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AIBU to question religious exemptions and equal treatment under UK law?

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faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 11:49

I thought carrying a weapon in the UK is illegal - for everyone except a trained police officer or solider?

Why is there a religious exemption for one religion to carry a weapon on our streets "in the name of tolerance"?

Rastafarians are not allowed to smoke cannabis legally, even in their own places of worship and homes. My Rastafarian nephew had to be home schooled. Not only was he not allowed to have dreadlocks, but he not allowed to wear a hair wrap to cover them, as the muslim girls were allowed to cover their hair. Appealing on religious grounds got them no where, they tried for 3 years!

Growing and smoking cannabis only harms yourself (unless you selfishly make others breathe it in), dreadlocks harm no one. Why are these not allowed when some can carry a bladed weapon? In an era when knife crime is disturbingly frequent?!

My view - if it is illegal no one can do it (knives, drugs) if it is legal anyone can (head scarf/dreadlocks)

AIBU to say all religions should be treated equally?

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ThisBirdOnThatRoof · 03/06/2026 12:50

Kirpans are the OPPOSITE of knife culture. They are about responsibility.

Araminta1003 · 03/06/2026 12:50

Also technology and surveillance is moving on with AI and facial recognition. So whether people like it or not, laws have to change including acceptable religious practices in public and on protests.
These religions cannot be stuck in the Middle Ages when societal norms move on.

ShyGirl32 · 03/06/2026 12:49

This isn’t a “how dare they” it’s a “why wouldn’t they”.

Why wouldn’t the Sikh community say, “we acknowledge there is a knife crime problem on our streets. It’s easy for our traditional and sacred practice of wearing knives to be perverted by people who are not practising our faith correctly. It’s impossible to police, since you cannot police intentions. No one can say which young man is carrying a kirpan and which young man is carrying a knife, just by looking at him. You won’t know which knife is “just a knife” until the individual uses it in an offensive manner. Any other young person walking down a street, seeing a knife, won’t know what the owner’s intention is. That creates a problem. So until we can get our streets under control, we are recommending the British Sikh men help the wider community - which by the way is entirely in line with our faith - by adapting how a kirpan is worn, and either they should wear a brightly coloured rubber knife which cannot be mistaken for an offensive weapon, or they can wear a small item of jewellery representing a knife such as a ring or pendant, or a tattoo on their body. Perhaps one day we will not need this measure, but now in Britain it’s necessary to help to wind back the knife culture that is such a big problem among our young people.”

BillieWiper · 03/06/2026 12:48

I've no idea why the schools your nephew tried to attend barred dreadlocks or head coverings. I was brought up to believe Rastafarianism was a legitimate religion. Maybe not as widely practiced as Islam or Hinduism but just as established. It just sounds like racism which is abhorrent.

I don't think anyone should be allowed to carry bladed weapons and I didn't know there were any religions where you could in the UK.

If there is a ceremony or something involving swords etc then it should be registered with the council/police and people have to pass checks to have them. And the handling of them is strictly controlled.

Araminta1003 · 03/06/2026 12:48

Hansard documents exactly why there is a religious exemption for Sikhs. However, at the time no Sikh had attacked anyone with a kirpan.
In this case, the judge accepted that the knife Henry Nowak was killed with qualifed as a type of kirpan. It is all there to read on the sentencing comments. There were 2 “kirpans”. It was an argument put forward and evidenced by an expert witness.

At the very least, the law needs clarifying as to what constitutes an acceptable kirpan in public.
The law passed in 2019 would not have passed with such a wide exemption if the Henry Nowak case had happened before it was debated in Parliament.

Gettingbysomehow · 03/06/2026 12:48

A ceremonial knife should be completely blunt.
Us wiccans use an athame in ritual and it is never allowed to be sharp - it has to be blunt as it is never used for cutting anything.
Once it has blood on it it must be destroyed. So we go out sometimes into the countryside with knives but mine would not even cut a blade of grass.
If these big old knives are just for ceremonial use then they should also be blunt. There is no need for anyone to be carrying sharp ceremonial knives.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:47

@oviraptor21 exactly!

