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AIBU to question religious exemptions and equal treatment under UK law?

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faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 11:49

I thought carrying a weapon in the UK is illegal - for everyone except a trained police officer or solider?

Why is there a religious exemption for one religion to carry a weapon on our streets "in the name of tolerance"?

Rastafarians are not allowed to smoke cannabis legally, even in their own places of worship and homes. My Rastafarian nephew had to be home schooled. Not only was he not allowed to have dreadlocks, but he not allowed to wear a hair wrap to cover them, as the muslim girls were allowed to cover their hair. Appealing on religious grounds got them no where, they tried for 3 years!

Growing and smoking cannabis only harms yourself (unless you selfishly make others breathe it in), dreadlocks harm no one. Why are these not allowed when some can carry a bladed weapon? In an era when knife crime is disturbingly frequent?!

My view - if it is illegal no one can do it (knives, drugs) if it is legal anyone can (head scarf/dreadlocks)

AIBU to say all religions should be treated equally?

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Ndd1356387 · 03/06/2026 13:30

ThisBirdOnThatRoof · 03/06/2026 12:42

No. Women who choose to cover? Their body, their choice.

Scots are indigenous and we have rights to our heritage.

Except it’s not their choice is it. Really.

ByGraptharsHammer · 03/06/2026 13:29

LoveHearts69 · 03/06/2026 13:25

What I’m finding interesting is how hotly debated this seems to be when the perpetrator is brown and religious, even though there hasn’t ever been a case of this in the U.K. before and his own community are speaking out against this; yet there are half a million people here with shotgun licenses and there have been lots of murders using these over the years.

Yet our gun laws and desperate need for people to go clay pigeon shooting never seems to be in any way as debated?

The reason is simple because of the leveraging of racism in the complaint and it seems the offender was not approached because of fears of racism.

Shotguns need licenses. They need to be locked away, and they need police approval. You cannot just carry one in public based on a religious status.

LoveHearts69 · 03/06/2026 13:25

What I’m finding interesting is how hotly debated this seems to be when the perpetrator is brown and religious, even though there hasn’t ever been a case of this in the U.K. before and his own community are speaking out against this; yet there are half a million people here with shotgun licenses and there have been lots of murders using these over the years.

Yet our gun laws and desperate need for people to go clay pigeon shooting never seems to be in any way as debated?

Roomonthe3rdfloor · 03/06/2026 13:21

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:58

@Allisnotlost1 yes, this thread has helped me think things thru, which I appreciate. Chefs obviously carry knives for work! In fact last Wednesday I brought a knife to work to a birthday cake. I had a major brain blip with this but am enjoying seeing everyones views, thank you

I’m may be wrong but I’m sure you’re allowed to carry a swiss army knife? Fencers can carry swords to and from training etc

Araminta1003 · 03/06/2026 13:14

@ShyGirl32 - I agree with you. It has to come from the Sikh community itself given they also lobbied for the wide exemption in the first place. Obviously the murderer here does not represent what they stand for whatsoever, but much like the Catholic Church, they do have to take responsibility for it. Only with honesty and responsibility comes change.

However, calls from the far left for a secular society and no Church of England. That will just end up in fights with the far right over a first amendment style constitution instead. And I really do not think the majority of the country is up for any of that.

ServietteUnion · 03/06/2026 13:11

And it's Nowak, not Novak. Show some respect.

ServietteUnion · 03/06/2026 13:08

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:52

@ServietteUnion the murderer of Henry Novak was British, born and raised here. Where would he go back to?
And no enlightenment here no - perhaps you live in London? Many of us are in less "enlightened" communities.
Well done for not using the tired old cliche "dog whistle", I was waiting for it 😂

I'm well aware Digwa is British and I'm not saying you said otherwise, but your argument is part of an exclusionist trope and I think you're well aware of that actually. As for me, I'm about as far from London as you can get without falling off the edge of the country, so that's another poor assumption on your part. Your nephew is entitled to wear his dreadlocks at school. It's pointless, weird and divisive to refuse the protections of the law yourself but then complain when others are unembarrassed to do so. YABU. Deal with it.

Allisnotlost1 · 03/06/2026 13:06

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:58

@Allisnotlost1 yes, this thread has helped me think things thru, which I appreciate. Chefs obviously carry knives for work! In fact last Wednesday I brought a knife to work to a birthday cake. I had a major brain blip with this but am enjoying seeing everyones views, thank you

Glad you’ve found it helpful. Brain blips are a good excuse to ask questions, thanks for being open to others views :)

Allisnotlost1 · 03/06/2026 13:04

JenJenOut · 03/06/2026 12:59

The women in our training group were Muslim. They wore headscarves and needed to have covered arms at all times. Obviously like many religions there are varying degrees of how people follow it. Which is why some Muslim women don’t even wear a headscarf and others wear a full burqa. But in my experience most women I come across at work who wear a headscarf also cover their arms at all times.

I haven’t come across that, though have been treated by healthcare workers in hijab. Crazy application of the rules.

