DH has a wildly irritating way of emptying the dishwasher...
When it comes to tupperware and fiddly little things to put away (eg. toddler cup lids, lemon juicer, food processor compartments etc.) instead of putting things back in their appropriate cupboard, he just creates a mountain of mess on the drying rack and leaves it "for later" i.e he can't be arsed to finish it properly and instead creates an impossible mess and extra task for me to do before I can tidy up all the other mess leftover from meals/general food cooking/dishes!
We have had the discussion (argument) about this many times. I've asked him to stop doing it, literally leave the stuff in the dishwasher instead of just creating another immediate task that must be done before everything else can be cleaned up. It's SO annoying first thing in the morning to start the day with this big pile of plastic mess and something to do simply because he can't finish the task. His response is if this is my biggest problem with him, aren't we lucky. He's worried if the dishwasher is open too long our children might hurt themself on the door?! It's simply not that big a deal etc etc.
But I am so fed up with him blatantly doing something he knows really fucking pisses me off, plus he's literally going out of his way to create a whole other bigger task for later and me to do than just doing it all quickly in the first place!