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To wonder why so many male migrants have committed sexual assaults:even if they are evil people, wouldn't staying in the UK be an incentive to abide by the law?

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Jane379 · 03/06/2026 00:05

I KNOW that plenty of the men who come are not evil and don't want to commit sexual assault. But clearly a number who have come are, and there's strong evidence that male migrants are disproportionately lileky to do so.

This almost surely at least partly caused by misogynistic culture in various areas meaning back home they perceived uncovered women as permissible to assault. But surely they know it's different here? That they will likely be caught? They are at least more likely to be punished here for assault.

Or are they convinced our police system will let them off?

Or they're not aware our norms are different?

Or just don't care about the consequences?

I wonder also if criminals are in a sense selected for since they may have little to tie them to their home countries, or even be escaping punishment there.

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Jane379 · 04/06/2026 19:18

BashthatTerriesorange · 04/06/2026 18:36

Non Muslims could also not inherit from Muslims which caused difficulties for Jewish or Christian women married to Muslim men ( Muslim women could only marry Muslim men but men could also marry Jews and Christians). Non muslim women would have to raise the children Muslim ( a friend divorced her Muslim husband when she realised this). Non Muslims did not have the same legal status as Muslims ( applicable to men and women) and had to pay a tax if they did not convert ( or be put to death as the third option). Some scholars only accept testimony of non Muslims in limited circumstances ( though testimony of a woman is worth less of a man anyway).

I have not heard of Judaism putting people to death for apostasy and I very much doubt that has happened unless it was in antiquity. It is still a crime in Muslim majority countries today. I have heard western conservative Muslims defending this, on the grounds that only Muslims who are public about leaving Islam are put to death ….

Free Muslim women were not supposed to be enslaved, but non Muslim women could be. That’s a biggie.

It’s worth remembering that Isis arseholes used the Qu’rans passages on slavery to justify them enslaving and raping Yazidi women ( who were also recently found enslaved in Gaza). Although obviously the vast majority of Muslims now condemn slavery ( as do Christians), the figures I have read on modern day slavery show that Muslim countries still have the biggest problem with this. Dubai is built on modern day slavery where immigrant workers have their passports removed and the official temperature in Dubai is kept beneath 50 degrees to avoid invoking the law which means the immigrant labourers have to stop working in 50+ degree temperatures

Re this :' Non muslim women would have to raise the children Muslim ( a friend divorced her Muslim husband when she realised this)'

Muslim marriage rules overall seem very gender unequal. Some orher religions fotbid interfaith marriage traditionally but for both sexes. Can I ask if your friend's husband lied before the marriage? If wanting the children raised Muslim was a deal breaker, he should surely have made this clear beforehand.

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Jane379 · 04/06/2026 19:15

BashthatTerriesorange · 04/06/2026 18:36

Non Muslims could also not inherit from Muslims which caused difficulties for Jewish or Christian women married to Muslim men ( Muslim women could only marry Muslim men but men could also marry Jews and Christians). Non muslim women would have to raise the children Muslim ( a friend divorced her Muslim husband when she realised this). Non Muslims did not have the same legal status as Muslims ( applicable to men and women) and had to pay a tax if they did not convert ( or be put to death as the third option). Some scholars only accept testimony of non Muslims in limited circumstances ( though testimony of a woman is worth less of a man anyway).

I have not heard of Judaism putting people to death for apostasy and I very much doubt that has happened unless it was in antiquity. It is still a crime in Muslim majority countries today. I have heard western conservative Muslims defending this, on the grounds that only Muslims who are public about leaving Islam are put to death ….

Free Muslim women were not supposed to be enslaved, but non Muslim women could be. That’s a biggie.

