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Cat spikes around garden

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VividDenimTiger · 04/06/2026 16:30

So, we live in house with a small garden. The neighbours cats have been shitting in our garden every day for literally 5 years. We have tried EVERYTHING to deter them- sensors, water sprays, planting cat deterrent plants, lion poo, spraying stuff. You name it, we have tried it.

Our garden stinks of cat shit all the time. The neighbours who own the cats- sit outside in their garden all the time enjoying life because their cats don’t shit at home.

It’s broken me - we can’t actually use our garden at all at the moment as it’s terrible- they shit in the beds, dig up our plants and spray against the shed.

So we have put up cat spikes to try and deter them as a last resort. I hate them and they look awful but I am hoping it might deter them. Neighbour has already made it clear how unreasonable we are - they are on our side of the fence so no boundary issues. I am trying not to fall out with them but we have asked them many times to try and contain their cats- they have 4.

so AIBU? I am literally at the end of my tether. My kids can’t play in the garden as there is constant shit. It’s stressing me out so much - we just want to use our own garden so this is honestly last resort. I am really upset by it all.

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RubyPowderPuff · 05/06/2026 10:11

I think we need a change in the law. Cat owners should take responsibility for their pets mess. Especially in build up suburban areas. Their right to roam needs to be removed, no more dead cats on the roadside or neighbours feeding/ stealing cats either! Win - Win.

Dragonflyspeeding · 05/06/2026 09:58

Getmeacoffeenow · 05/06/2026 09:56

You’re blaming an innocent animal for the behaviour of humans. You’re not fit to have a dog. Clearly not an animal lover.

Their owners can blame themselves.

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You’re blaming an innocent animal for the behaviour of humans. You’re not fit to have a dog. Clearly not an animal lover.

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ICantStomachWhelks · 05/06/2026 09:54

Just a thought OP, do they only poo in your flower beds? If so, what about putting gravel as a mulch between your plants? Definitely not pea gravel, that’s like a giant litter tray, I mean the stuff that’s about 3/4 inch big.
I have a cat who poos in my soil borders but she never poos on the gravel ones. I think it’s heavy to dig and it has sharp corners so she doesn’t even really like walking on it.

Getmeacoffeenow · 05/06/2026 09:51

Dragonflyspeeding · 05/06/2026 09:48

Absolutely.
And if I was somebody who ever let my dog off the lead and he regularly fouled other people’s gardens, I would blame myself if anything happened to him. Hence my dog is never off his lead.

You’re disgusting.

People brought cats in their abundance to the UK, people breed them, allow them to roam and breed, buy them, adopt them etc

Cats are innocent, if you’d poison one, you’re a disgusting animal abuser and should be in prison.

Dragonflyspeeding · 05/06/2026 09:48

Getmeacoffeenow · 05/06/2026 07:06

So you would poison cats??? Sicko.

Absolutely.
And if I was somebody who ever let my dog off the lead and he regularly fouled other people’s gardens, I would blame myself if anything happened to him. Hence my dog is never off his lead.

W0tnow · 05/06/2026 09:30

@scalt No poster is frothing about cat owners like you. Who contain their cats.

scalt · 05/06/2026 08:28

This is another topic which always gets MN frothing - like dogs in cafes, shoes in houses, children walking on walls (spikes needed to deter them?), the sun daring to shine in summer, and children being given scratch cards as presents, leading them to a gambling addiction.

Where I live, lots of people have cats, which roam. Yes, shit happens, but the local Facebook group seems more angry about potholes. I have cat secure fencing to keep my cat in: not spikes, but horizontal poles which rotate freely, and are impossible for a cat to climb over. However, this was expensive, as the garden is big, and we needed new fencing as well. It also prevents him from doing his business in other people’s gardens. Incidentally, my garden is still full of birds - his presence does not deter them.

80smonster · 05/06/2026 08:17

Are you throwing the shit back over their fence? That’s what I’d do, and add in some large dog turds for flavour. I feel like owning 4 cats is like having 4 kids, you can’t possibly be taking proper care of them.

MrsShawnHatosy · 05/06/2026 07:35

MyKindHiker · 04/06/2026 16:41

But what can they do? You can't train a cat to not go in certain places.

Two things are true - OP can do what they want to try and deter cats from their garden. And also, there isn't anything the neighbors can really do about it.

Apart from not owning a cat in the first place!

autumn1610 · 05/06/2026 07:28

Also I would be very tempted to throw it back over their fence. I would not be offended if someone did that with my cats poo. Least then they would associate their smell with the garden. Might work or at least make your neighbour do something

autumn1610 · 05/06/2026 07:19

My cat sits on the cat spikes (me neighbour put them in to stop squirrels not my cat was done before him) I hope mine doesn’t poo in others gardens he uses his litter tray inside. I do hope they work for you as it’s not nice

curious79 · 05/06/2026 07:12

i do two things that seem to minimise

  1. have these brown plastic strips with spikes that you can’t see once on the ground between plants (are these cat spikes?)
  2. keep lengths of rose stems I prune from a particularly thorny plant between plants

They don’t seem to go on my lawn unless grass is really long

OvernightBloats · 05/06/2026 07:12

A really effective way to make a cat scarper fast out of the garden is to hiss really loudly! Sounds crazy but works every time.