Araminta1003 · 03/06/2026 13:00

@JenJenOut - but in theory covering your head in medicine is more hygienic rather than less and the NHS could provide really long gloves for women who wish to cover their arms. They just don’t.

JenJenOut · 03/06/2026 12:59

Allisnotlost1 · 03/06/2026 12:52

What religion has to cover their arms?

The women in our training group were Muslim. They wore headscarves and needed to have covered arms at all times. Obviously like many religions there are varying degrees of how people follow it. Which is why some Muslim women don’t even wear a headscarf and others wear a full burqa. But in my experience most women I come across at work who wear a headscarf also cover their arms at all times.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:58

@Allisnotlost1 yes, this thread has helped me think things thru, which I appreciate. Chefs obviously carry knives for work! In fact last Wednesday I brought a knife to work to a birthday cake. I had a major brain blip with this but am enjoying seeing everyones views, thank you

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ByGraptharsHammer · 03/06/2026 12:58

It is all justifiable until it is not. No, there should not be a religious exemption to carry what is otherwise an offensive weapon. There are probably many other reasoned ways to comply with religious requirements that do not conflict with the law.

Brownpuppy · 03/06/2026 12:57

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:54

It is allowed in India on internal flights and it is allowed to go in the hold. My dads mate has a tattoo for this reason.

Thank you. I have been so ignorant and am trying to educate myself on religious exemptions. I wonder if, say, an offshore worker would be able to wear one.

I tend to agree that we should move towards being a secular country.

Araminta1003 · 03/06/2026 12:57

So exactly what is the proposal? A new written constitution? Are you sure? Have you thought this through?
It is not easy to dismantle the entire traditions in our current democracy that easily. Brexit was shit enough.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:55

@BraverNewWorld 👏👏

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faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:54

JustAnUdea · 03/06/2026 12:53

The only damage we could do with DHs ceremonial sword is hit someone over the head with it.

A bludgeoning is a very medieval English way to go!

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BraverNewWorld · 03/06/2026 12:54

I would like to see the disestablishment of the Church of England and for the UK to be a modern, secular democracy.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:54

Brownpuppy · 03/06/2026 12:51

Does the religious exemption also include airlines does anyone know?

It is allowed in India on internal flights and it is allowed to go in the hold. My dads mate has a tattoo for this reason.

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JustAnUdea · 03/06/2026 12:53

The only damage we could do with DHs ceremonial sword is hit someone over the head with it.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 12:52

@ServietteUnion the murderer of Henry Novak was British, born and raised here. Where would he go back to?
And no enlightenment here no - perhaps you live in London? Many of us are in less "enlightened" communities.
Well done for not using the tired old cliche "dog whistle", I was waiting for it 😂

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Allisnotlost1 · 03/06/2026 12:52

JenJenOut · 03/06/2026 12:46

There’s quite a few religious exemptions generally that do irritate me a bit. In my job when training we were told we absolutely must be bare below the elbows. It is a cross infection risk because if you get blood etc on your clothes near your arms you cannot clean it off. You must wash your hands and arms after treating a patient. During training we were not even allowed to wear a cardigan on clinic even in the middle of winter even if we were not actively treating patients ourselves. Absolute no no to ever cover your lower arms.

Unless you have to for religion. Somehow the huge cross infection risk disappears if you say you need to for religion. Now I don’t care how someone wants to dress. But I honestly do not understand how you can be told how much of a cross infection risk something is for one group of people and not for another.

What religion has to cover their arms?

Brownpuppy · 03/06/2026 12:51

Does the religious exemption also include airlines does anyone know?

ShyGirl32 · 03/06/2026 12:50

Otherwise it’s all “oh don’t demonise us, you’re being racist” but where does that get any of us? Precisely nowhere. If we want to stamp out knife culture, we have to have zero tolerance towards carrying knives. End of.

Allisnotlost1 · 03/06/2026 12:50

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/06/2026 11:49

I thought carrying a weapon in the UK is illegal - for everyone except a trained police officer or solider?

Why is there a religious exemption for one religion to carry a weapon on our streets "in the name of tolerance"?

Rastafarians are not allowed to smoke cannabis legally, even in their own places of worship and homes. My Rastafarian nephew had to be home schooled. Not only was he not allowed to have dreadlocks, but he not allowed to wear a hair wrap to cover them, as the muslim girls were allowed to cover their hair. Appealing on religious grounds got them no where, they tried for 3 years!

Growing and smoking cannabis only harms yourself (unless you selfishly make others breathe it in), dreadlocks harm no one. Why are these not allowed when some can carry a bladed weapon? In an era when knife crime is disturbingly frequent?!

My view - if it is illegal no one can do it (knives, drugs) if it is legal anyone can (head scarf/dreadlocks)

AIBU to say all religions should be treated equally?

There’s lots of exemptions, not just religious ones. People who use tools, including knives, that would normally be considered weapons can carry them to and from work. YABU for not knowing these well publicised facts before now, and making it about religion rather than the actual context.

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