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Cat spikes around garden

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VividDenimTiger · 04/06/2026 16:30

So, we live in house with a small garden. The neighbours cats have been shitting in our garden every day for literally 5 years. We have tried EVERYTHING to deter them- sensors, water sprays, planting cat deterrent plants, lion poo, spraying stuff. You name it, we have tried it.

Our garden stinks of cat shit all the time. The neighbours who own the cats- sit outside in their garden all the time enjoying life because their cats don’t shit at home.

It’s broken me - we can’t actually use our garden at all at the moment as it’s terrible- they shit in the beds, dig up our plants and spray against the shed.

So we have put up cat spikes to try and deter them as a last resort. I hate them and they look awful but I am hoping it might deter them. Neighbour has already made it clear how unreasonable we are - they are on our side of the fence so no boundary issues. I am trying not to fall out with them but we have asked them many times to try and contain their cats- they have 4.

so AIBU? I am literally at the end of my tether. My kids can’t play in the garden as there is constant shit. It’s stressing me out so much - we just want to use our own garden so this is honestly last resort. I am really upset by it all.

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AnnaNirvana2 · 14/06/2026 18:34

You are NOT being unreasonable. THEY are unreasonable for other people having to tolerate THEIR pets. They get the advantages, while you get the 💩 end of the deal. I'm sure others have said this but there are safe dererrents you can use. Fresh orange peel placed where they enter your garden. A big water pistol always at hand. Placing bird boxes and feeders high up, away from trees and shrubs and high birdbaths that cats can't climb on. Shout at them, chase them off if you are sat out there. Remove their deposits and spray either aromatherapy orange or grapefruit oil, or bleach on the spot and where they enter. The worst is when an unneutered Tom decides to mark it's territory. It b*oody stinks. Good luck.

XenoBitch · 14/06/2026 17:05

Focacciaisyum · 14/06/2026 07:12

You absolutely cant! Unless the litter box is dirty or the cats peed in the house or something disgusting. . Dogs smell, so often you can tell by that wet dog smell when you walk, in but cats just dont

When I met my ex DP, he had 3 cats. I walked into his house and had no idea. No cat smells at all.

ForeverTheOptomist · 14/06/2026 17:02

Stolengoat · 14/06/2026 09:19

Anyone who doesn't have cats can, no matter how clean the house is.

Sorry. This is nonsense.

ImaSpringChicken · 14/06/2026 09:29

It depends. Blunt plastic spikes are ok, jaggwd metal ones, are not and could land you in serious trouble.

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Stolengoat · 14/06/2026 09:19

Focacciaisyum · 14/06/2026 07:12

You absolutely cant! Unless the litter box is dirty or the cats peed in the house or something disgusting. . Dogs smell, so often you can tell by that wet dog smell when you walk, in but cats just dont

Anyone who doesn't have cats can, no matter how clean the house is.

jeaux90 · 14/06/2026 09:14

Good for you OP, if the neighbours complain to your face about the spikes give them both barrels about 5 years of cat shit and stinky garden.

Focacciaisyum · 14/06/2026 07:12

Stolengoat · 13/06/2026 22:11

You can tell if a house has a cat living in it as soon as you walk through the door I'm afraid.

You absolutely cant! Unless the litter box is dirty or the cats peed in the house or something disgusting. . Dogs smell, so often you can tell by that wet dog smell when you walk, in but cats just dont

Stolengoat · 13/06/2026 22:11

Focacciaisyum · 04/06/2026 18:43

Nope. Not unless the litter trays aren't cleaned straight away after use or the cat sprays indoors. Hate cats all you want but no need for lies is there?

You can tell if a house has a cat living in it as soon as you walk through the door I'm afraid.

Sunnyyetnotsunny · 08/06/2026 08:08

VividDenimTiger · 08/06/2026 07:27

Op here with a 💩 update.

We haven’t had any fresh poo for 2 days which is the first time in 5 years + so it’s a good start. I hope it lasts.

The neighbours were outside loudly gobbing off about the spikes and said they were outrageous on Friday. They don’t seem to understand that 5 years of cat shit that makes our garden unusable is more outrageous tbh.

Good result, may it last!

Plmnki · 08/06/2026 07:39

Cat owner here. Totally sympathise with OP. We have cat proofed our garden to keep our cats INSIDE our garden. They are safe and able to enjoy the garden. We don’t let them out unless we are home and we check on them often when they are outdoors. No going outdoors at night either.

This is being a responsible pet owner. I’m not British and I’m amazed at how British people think it’s ok to let cats roam. There are great systems available to make gardens escape proof, people just can’t be bothered.

really sorry you’re going through this OP, there is plenty your neighbour could do to stop their cats wandering if the cared enough - they are irresponsible and selfish, alas. Definitely return the poo to them.

VividDenimTiger · 08/06/2026 07:27

Op here with a 💩 update.

We haven’t had any fresh poo for 2 days which is the first time in 5 years + so it’s a good start. I hope it lasts.

The neighbours were outside loudly gobbing off about the spikes and said they were outrageous on Friday. They don’t seem to understand that 5 years of cat shit that makes our garden unusable is more outrageous tbh.

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ThatHappySloth · 07/06/2026 19:38

I haven't read all of the posts so sorry if this has already been suggested. We had a cat issue, after a lot of research we got a cat sensor that emitted a high pitched noise, we couldn't hear it but the cats could. It took a few days of them trying to come in still but they hated it and moved onto the next garden after a week max. It was expensive. We paid about £50 for it but worth every penny. We haven't had any poo since and its been years.