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Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 03/06/2026 12:46

ShyGirl32 · 03/06/2026 12:34

@ThisBirdOnThatRoof but the problem is that while a knife-carrying exemption exists, it can be exploited and yes it will shame the whole religious community.

Wouldn’t it be better for the Sikh community to back a common-sense policy stating that a blade is symbolic and could be worn as a pendant on a chain, or a tattoo, and absolutely NO excuse to carry a knife in 21st century Britain?

Religions that cling to old dogma do cause a heck of a lot of problems. Look at the Catholic Church - decided priests had to be celibate to protect church property and ended up with a nest of paedophiles that tainted the entire Roman Catholic faith.

Times change, and I do think the faith community has to bear responsibility because it has insisted on a situation where people can carry knives. Frankly that is just a stupid tradition, and it needs to end.

I agree with this solution actually. If it's symbolic it could be a pendant or leg tattoo.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:46

@ScholesPanda of course, chefs for example. Thanks, this is helpful!

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ScholesPanda · 03/06/2026 12:46

The problem with knives is that they have lots of practical uses so there will always be legitimate reasons people might own them or be transporting them from one place to another.

Whether we remove the defence for ceremonial knives is a matter of debate, but I think this murder was statistically anomalous- most knife crime is committed with knives being carried by people who would have no legitimate purpose defence if they were caught.

I think the ruling about your nephews hair was ridiculous btw.

JenJenOut · 03/06/2026 12:46

There’s quite a few religious exemptions generally that do irritate me a bit. In my job when training we were told we absolutely must be bare below the elbows. It is a cross infection risk because if you get blood etc on your clothes near your arms you cannot clean it off. You must wash your hands and arms after treating a patient. During training we were not even allowed to wear a cardigan on clinic even in the middle of winter even if we were not actively treating patients ourselves. Absolute no no to ever cover your lower arms.

Unless you have to for religion. Somehow the huge cross infection risk disappears if you say you need to for religion. Now I don’t care how someone wants to dress. But I honestly do not understand how you can be told how much of a cross infection risk something is for one group of people and not for another.

oviraptor21 · 03/06/2026 12:45

If something is illegal it should be illegal across the board imo. So no growing/use of cannabis and no carrying of knives.
In terms of head coverings, if the school allows them for one religion they should allow them for all recognised religions.
Interestingly in secular France, religious head coverings are not permitted. I'm not aware of whether Rastafarians have been affected by this or whether it is just Muslims.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:45

@JustAnUdea I don't necessarily want to ban anything, I just believe in equality.

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JustAnUdea · 03/06/2026 12:43

The law id you can carry certain knifes if you had good reason.

Is it use the ceremonial reason you want to ban, or the other reasons?

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 03/06/2026 12:43

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:03

@Desperatelyseekinglazysusan Yes, Rastafari is recognised as a legitimate religion and belief system in the UK. It is officially protected under UK equality and human rights law.

I agree we should be secular, but even when we are not this makes no sense to me.

The hair covering thing doesn't make sense in that case. I would have thought it was against the Equality Act. The Cannabis is different as if it's a criminal offence then you can't have a general legal exception. The Kirpan is a small ceremonial knife which has to her sheathed at all times, and people are allowed to carry knives for other reasons too under the Criminal law.

ThereAreOnlyShadesOfGrey · 03/06/2026 12:43

it’s high time we restricted the practice of religion to the settings intended to do so. Churches, mosques, temples etc and in the privacy of your own home. But public religion has no place here. If carrying an 8 inch knife is illegal then carrying an 8 inch knife is illegal. The end. The reasons why are irrelevant.

And this has nothing to do with whether this has only happened once. Once is once too many especially when the law essentially facilitated it.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:42

@ShyGirl32 Paedophiles became priests because they could access children. IN 2026 many safeguarding leads are being arrested for crimes against children. The job lures the predator. men did not have a calling from God and then wake up one day a nonce because they weren't allowed a woman. And they also raped and abused nuns: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-47134033

A very different topic but this is the danger with trans women in women's spaces. Not that males with gender dysphoria will attack us, that predators will pretend to be trans to access us.

