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Cat spikes around garden

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VividDenimTiger · 04/06/2026 16:30

So, we live in house with a small garden. The neighbours cats have been shitting in our garden every day for literally 5 years. We have tried EVERYTHING to deter them- sensors, water sprays, planting cat deterrent plants, lion poo, spraying stuff. You name it, we have tried it.

Our garden stinks of cat shit all the time. The neighbours who own the cats- sit outside in their garden all the time enjoying life because their cats don’t shit at home.

It’s broken me - we can’t actually use our garden at all at the moment as it’s terrible- they shit in the beds, dig up our plants and spray against the shed.

So we have put up cat spikes to try and deter them as a last resort. I hate them and they look awful but I am hoping it might deter them. Neighbour has already made it clear how unreasonable we are - they are on our side of the fence so no boundary issues. I am trying not to fall out with them but we have asked them many times to try and contain their cats- they have 4.

so AIBU? I am literally at the end of my tether. My kids can’t play in the garden as there is constant shit. It’s stressing me out so much - we just want to use our own garden so this is honestly last resort. I am really upset by it all.

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MariaMagdalenaa · 07/06/2026 09:34

KittyPup · 07/06/2026 09:28

Surely nobody ever actually throws cat poo over the fence to their neighbours? How can you prove it was their cat? There’s loads in an area. If my neighbour did that, I would fling it straight back over and aim for their furniture and windows. Some people are disgusting.

I know. Madness right? My cats roam but 💩 in their litter trays at home. There are lots of cats and foxes around. Most of the 💩 visible on the grass is 🦊 💩.
i would go mental if my neighbours started to throw random poo over the fence. They’d have to show me cctv if my cat being the culprit.

MariaMagdalenaa · 07/06/2026 09:32

FeegleFion · 07/06/2026 09:16

Google is your friend 🙄

The very fact you live in a quiet area with lots of gardens around might give you a clue as to why your cats don’t pass earlier.

No Google isn’t always your friend. Clearly no one actually keeps statistics on this. Cats who roam don’t live on average 3 years. You are making things up as you go along here.

KittyPup · 07/06/2026 09:28

Surely nobody ever actually throws cat poo over the fence to their neighbours? How can you prove it was their cat? There’s loads in an area. If my neighbour did that, I would fling it straight back over and aim for their furniture and windows. Some people are disgusting.

FruitFlyPie · 07/06/2026 09:22

Try it OP but it may not work unfortunately. I have a cat and I put up cat spikes, both to keep my cat in and to keep other cats out. It didn't work at all, the cats were deterred for less than one day. After that both my cat and the neighbours cats just walked/jumped right on without being bothered.

FeegleFion · 07/06/2026 09:16

MariaMagdalenaa · 07/06/2026 09:00

Where did you get this statistic from? Did you make it up? 😆

I have had cat my whole life and they have all roamed and lived a long and very happy life. Yes I know the risk of letting my cats roam, but I much prefer them to have a fun and active life chasing butterflies in the garden. I think it depends where you live. I live on a quiet road with huge gardens around for them to play with (and poo in😀)

Google is your friend 🙄

The very fact you live in a quiet area with lots of gardens around might give you a clue as to why your cats don’t pass earlier.

Sunnyyetnotsunny · 07/06/2026 09:05

I think it depends where you live. I live on a quiet road with huge gardens around for them to play with (and poo in😀)

This is actually quite a crunch of it.
2 random map screenshots.
If 30% households have cats in each of these areas, one is fucked, second is fine.
I lived in both type of set ups and it makes such a massive difference. Especially when your garden is interesting so it becomes a territory fight (which I think has happened to OP as well because it soumds like what I had when I lived in area like image 1). Totally different experiences.

Cat spikes around garden
Cat spikes around garden
MariaMagdalenaa · 07/06/2026 09:00

FeegleFion · 07/06/2026 08:43

Not that I need to explain anything to you but I live in a huge house, she’s a pedigree and I live very close to a busy road and tram stop.

Cats who are allowed to roam live, on average, 3 years. Cats who don’t live, on average, 15 years.

I’m more than happy to keep her a prisoner.

Where did you get this statistic from? Did you make it up? 😆

I have had cat my whole life and they have all roamed and lived a long and very happy life. Yes I know the risk of letting my cats roam, but I much prefer them to have a fun and active life chasing butterflies in the garden. I think it depends where you live. I live on a quiet road with huge gardens around for them to play with (and poo in😀)

Femalemachinest · 07/06/2026 08:54

Dragonflyspeeding · 06/06/2026 15:24

I'm sure the police will be right on it. 😂😂😂

Youre disgusting.

FeegleFion · 07/06/2026 08:43

MesonBoson · 04/06/2026 18:20

Another prisoner

Not that I need to explain anything to you but I live in a huge house, she’s a pedigree and I live very close to a busy road and tram stop.

Cats who are allowed to roam live, on average, 3 years. Cats who don’t live, on average, 15 years.

I’m more than happy to keep her a prisoner.

msmolli · 06/06/2026 22:42

W0tnow · 04/06/2026 16:34

I used to throw the neighbour’s cat poo back into their garden. Every morning.

