11:06

Men also get breast cancer. 'Chest' covers the bodies of everyone who gets breast cancer, men and women. It's not excluding anyone who is at risk.

I had to have treatment for a breast condition fairly recently and when I was having my mammogram (the first one I'd ever had) I mentioned to the radiographer that it seemed to me like it would be difficult to do them on very flat-chested women and she said 'Oh, we have loads of ways of doing them - I scan men on a daily basis too so we're used to adapting the process'. So it's not a bad idea at all to encourage men to check themselves too and remind them that it's not just women who need to keep an eye on this stuff.

If you don't believe that being non-binary is a real thing, of course that's up to you and it's a valid opinion to hold. But surely, even if you don't think it's real, you would still want people who do identify that way to check themselves for signs of cancer? And to be covered by public health campaigns? You don't have to accept someone's identity/label/whatever but surely you'd rather they didn't die of cancer.

Gladystheimpaler · 05/06/2026 11:06

Why can't they say breasts chests and pecs? That would cover everyone. I agree men don't like the idea of having breasts, so using positive language like pecs might help encourage them and direct them to the right kind of area

Kalimeras · 05/06/2026 11:03

Males get breast cancer too. They don’t like to hear that they also have breast tissue, so it makes sense to use the word chest. Women know they need to check their breasts - what’s your issue with encouraging others to do the same when they don’t know they should?

CasperGutman · 05/06/2026 11:02

I don't particularly care one way or the other about whether or not they mention non-binary people as they're such a tiny proportion of the population.

But whether or not it's strictly the correct terminology, I and most men I know don't routinely refer to the areas around our nipples as breasts. Tell 100 men that they have breasts and at least dozens of them will feel insulted and think you're calling them fat.

If you want to encourage men to check themselves for lumps then referring to checking breasts will very likely cause at least a substantial minority of men to stop listening and think you're not talking to them.

itsmycheese · 05/06/2026 10:59

Men can get breast cancer too. In their chests.

MySaintedAunt · 05/06/2026 10:56

Daft, isn't it? Your chest is a different part of your anatomy to your breasts. And 'non binary' has bugger all to do with it. Honestly, we really are lost if people can't cope with seeing any reference to their sex in medical information.

50sandFabulous · 05/06/2026 10:47

Quine0nline · 05/06/2026 10:45

A good friend is a consultant specialist g in male breast cancer. Women have breasts, men have breasts - is this some curtain twitching.lowrr middle class euphemism?

Ah, but it would appear no one has breasts now - just chests. Maybe the Non Binary people have chests? More like a mental illness, but let's just appease them, eh?

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ChocHotolate · 05/06/2026 10:47

Usually I agree on these sorts of subjects where the word women is erased. But on this one I am not fussed.
I think it’s because:
This is a charity, not NHS
Men can (rarely) get breast cancer so checking is probably a good thing to do

Quine0nline · 05/06/2026 10:45

A good friend is a consultant specialist g in male breast cancer. Women have breasts, men have breasts - is this some curtain twitching.lowrr middle class euphemism?

Lavendersmell · 05/06/2026 10:39

I checked my chest. I feel ribs. Maybe I am doing it in a wrong area of chest. If only there was a word for the part of chest I am supposed to check.....