Jc2001 · 07/06/2026 19:24

Sadworld23 · 05/06/2026 22:02

Get a dog maybe?

Really? That's your solution to stop cats coming it to your garden? Commit yourself to 15+ years of looking after and caring for a high maintenance pet?

FeegleFion · 07/06/2026 19:10

MariaMagdalenaa · 07/06/2026 18:35

You didn’t even read the “research” you presented. Maybe read it again slowly 😉

Away you go, it’s taken you all day to come up with this. This was one example. Don’t try to patronise me

MariaMagdalenaa · 07/06/2026 18:35

FeegleFion · 07/06/2026 10:12

It may not always be your friend, however, in this case it could have been.

It’s also common sense that indoor cats live longer; they’re not exposed to the dangers that outdoor, free roaming cats are.

You’ve already mentioned you live in a quiet area, so your cats aren’t going to be exposed to the same dangers that urban cats are, so it is nuanced but I can assure you I’m not making anything up “as I go along”.

You literally only need to look and you’ll find many pieces of evidenced information but you seem to want to make a liar of me and I can’t stand liars, so here’s some reading, if you’re interested.

“Remarkable Lifespan Differences
Most importantly, the lifespan data proves striking. UC Davis research demonstrates that outdoor-only cats typically live just 2-5 years, whilst indoor cats enjoy lifespans averaging 15-17 years.”

Taken from the site linked below.

https://catlives.co.uk/general/indoor-vs-outdoor-cats-pros-and-cons/

You didn’t even read the “research” you presented. Maybe read it again slowly 😉

Sheknowsaboutme · 07/06/2026 17:45

Sprinkle extra hot chilli powder where it shits. Then watch it lick its paws.

i did this and kitty stopped coming over.

theyellowdaffodil · 07/06/2026 17:38

have you tried jeyes fluid?pour all around perimeter of garden fence and shed.

DeafLeppard · 07/06/2026 12:48

Jeyes fluid sprayed on hard surfaces works well, and has the added bonus of being a disinfectant. Like you we had tried everything, Jeyes is the only thing that works.

BadParkingRevenge · 07/06/2026 12:43

DisforDarkChocolate · 07/06/2026 12:21

Do you really this is would be enough? So many deluded cat owners about.

Yes, it would need to be daily at least

BadParkingRevenge · 07/06/2026 12:42

Gettingbysomehow · 06/06/2026 14:53

Is it? I clean up my cats turds from the litter tray everyday. It doesnt bother me in the slightest. Id sooner do that than clean up a babys dirty bottom for three years and put their non biodegrabable nappies in landfill to rot for 100s of years.

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Cleaning them from a litter tray is much easier and nicer than having to dig them up (or worse, come across them accidentally) all around the garden.

Out of interest - assuming the cat is litter trained, would it work to have a litter tray in the garden? Would that mean the cat only used the tray, so it was at least contained/easier to clean?

I have been wondering how to deal with the same problem!

DisforDarkChocolate · 07/06/2026 12:21

Floatingdownriver · 04/06/2026 16:42

Cat owner here. If this was happening to my neighbour I’d arrange to pop over twice a week and scoop. Have you tried getting them over to see the extent of this issue?

Do you really this is would be enough? So many deluded cat owners about.

BeZippyZebra · 07/06/2026 12:04

VividDenimTiger · 04/06/2026 16:33

The spikes look awful and it has upset me but I can’t go on. We actually found maggots in some of the cat shit recently- it’s so horrendous

Maggots or worms? I'd ask the owner to come and remove it every time

Gruntled1 · 07/06/2026 11:25

Simply cannot bear cats but the responsibility lies firmly with the owners.

tinyspiny · 07/06/2026 10:44

@MariaMagdalenaa I think most people can tell the difference between fox poo and cat poo and you are deluded if you think most cats bury their poo , they don’t , they shit wherever have a quick scrape and walk off because they are basically lazy . That said you can’t be throwing poo over fences unless you’ve actually witnessed the cat in the act and if that is the case you should be out there chasing it away not watching it crap !

FeegleFion · 07/06/2026 10:12

MariaMagdalenaa · 07/06/2026 09:32

No Google isn’t always your friend. Clearly no one actually keeps statistics on this. Cats who roam don’t live on average 3 years. You are making things up as you go along here.

It may not always be your friend, however, in this case it could have been.

It’s also common sense that indoor cats live longer; they’re not exposed to the dangers that outdoor, free roaming cats are.

You’ve already mentioned you live in a quiet area, so your cats aren’t going to be exposed to the same dangers that urban cats are, so it is nuanced but I can assure you I’m not making anything up “as I go along”.

You literally only need to look and you’ll find many pieces of evidenced information but you seem to want to make a liar of me and I can’t stand liars, so here’s some reading, if you’re interested.

“Remarkable Lifespan Differences
Most importantly, the lifespan data proves striking. UC Davis research demonstrates that outdoor-only cats typically live just 2-5 years, whilst indoor cats enjoy lifespans averaging 15-17 years.”

Taken from the site linked below.

https://catlives.co.uk/general/indoor-vs-outdoor-cats-pros-and-cons/

Indoor vs outdoor cats lifestyle comparison showing indoor cat on window perch and outdoor cat in garden

Indoor vs Outdoor Cats: How to Add 10+ Years to Your Cat's Life [Vet-Approved] - Catlives

Explore the key benefits and drawbacks of indoor vs outdoor cats: pros and cons. Make an informed choice for your feline friend’s health and happiness.

https://catlives.co.uk/general/indoor-vs-outdoor-cats-pros-and-cons