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To think all knives including religious ones should be banned, after what happened to Henry Nowak

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BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 15:19

A more sensible thread this time. I think all carrying of knives should be banned with no religious exemptions allowed , the law should be called the Henry Nowak Bill ....in memory of the young man who lost his life

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NovemberMorn · 04/06/2026 18:35

Yes...all knives, including those carried for religious or cultural reasons, should be banned in public in this country.

edited for sp.

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/06/2026 18:32

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 18:27

Well we are all grown ups and we know how to be politically correct all the time when out in public

But Henry was only 18 , saw a person with a huge dagger strapped to his waist , possibly picked the wrong moment and wrong person to joke around with and apparently said ' you a bad man innit, say you a bad man' according to the sky news article , after which crazy violent guy says I am a bad man and conveniently uses the same dagger to attack.

So teach all 18 year old boys to never joke around (my DC are teens, we all know how impossible this is?) or just stop complicating everything with so many different cultural nuances, exemptions, religions , differences in this day and age and ban anything that doesnt make sense and cant possibly end well like having anything sharp worn on oneself. Ppl could hurt themselves first off, at least ban it for that reason

Let's all be beige drones who all think and look the same. Ban everything else. That'll make us happier and safer.

Cobblers. Human difference and cultural nuance is one of the great joys of my life. Stop applying 10 seconds of thinking to complex and challenging issues and deciding your uneducated reckons will solve society's ills

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 18:27

Lavender14 · 04/06/2026 18:21

Op that was your choice to stop displaying your faith/ culture in certain ways in order to assimilate. The problem with what you're suggesting is that someone else should have decided for you which parts of your culture/ faith you should be allowed to keep and which you wouldn't be allowed to keep. And you'd get no say in the matter.

Well we are all grown ups and we know how to be politically correct all the time when out in public

But Henry was only 18 , saw a person with a huge dagger strapped to his waist , possibly picked the wrong moment and wrong person to joke around with and apparently said ' you a bad man innit, say you a bad man' according to the sky news article , after which crazy violent guy says I am a bad man and conveniently uses the same dagger to attack.

So teach all 18 year old boys to never joke around (my DC are teens, we all know how impossible this is?) or just stop complicating everything with so many different cultural nuances, exemptions, religions , differences in this day and age and ban anything that doesnt make sense and cant possibly end well like having anything sharp worn on oneself. Ppl could hurt themselves first off, at least ban it for that reason

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Aiakja · 04/06/2026 18:27

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 15:39

ChatGpt said a lot of sikhs agree as well,

We just need the law rolled out

No knives to be carried in public, including chefs and fencers

Unless we create a teleport machine chefs, fencers and the many other professions (and hobbies like fishing, hunting) that use them, I am one of them, are going to have to carry them in public. the vast majority of them professions always do in a fairly discrete and sensible manner anyway

Anarchy99 · 04/06/2026 18:26

Most stabbings are done using knives that are illegal to carry anyway so it wouldn’t make much difference

Uricon2 · 04/06/2026 18:23

I stopped wearing the bindi tikka on my forehead to blend in

You can wear a bindi and be part of a wider community, like you can wear the Sikh turban and/or the kara or for that matter the kirpan and be part of it. Why is blending in so important? Surely we should accept that people have different religious/cultural symbols and unless they are actually harmful, why do they need to 'blend in'?

The British (including the white ones) are a bunch of mongrels, in a really great way. The waves of people coming here from prehistory have made us what we are. Join in by all means, but losing your cultural identity is not necessary.

Lavender14 · 04/06/2026 18:21

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 18:04

The law should be specifically no wearing of daggers in public unless required for occupational reasons

Chat Gpt says the religious rule came into place in the 1600s against Mughal persecution - so not needed unless the Mughals come to town again and actively start persecuting. Safe to say.

I came here from India in 2007 and where I first lived had lots of Pakistanis, I wanted to blend in and get along, my best friend in school was muslim , Indian muslim but- I had never met a Pakistani before I came here.

I stopped wearing the bindi tikka on my forehead to blend in , to reinforce what we had in common (mmm yummy biryani etc) rather than our perceived differences (which I dont believe are real differences anyway, as all Gods are one) - I never saw this as me being ashamed of my Hindu culture, I dont need to shout it from the rooftops. Any Pakistanis I met were lovely to me, and also made it a point to tell me all the Indian things they loved (Bollywood movies etc).

Anyway, just really saddened by the Henry Nowak news. Cant stop thinking about this.

Op that was your choice to stop displaying your faith/ culture in certain ways in order to assimilate. The problem with what you're suggesting is that someone else should have decided for you which parts of your culture/ faith you should be allowed to keep and which you wouldn't be allowed to keep. And you'd get no say in the matter.

SerendipityJane · 04/06/2026 18:21

DeftGoldHedgehog · 04/06/2026 18:05

Knives are banned you great prune.

Maybe ban them again ? In bold type so people pay attention ?

DeftGoldHedgehog · 04/06/2026 18:05

Knives are banned you great prune.

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 18:04

The law should be specifically no wearing of daggers in public unless required for occupational reasons

Chat Gpt says the religious rule came into place in the 1600s against Mughal persecution - so not needed unless the Mughals come to town again and actively start persecuting. Safe to say.

I came here from India in 2007 and where I first lived had lots of Pakistanis, I wanted to blend in and get along, my best friend in school was muslim , Indian muslim but- I had never met a Pakistani before I came here.

