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To think all knives including religious ones should be banned, after what happened to Henry Nowak

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BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 15:19

A more sensible thread this time. I think all carrying of knives should be banned with no religious exemptions allowed , the law should be called the Henry Nowak Bill ....in memory of the young man who lost his life

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BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 16:43

friedaklein · 04/06/2026 16:41

Oh FFS.
Way to make a tragedy about you.
You have an agenda.

Being a concerned parent and an empathetic citizen is not a bad agenda to have?

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measuretwicecutonce · 04/06/2026 16:42

There is a big difference between carrying a knife for your job and because you believe in something. I think many people, me included, have had enough of ‘because my religion requires it’ and I can’t believe it’s in law that Sikhs can carry a weapon in this way. It’s another example of allowing peoples beliefs to encroach and take priority over standards and norms in the uk. Whilst I agree that people will still carry knives, it is done illegally and there is no confusion in law.

I also wish people would stop saying that the muslim faith and Sikh faith are peaceful. There are bad apples in every group, the difference is most of us are just going about our lives within the laws and not expecting special treatment.

friedaklein · 04/06/2026 16:41

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 16:39

That's the first I have had one of those ....

DC home for today safe, tomorrow is another day.....
I'm sure I am not the only parent feeling this

Oh FFS.
Way to make a tragedy about you.
You have an agenda.

caringcarer · 04/06/2026 16:41

JuneJoys · 04/06/2026 16:25

You could try reading the thread or using you imagination...

chef
electrician
gardener
pumber
decorator

My gardener does not carry a knife. Chefs have knives at their places of work not carrying them around the streets.

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 16:39

friedaklein · 04/06/2026 16:36

Brilliant solution.

That's the first I have had one of those ....

DC home for today safe, tomorrow is another day.....
I'm sure I am not the only parent feeling this

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friedaklein · 04/06/2026 16:36

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 16:12

Ahh Mrs Pratchett.....

My other suggestion was going to be that we intermarry off everyone so there is no more separate races ....and that we have only one world religion, maybe Taoism ....

But yes just really very very upset about is all, about Henry's killing.
Only heard two days ago and saw the video

Brilliant solution.

JuneJoys · 04/06/2026 16:34

alfagirl73 · 04/06/2026 16:23

The ban you propose would be impractical in reality for the reasons already stated ie professions that require knives, eg chefs.

In addition, such a ban is unlikely to make a difference. If someone is intent on using a knife as a weapon to kill someone, then breaking the law is clearly not a concern for them. They are unlikely to be deterred from carrying such a weapon by any law when they are already planning to commit murder.

I'm not sure it'll make any difference, to the hard of thinking, how many of us say this in various different ways

Whammyammy · 04/06/2026 16:32

Will Vickrum Digwa albe allowed to carry his ceremonial sword is prison?

if not, it shows that the state regarded it as a weapon rather than a religious accessory all along.

CitizenofMoronia · 04/06/2026 16:32

How often have you heard of a member of the Sihk community using a kirpan to commit a crime? He didnt commit the crime because he was Sihk he did it cos he was evil and out to cause a crime, it wasnt even the kirpan he used by all accounts.

radioX · 04/06/2026 16:31

TeaPot496 · 04/06/2026 15:25

It's already illegal to carry pointed and bladed articles for no good reason, is it not?

I don’t think religion is a good reason.

Secretseverywhere · 04/06/2026 16:30

I do think the existing legislation could use some clarification. The murder weapon wasn’t a kirpan but a “Persian blade”. The Sikh federation said it was an offensive weapon but the murderer had been carrying it openly at work and in
public.

Most of us couldn’t carry around an 8” blade at work (unless cheffing) but I can understand why people would struggle what does / doesn’t have a religious exemption. I wouldn’t necessarily want to argue the toss if I felt I was at risk of being labelled racist so it’s better there’s a clear definition.

It’s worth noting this is only coming to a head due to this horrible murder. Sikhs have been carrying ceremonial blades in the UK for generations without issue.

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 16:29

Uricon2 · 04/06/2026 16:26

I am not Sikh but have know very many through my life. As others have pointed out, the terrible murder of Henry Nowak was not carried out with a kirpan. Also, many Sikh men carry tiny symbolic ones a couple of inches long, or in sheathes that it is deliberately impossible to draw them from.

It is wrong that a symbol of justice and protection of the weak has been dragged into infamy by Digwa, but his actions are indicative of knife crime in this country generally rather than an issue in this specific community. People have forgotten that the Sikhs of Southall and elsewhere gathered at mosques, churches and synagogues during the 2011 riots to protect them.

OK thank you .....yes makes sense

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HunkaMunkasslipper · 04/06/2026 16:27

I once accidentally stole a huge knife from a pub and was very nervous about how to take it back to them!

I am not sure regarding blades as a religious symbol. I am not religious so I probably don't understand, but I wouldn't want to risk someone taking it off me and using it on me!