It’s worth remembering that Isis arseholes used the Qu’rans passages on slavery to justify them enslaving and raping Yazidi women ( who were also recently found enslaved in Gaza). Although obviously the vast majority of Muslims now condemn slavery ( as do Christians), the figures I have read on modern day slavery show that Muslim countries still have the biggest problem with this. Dubai is built on modern day slavery where immigrant workers have their passports removed and the official temperature in Dubai is kept beneath 50 degrees to avoid invoking the law which means the immigrant labourers have to stop working in 50+ degree temperatures

Thank you, this is really valuable information.

Re Judaism my point was that this was the original law as per the holy text, but Judaism has modernised. Likewise Christianity in many countries led to death penalties for heresy,,but all these countries have modernised. Islam must do the same.

See Deueteronomy : If your brother, the son of your mother, your son or your daughter, the wife [c]of your bosom, or your friend who is as your own soul, secretly entices you, saying, ‘Let us go and serve other gods,’ which you have not known, neither you nor your fathers, of the gods of the people which are all around you, near to you or far off from you, from one end of the earth to the other end of the earth, you shall not consent to him or listen to him, nor shall your eye pity him, nor shall you spare him or conceal him; but you shall surely kill him; your hand shall be first against him to put him to death, and afterward the hand of all the people. And you shall stone him with stones until he dies, because he sought to entice you away from the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, from the house of bondage.'

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy%2013&version=NKJV

Bible Gateway passage: Deuteronomy 13 - New King James Version

Punishment of Apostates - “If there arises among you a prophet or a dreamer of dreams, and he gives you a sign or a wonder, and the sign or the wonder comes to pass, of which he spoke to you, saying, ‘Let us go after other gods’—which you have not know...

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy+13&version=NKJV

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BashthatTerriesorange · 04/06/2026 18:36

Jane379 · 04/06/2026 16:35

I understand now, thank you.

While this is awful, that isn't quite the same as saying non Muslim women per se (rather than enslaved women) are given less rights in the Quran & Hadith?

It's terrible but it's worth remembering the Old Testament/Torah also allows for female captives of war to be forced to marry their captors. The major problem is that Islam has become more regressive while Christianity & Judaism have got less so (see also with apostasy death penalty for one: Judaism also has this but obviously modern Israel is not run along these lines!)

Non Muslims could also not inherit from Muslims which caused difficulties for Jewish or Christian women married to Muslim men ( Muslim women could only marry Muslim men but men could also marry Jews and Christians). Non muslim women would have to raise the children Muslim ( a friend divorced her Muslim husband when she realised this). Non Muslims did not have the same legal status as Muslims ( applicable to men and women) and had to pay a tax if they did not convert ( or be put to death as the third option). Some scholars only accept testimony of non Muslims in limited circumstances ( though testimony of a woman is worth less of a man anyway).

I have not heard of Judaism putting people to death for apostasy and I very much doubt that has happened unless it was in antiquity. It is still a crime in Muslim majority countries today. I have heard western conservative Muslims defending this, on the grounds that only Muslims who are public about leaving Islam are put to death ….

Free Muslim women were not supposed to be enslaved, but non Muslim women could be. That’s a biggie.

It’s worth remembering that Isis arseholes used the Qu’rans passages on slavery to justify them enslaving and raping Yazidi women ( who were also recently found enslaved in Gaza). Although obviously the vast majority of Muslims now condemn slavery ( as do Christians), the figures I have read on modern day slavery show that Muslim countries still have the biggest problem with this. Dubai is built on modern day slavery where immigrant workers have their passports removed and the official temperature in Dubai is kept beneath 50 degrees to avoid invoking the law which means the immigrant labourers have to stop working in 50+ degree temperatures

Jane379 · 04/06/2026 16:35

BashthatTerriesorange · 04/06/2026 16:31

If slave women were muslim, whether by conversion or not, muslim men were strongly encouraged to educate, liberate or/and marry them (the latter may or may not have been a boon...)

The qu'ran does though make lawful for muslim men to have sex with their slave girls.

I understand now, thank you.

While this is awful, that isn't quite the same as saying non Muslim women per se (rather than enslaved women) are given less rights in the Quran & Hadith?