I stopped wearing the bindi tikka on my forehead to blend in , to reinforce what we had in common (mmm yummy biryani etc) rather than our perceived differences (which I dont believe are real differences anyway, as all Gods are one) - I never saw this as me being ashamed of my Hindu culture, I dont need to shout it from the rooftops. Any Pakistanis I met were lovely to me, and also made it a point to tell me all the Indian things they loved (Bollywood movies etc).

Anyway, just really saddened by the Henry Nowak news. Cant stop thinking about this.

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Ponderingwindow · 04/06/2026 18:01

I’m an artist on the way to work an in-person session for no pay. It’s purely for the collab. I am carrying multiple blades of various shapes and sizes as part of my work. They are all in cases because otherwise, ouch. Am I ok?

TonTonMacoute · 04/06/2026 18:01

You cannot ban all knives, it's utterly ridiculous.

We need to focus on root causes, whether cultural, joblessness, poor education, lack of role models, lack of discipline in families and in schools.

In more than one recent case it has been found that the police and other authorities have received several warnings about people, which they have ignored, and that person has gone on to murder - Axel Rudekabana and Valdo Calocane being only the latest two. That total lack of any proper investigation and effective intervention what we need to clamp down on first and foremost.

The rise in knife crime is a symptom not a cause, and many knives used in crime are illegal anyway, banning them will change nothing except make life difficult for everyone else.

SerendipityJane · 04/06/2026 17:57

tiramisugelato · 04/06/2026 17:54

What if someone is self-employed and works alone?

Do you not think the police have better things to? Hmm

Re-reading the PP, you could actually understand that they themselves would personally be out enforcing the new world order - they didn't mention the police to be fair (although I presumed as well ....)

tiramisugelato · 04/06/2026 17:54

Credittocress · 04/06/2026 17:47

You are carrying a knife and you have a receipt to show it was bought that day- fine. You have a knife case and give me your restaurant phone number and I can check you’re on shift-fine. You have a knife and you’re carrying a birthday cake- fine.

You have a knife because you always put it on when you get dressed -just in case. Not ok.

What if someone is self-employed and works alone?

Do you not think the police have better things to? Hmm

SerendipityJane · 04/06/2026 17:53

You are carrying a knife and you have a receipt to show it was bought that day- fine. You have a knife case and give me your restaurant phone number and I can check you’re on shift-fine. You have a knife and you’re carrying a birthday cake- fine.

Yet another thing for the police to be spending time one

Assuming the restaurant has a landline. And assuming the police officer can believe whoever answers the phone.

Looks like the serious thinkers are still at work.

Credittocress · 04/06/2026 17:47

SerendipityJane · 04/06/2026 17:45

Absolutely

Credittocress · 04/06/2026 17:47

Jc2001 · 04/06/2026 17:29

How is a chef supposed to work if they can't carry their knives with them?

How are you supposed to carry knives home from the shops to use in the kitchen?

Knives crime is a problem and ceremonial knives are something to think about banning, but you need to apply a bit of common sense to these things.

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You are carrying a knife and you have a receipt to show it was bought that day- fine. You have a knife case and give me your restaurant phone number and I can check you’re on shift-fine. You have a knife and you’re carrying a birthday cake- fine.

You have a knife because you always put it on when you get dressed -just in case. Not ok.

Hiddeninthetrees · 04/06/2026 17:39

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 16:56

Im opposed to them being worn on one's belt, being 18 cms etc

I would not carry one even to a birthday party.. I would just use a table knife borrowed from the premises where the party was. Accidental use by a kid etc

We often have birthday cake at the park, not sure they have them freely available there!

Jc2001 · 04/06/2026 17:29

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 15:39

ChatGpt said a lot of sikhs agree as well,

We just need the law rolled out

No knives to be carried in public, including chefs and fencers

How is a chef supposed to work if they can't carry their knives with them?

How are you supposed to carry knives home from the shops to use in the kitchen?

Knives crime is a problem and ceremonial knives are something to think about banning, but you need to apply a bit of common sense to these things.

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/06/2026 17:28

Whammyammy · 04/06/2026 16:32

Will Vickrum Digwa albe allowed to carry his ceremonial sword is prison?

if not, it shows that the state regarded it as a weapon rather than a religious accessory all along.

They will take belts and shoelaces too. Should they be banned?

I couldn't bring chocolate coins in. WEAPONS.

Credittocress · 04/06/2026 17:24

Jane379 · 04/06/2026 17:04

The Sikh faith is peaceful.

Would you also ban circumcision and kosher slaughter? I would personally ban 1 but not 2.

Yes I’d ban both of these as well. And halal slaughter. If your religion requires your meat to be slaughtered in an inhumane way then you can become vegetarian.

Credittocress · 04/06/2026 17:21

19lottie82 · 04/06/2026 17:08

Chefs? Tradespeople?

Why I say habitually, there is a difference between a chef on their way to work versus getting dressed to go to Tesco and taking your knife with you. If the police could stop and search - find a knife and you say “I am a chef on my way to work- here’s my restaurant number to check” fine- if you say it’s just something I always carry- then I’m sorry that’s not on.

TheWytch · 04/06/2026 17:20

The trouble with this type of knee jerk reaction is that it only inconveniences those of us who carry a knife that we need.

Those who wish to do harm with a knife will continue to carry them illegally just as they do now.

allowaccess · 04/06/2026 17:17

BritIndianGal · 04/06/2026 15:42

Well at least the ceremonial ones can be made plastic or like a stuffed cuddly toy make like someone said on another thread

None of us are ever going to be able to unsee that video again

So what jellycat ceremonial knives ?