Pope Francis in Abu Dhabi

Pope admits clerical abuse of nuns including sexual slavery

Pope Francis admits nuns have been sexually abused by clerics - and it is an ongoing problem.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-47134033

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ServietteUnion · 03/06/2026 12:42

YABVU as this is obviously a how-dare-they-come-to-our-country type rant about Sikh kirpans, which is a total red herring in the Nowak case, as it was not the knife that was used. Offensive weapons are illegal whoever is carrying them. Knives are not offensive weapons per se as generations of boy scouts will tell you. I think we are more enlightened now about hair and hair coverings in schools, as you yourself acknowledge. Personal opinions vary, but the law about cannabis is based on very compelling data about its role in the development of mental illness in young people. Hope this covers everything for you.

ThisBirdOnThatRoof · 03/06/2026 12:42

Ndd1356387 · 03/06/2026 12:36

We should ban the carrying of knives and the covering of faces (which in itself is misogynistic). And I include Scottish ceremonial knives too.

No. Women who choose to cover? Their body, their choice.

Scots are indigenous and we have rights to our heritage.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 03/06/2026 12:39

The one that shocks and surprises me although I understand the reasoning for it, is burying your dead loved ones.
I understand other communities dig the plot l, prepare the body and organise the transportation etc but I think it’s cruel that people from England have to wait weeks to lay their loved ones to rest.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:39

@booksunderthebed I know Sikhs as a community have one of the lowest offending rates, along side Jews, but cannot lay my hands on the figures atm, I will find and post later.

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ThisBirdOnThatRoof · 03/06/2026 12:38

ShyGirl32 · 03/06/2026 12:34

@ThisBirdOnThatRoof but the problem is that while a knife-carrying exemption exists, it can be exploited and yes it will shame the whole religious community.

Wouldn’t it be better for the Sikh community to back a common-sense policy stating that a blade is symbolic and could be worn as a pendant on a chain, or a tattoo, and absolutely NO excuse to carry a knife in 21st century Britain?

Religions that cling to old dogma do cause a heck of a lot of problems. Look at the Catholic Church - decided priests had to be celibate to protect church property and ended up with a nest of paedophiles that tainted the entire Roman Catholic faith.

Times change, and I do think the faith community has to bear responsibility because it has insisted on a situation where people can carry knives. Frankly that is just a stupid tradition, and it needs to end.

I disagree. I admire the Sikhs and want their traditions preserved for the good of all. They are on the whole an example of good masculinity.

Also, celibacy is not a reason for pedophilia. Patriarchy and having men in authority is. Husband and fathers perpetrate proportionally more sex abuse than Roman Catholic priests. Male religious leaders of all stripes have problems with abuse of power. Including in denominations that marry.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 03/06/2026 12:38

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 03/06/2026 11:56

The issue is that we are not a secular country. We have an established church ( C of E). If we were secular like France we could impose secularism. I think the C of E should be separate from the State. The Head of State doesn't need to be the Head of the Church anymore.
Btw it does sound odd ( and discriminatory) that your nephew couldn't wear a hair wrap. Is Rastafarianism not a recognised religion under UK law? There are some like Scientology that aren't covered I think.

I hope to goodness that Scientology never will be!

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:38

@BackToLurk Yes, in London, I know a huge amount about this so know and admire those wonderful families who have fought and won this battle.

It is a lot harder when you are a community of one family and do not want to be in the limelight due to being exceptionally humble, modest and stoical. We did all we could without risking our nephews privacy.

He got 11 GCSEs at 7 and above and 3 A* at A Level so it was the (poor performing comprehensive) schools loss ultimately. When went to a local college at 16 he was teachers favourite across the board 😂

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Ndd1356387 · 03/06/2026 12:36

We should ban the carrying of knives and the covering of faces (which in itself is misogynistic). And I include Scottish ceremonial knives too.

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