It's terrible but it's worth remembering the Old Testament/Torah also allows for female captives of war to be forced to marry their captors. The major problem is that Islam has become more regressive while Christianity & Judaism have got less so (see also with apostasy death penalty for one: Judaism also has this but obviously modern Israel is not run along these lines!)

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Jane379 · 04/06/2026 16:32

Twisterlollies · 03/06/2026 09:35

Yes, I do. If there were enough decent men there they would manage. There aren’t - clearly. Stop defending them, it’s sick and insulting

I don't think military history supports that view at all.

Countries and armies don't win or lose wars according to how many "decent men" they have. If they did, military collapses would never happen. In reality, outcomes depend on leadership, logistics, morale, training, intelligence, equipment, funding, political support, and whether people believe the government they're fighting for will survive.

The Afghan security forces numbered in the hundreds of thousands on paper and suffered enormous casualties over two decades. Tens of thousands of Afghan soldiers and police were killed fighting the Taliban. Whatever else you think of the Afghan government, it's hard to argue those men simply didn't care.

The problem is that once the state began collapsing, commanders surrendered, local deals were made, supply chains broke down, and international military support was withdrawn, individual courage couldn't compensate for systemic failure. History is full of armies that collapsed despite containing brave people.

Saying "if there were enough decent men they would manage" doesn't really explain anything. It's just taking a complex military and political collapse and reducing it to a moral judgement about millions of people.

You can criticise Afghan society, the government, corruption, or the way women have been treated without claiming that an entire nation's men were cowards. The evidence for that simply isn't there.

If "a country would be free if there were enough decent men" were true, then we'd have to conclude that Iranians (until recent protests), people who lived under the Soviet Union, modern Chinese citizens, North Koreans, and countless others are all cowards because they didn't successfully overthrow their governments.

That's obviously not how political power works. Authoritarian regimes survive through organisation, coercion, weapons, intelligence networks, patronage systems, and control of institutions. Ordinary people can oppose them and still be unable to defeat them.

The fact that a regime exists is not evidence that the population supports it, nor is it evidence that everyone who failed to overthrow it lacks courage.

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BashthatTerriesorange · 04/06/2026 16:31

BashthatTerriesorange · 04/06/2026 15:34

My friend was 14 in the West Midlands and an adult pakistani Muslim man became her ' boyfriend' ( she was recruited by another schoolgirl who was the 'boyfriend' of his friend. Her 'boyfriend' asked her to find a 'boyfriend' for his mate). They never did anything other than go to a flat where he would have sex with her. He told her to her face that he would never does this to a woman from his own community as he would have too much respect for her.

You are deeply wrong if you think there are not cultures where women are viewed very differently (respected or despised) depending on what religion, ethnicity, behaviour, presentation or sexuality they have or are.

This isn't just a cultural thing. Treating women differently depending on whether they are Muslim or not is written into the Qu'ran and Hadith, with additional rights and respect given to muslim women. It was a way for slave women to get additional 'rights'.

If slave women were muslim, whether by conversion or not, muslim men were strongly encouraged to educate, liberate or/and marry them (the latter may or may not have been a boon...)

The qu'ran does though make lawful for muslim men to have sex with their slave girls.

Jane379 · 04/06/2026 16:27

Dmsandfloatydress · 03/06/2026 09:24

FFS! None of the men I worked with knew what the law was! No one had told them. When I explained it to them in detail they actually couldnt believe it and thought I was making it up!!! Also, Im a woman so why would they listen to me?

I witnessed loads of domestic abuse in family accomodation and the prepetrator would clearly explain that his wife has her period so was being difficult and why am I interfering with his family life?? They were genuinely perplexed. This is after the law was explained. One family was middle class Jordanians!! Its not just Afghans ,it anyone who comes from a country where women are second class citizens. Do we really want to import this? In addition, it cost 10k to get to the UK on a small boat. 10k!! Money which could have been spent applying for a work visa.