I used to do that too.

tinyspiny · 06/06/2026 22:34

MyBlueFinch · 06/06/2026 18:24

I have the same problem with cats. I tried everything, nothing worked.
Now, i stopped planting.
If a deterrent is found please tell us.

Cat proof your garden , as I said earlier it is as effective at keeping cats out as it is at keeping them in . You may get the odd one but most will be foiled . The ones you catch can then be dropped at the local vets as ‘stray’ if you really want to inconvenience the owners .

XenoBitch · 06/06/2026 18:26

MyBlueFinch · 06/06/2026 18:24

I have the same problem with cats. I tried everything, nothing worked.
Now, i stopped planting.
If a deterrent is found please tell us.

Get a greyhound.

MyBlueFinch · 06/06/2026 18:24

I have the same problem with cats. I tried everything, nothing worked.
Now, i stopped planting.
If a deterrent is found please tell us.

Ketzele · 06/06/2026 16:52

I'm a cat lover too (though mine stays inside) but no argument from me if what you are doing is legal and humane. The trouble is that people have too many cats (and dogs) in built-up areas. Cats need their own territory and expecting four to confine themselves to one small garden just isnt going to happen.

Dragonflyspeeding · 06/06/2026 15:24

curious79 · 06/06/2026 15:03

And poison a hedgehog, or a fox, or any kind of Bird. Don’t encourage the batshit crazy poisoner (who I have encouraged the police to look into)

I'm sure the police will be right on it. 😂😂😂

curious79 · 06/06/2026 15:03

Dragonflyspeeding · 06/06/2026 14:29

Well remember there are plenty of people who have reached the end of their tether with fouling cats and have poison down, when you next make the decision to let them out. On your head be it.

And poison a hedgehog, or a fox, or any kind of Bird. Don’t encourage the batshit crazy poisoner (who I have encouraged the police to look into)

curious79 · 06/06/2026 15:01

Thimblybee · 05/06/2026 14:38

The mess they create is absolutely disgusting and unique in that, unlike dogs, it seems perfectly acceptable for your cat to shit on everyone else's property. It's mental!!

At least cats tend to poo in a border. Dogs shit in the middle of a lawn, and a pavement or a public footpath. Dog shit is the nemesis of our times. As are dogs. Bloody everywhere, yapping in cafés, barking for no reason

Gettingbysomehow · 06/06/2026 14:53

Deboragh · 06/06/2026 13:41

Good for you. It's bizarre how arsey cat owners get when they have to deal with their own pets turds.

Is it? I clean up my cats turds from the litter tray everyday. It doesnt bother me in the slightest. Id sooner do that than clean up a babys dirty bottom for three years and put their non biodegrabable nappies in landfill to rot for 100s of years.

Dragonflyspeeding · 06/06/2026 14:29

Cardisncocktails · 06/06/2026 07:05

You are a real red flag. You want to poison cats?? Clearly you're a weirdo. And yes, I mean that in a judgemental way.

Well remember there are plenty of people who have reached the end of their tether with fouling cats and have poison down, when you next make the decision to let them out. On your head be it.

ScaredButUnavoidable · 06/06/2026 14:18

I’m a cat owner and YANBU at all!!!!

Superhansrantowindsor · 06/06/2026 14:15

Can’t believe some suggested the neighbour comes round twice a week to clean up. They should be there every single day!
I have a cat. If she did this and wouldn’t stop she’d become a house cat. If I found out she’d pooed in someone’s garden I’d be round to clear it up straight away.
you deffo should be flinging it over their fence. I know some folk hate cats but the vermin we would have without them would be horrid.

Deboragh · 06/06/2026 13:46

Floatingdownriver · 04/06/2026 16:42

Cat owner here. If this was happening to my neighbour I’d arrange to pop over twice a week and scoop. Have you tried getting them over to see the extent of this issue?

Twice a week?!? Really, so they can't use their own garden's and have to play cat shit hopscotch FIVE days a week because of your selfish entitlement. Really. Unbelievable

Deboragh · 06/06/2026 13:41

W0tnow · 04/06/2026 16:34

I used to throw the neighbour’s cat poo back into their garden. Every morning.

Good for you. It's bizarre how arsey cat owners get when they have to deal with their own pets turds.

Secretseverywhere · 06/06/2026 11:13

I think it’s fair enough, cats have the rights to roam but property owners have the right to protect their property from roaming cats surely.

Otherwise where does it end? Should you have to leave the windows open so they get first go at dinner too?

I’m sure the neighbours aren’t happy as you are changing the status quo to their detriment. They haven’t cared about your detriment for years though so I’d take a leaf out of their book and develop a thicker skin about it all. If they approach I’d make sympathetic noises and say things like “I’m sure they will adjust to the new regime quickly” and “would you like take some dirt from the flowerbed as it might help them establish their ow n cat poo area”

pollymere · 06/06/2026 10:57

I've just cleared our garden to put in a patio. Unfortunately cats seem to think this is now a giant toilet. My old cat used to delicately bury its poo. My new cat only has three legs and doesn't know how to bury it either. However... The poo in the cleared space isn't hers! I'm getting random cats pooing in my garden! I'm not sure why this seems to be so much more of a problem now.