But the bottom line is making them illegal wouldn't do any good even if it was practicable which (as many examples on this thread illustrate) it isn't. Awful people who are involved in crime (and the kids that they encourage to join them in their pursuits) are carrying blades about with them already, illegally. Burglary is illegal too, has that stopped it? Men aren't legally allowed to kill women either, we've all seen the stats on that. I think I've made my point.

JuneJoys · 04/06/2026 16:26

tiramisugelato · 04/06/2026 16:12

He says he'd prefer a fork 😂

👍🏻🤣🤣

so long as it's silicon, else the tines might be too pointy!

Uricon2 · 04/06/2026 16:26

I am not Sikh but have know very many through my life. As others have pointed out, the terrible murder of Henry Nowak was not carried out with a kirpan. Also, many Sikh men carry tiny symbolic ones a couple of inches long, or in sheathes that it is deliberately impossible to draw them from.

It is wrong that a symbol of justice and protection of the weak has been dragged into infamy by Digwa, but his actions are indicative of knife crime in this country generally rather than an issue in this specific community. People have forgotten that the Sikhs of Southall and elsewhere gathered at mosques, churches and synagogues during the 2011 riots to protect them.

JuneJoys · 04/06/2026 16:25

caringcarer · 04/06/2026 15:59

100 percent agree. There is never a legitimate reason to carry knives around. Also allowing some groups to carry knives but others is 2 tier policing.

You could try reading the thread or using you imagination...

chef
electrician
gardener
pumber
decorator

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 16:24

JustaDream · 04/06/2026 16:23

No, some of us aren't willing to be dictated to in the manner you've suggested so, literally, this is not a solution.

Fair enough

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EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 04/06/2026 16:24

ThejoyofNC · 04/06/2026 16:06

People keep giving examples of people who use knives in their profession. Do any of those walk around with it strapped to them 24/7 when they're not even working? Nope

I carry my swiss army knife with me most days. It's perfectly legal to do so - the blade is the three inches legally allowed, and I haven't modified it in any way. It's in a small purse in my backpack with other small handy items (like a mirror, small sewing kit, etc.) so not quickly accessible if I suddenly decided to randomly attack someone with it (this has never actually happened, I have used the knife to cut up fruit and cake, and the scissors, screwdriver, bottle opener and tweezers have seen a lot of use).

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 04/06/2026 16:24

caringcarer · 04/06/2026 15:59

100 percent agree. There is never a legitimate reason to carry knives around. Also allowing some groups to carry knives but others is 2 tier policing.

Never a legitimate reason... apart from the many that people have given on here already?

Like so many things, all a law would do would be to make things more difficult and inconvenient for all of the innocent people needing to use knives in their everyday jobs and pursuits, whilst the criminals simply wouldn't care.

If you make something illegal, the result is that honest people stop doing it, whilst those with bad intent continue to do it, only finding ways to hide what they're doing.

Also, as PP said, you can use loads of things as a weapon if you really wanted to. If you ban knives to stop criminals stabbing victims with them; either they ignore the new rule or they just start carrying rolling pins and smash people's heads in as well. If I walk home from the supermarket with a tin of beans, I could probably kill somebody with it, with a powerful blow to the head, if I were that way inclined.

alfagirl73 · 04/06/2026 16:23

The ban you propose would be impractical in reality for the reasons already stated ie professions that require knives, eg chefs.

In addition, such a ban is unlikely to make a difference. If someone is intent on using a knife as a weapon to kill someone, then breaking the law is clearly not a concern for them. They are unlikely to be deterred from carrying such a weapon by any law when they are already planning to commit murder.

JustaDream · 04/06/2026 16:23

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 16:22

Literally by now we could have solved the big problem of human mortality, or the hard problem of consciousness as scientists call it, if we had all come together by now and focused on this

No, some of us aren't willing to be dictated to in the manner you've suggested so, literally, this is not a solution.

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 16:22

JustaDream · 04/06/2026 16:14

No thanks.

Literally by now we could have solved the big problem of human mortality, or the hard problem of consciousness as scientists call it, if we had all come together by now and focused on this

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JuneJoys · 04/06/2026 16:21

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/06/2026 16:09

No. Stupid kneejerk bullshit.

Succinct 👍🏻 completely agree!!

JuneJoys · 04/06/2026 16:19

RubyPowderPuff · 04/06/2026 15:55

Even if you bann knifes, ceremonial blades and genuine tools, there will always be some idiots carrying one with the intent to harm someone or something.

Exactly.

i seriously doubt anyone carrying one legally is the problem. (Ignore the oxymoron there)

the people carrying them illegally to cause harm aren't going to stop carrying them no matter what laws are changed or added.

Canoodler · 04/06/2026 16:18

Yes.
I think all laws should be the same for everyone from now on.