"Sssssssssssssssssssssss!!!" Like a very loud snake 😂

It's a way of mimicking the sound of danger to a cat. They understand this completely.
Always do this and there will start to associate your garden being not quite such an oasis as they first thought.

Water pistols also help but it is hard to get them out quick enough.

Good luck. Finding cat shit when you are gardening is revolting.

Getmeacoffeenow · 05/06/2026 07:06

Dragonflyspeeding · 04/06/2026 19:08

I have done the same thing. I was so sick of clearing up cat poo every single day. Tried pellets, tried ground coffee, cinnamon, citrus sprays.
I’d have put down poison except there were hedgehogs a couple of years ago and I would not want to harm them in case there are any around.
The spikes work although I had to adjust them and buy more as initially a cat still managed to foul a small area. I hope the cats had a nice sharp prod too!
YANBU.

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So you would poison cats??? Sicko.

Getmeacoffeenow · 05/06/2026 07:04

Floatingdownriver · 04/06/2026 16:42

Cat owner here. If this was happening to my neighbour I’d arrange to pop over twice a week and scoop. Have you tried getting them over to see the extent of this issue?

Twice a week is not enough for four cats worth of poo!
Our cat thankfully poops in our garden once a day and if we don’t pick it up that day it gets flies and stinks in the summer.

They could make their garden more appealing to poop in, like outdoor litter trays.

Lincslady53 · 05/06/2026 06:53

We had a problem with cats using our tiny front bit of grass, and a couple of years ago it started to get out of hand, I think all the local cats were picking on us. DH bought some ultrasonic sonic animal scarers from Amazon. They are solar powered, but need charging from the mains occasionally. Especially in winter. They look a bit daft cos they glow red when an animal is detected. You have to tweak the settings to get the right intensity, but after a few weeks they stopped using our grass. Just a warning, we had a new neighbour move in with 2 labradors that live in her back garden most of the time. Their presence stopped cats coming over from her side. We then spotted a rat in the garden and now have to put poison boxes down on the routes the rats use. The joys of living in a village.

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VividDenimTiger · 05/06/2026 06:03

Thanks for all the suggestions. I definitely don’t want any kind of pet. And my eldest is allergic to cats too which means we can’t have them in the house. But I also don’t want them shitting in my garden anymore either!

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AMurderofMurderingCrows · 04/06/2026 22:38

Dragonflyspeeding · 04/06/2026 21:56

You have created this idea of a cat being a pet. Look at farm cats. They hunt, they eat. They sleep in sheds. They clean themselves. They don’t need people. The very people who claim their cats are domesticated are the very people who declare they have a right to roam. They are also the same entitled people who disregard their neighbour’s right to a clean garden.

Well thanks for giving me the credit for the idea of the domestication of cats. It has taken thousands of years for people to listen to me and it was pretty tough but yes I, single handedly created that idea.

My family are farmers and the farm cats are big spoiled lumps. I have horses and the stable cats are equally spoiled, fed, vet trips etc. same as the farm felines.

But again, revel in my attention my fast dragon who flies 😁

XenoBitch · 04/06/2026 22:28

Raquelos · 04/06/2026 22:17

People have cats, and some people have outside cats, that's okay and really pretty normal in the UK. If this is bothering you (and I can see why it would) it is your problem to solve, not the owners. That's the legal position so no point getting cross about it tbh.

All that said, something we found to be very successful was motion-activated sprinklers. The little buggers don't getting wet, so they stopped visiting us completely after a while. Something like this <amazon link>. You can just switch them off when you are out there yourself. I hope it helps.

Some cats roam into a garden that has a dog with a high prey drive. Cat gets injured/killed.
Is it up to the dog owner to deter cats? Or cat owner to stop their cat roaming into gardens with dogs that will attack them?

Raquelos · 04/06/2026 22:17

People have cats, and some people have outside cats, that's okay and really pretty normal in the UK. If this is bothering you (and I can see why it would) it is your problem to solve, not the owners. That's the legal position so no point getting cross about it tbh.

All that said, something we found to be very successful was motion-activated sprinklers. The little buggers don't getting wet, so they stopped visiting us completely after a while. Something like this <amazon link>. You can just switch them off when you are out there yourself. I hope it helps.

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ICantStomachWhelks · 04/06/2026 22:02

OP, do you know of anyone with a dog you could have to stay for a few days? Or have you tried that?

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