Yes Jordanian monarchy etc effectively promote a Westernised image and they have kept the country stable amid turmoil all around. But misogyny in Jordan is still very strong.

This is an excellent program on that :

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0f39w53

BBC World Service TV - BBC News Arabic Investigations, Abused: Surviving Domestic Violence in Jordan

BBC News Arabic Investigates if Jordan domestic violence laws changed the lives of women

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0f39w53

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Jane379 · 04/06/2026 16:22

BashthatTerriesorange · 04/06/2026 16:02

The person doing the minimising is you @Samysungy . You are absolutely minimising what women in Afghanistan are facing if you are pretending its like the 'control and abuse' you think women face here. As someone who has read pleadings from Afghan women to western feminists, outlining what their lives are like now under the Taliban and how they are feeling, I find your post here quite revolting in your smug playing with their destroyed lives to make deeply ignorant ideologically led points.

And btw, you were asked where would you prefer to raise your daughter. The question doesn't give you the option to choose neither, as I think you know. Its a question to get you to really reflect on the difference between the two countries by forcing you to pick one or the other. So no, despite your laughter at a pp, they were right, you have not answered the question.

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Seconded! I think this person is posting in bad faith.

Let's mass report and they'll have to be removed, surely?

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BashthatTerriesorange · 04/06/2026 16:02

Samysungy · 04/06/2026 12:35

Neither as both places are controlling and abusive for females.

I also wouldn't like it here as women minimise sexual assaults here to play oppression monopoly like you just have...saying it isn't bad to be sexually abused here as women get sexually abused in another country....imagine saying that like you just did.

The person doing the minimising is you @Samysungy . You are absolutely minimising what women in Afghanistan are facing if you are pretending its like the 'control and abuse' you think women face here. As someone who has read pleadings from Afghan women to western feminists, outlining what their lives are like now under the Taliban and how they are feeling, I find your post here quite revolting in your smug playing with their destroyed lives to make deeply ignorant ideologically led points.

And btw, you were asked where would you prefer to raise your daughter. The question doesn't give you the option to choose neither, as I think you know. Its a question to get you to really reflect on the difference between the two countries by forcing you to pick one or the other. So no, despite your laughter at a pp, they were right, you have not answered the question.

Jane379 · 04/06/2026 15:54

DustyMaiden · 04/06/2026 15:52

@Jane379 I don’t know where they were born sorry.

Ah right, that's OK. I was thinking that if they were British born and worked in a company here such ignorance of cultural mores would be very odd. Maybe less so if they came from a different country originally?

Either way, as you say, it's a reminder that a lot of the time levels of integration can be overestimated..

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EasternStandard · 04/06/2026 15:53

Weeallthewayhome · 04/06/2026 15:47

Have you ever lived in a Muslim majority country? I lived in one as a young woman. Let me tell you there is NO, repeat NO comparison to this country,

In the UK, should I have the horror of being raped, the following are options:
hospital treatment
reporting to police
bringing a prosecution
being believed
not being stoned to death or outcast from society

I want to say your ignorance is terrifying and dangerous but I know you don’t have empirical experience of other, less civilised cultures, so I’ll wind my neck in and just say lucky you.

Forgive my anger; your blithe tone has really upset me.

I’m sorry. I agree it’s hard to see those posts on a female dominated forum.

Jane379 · 04/06/2026 15:52

Weeallthewayhome · 04/06/2026 15:47

Have you ever lived in a Muslim majority country? I lived in one as a young woman. Let me tell you there is NO, repeat NO comparison to this country,

In the UK, should I have the horror of being raped, the following are options:
hospital treatment
reporting to police
bringing a prosecution
being believed
not being stoned to death or outcast from society

I want to say your ignorance is terrifying and dangerous but I know you don’t have empirical experience of other, less civilised cultures, so I’ll wind my neck in and just say lucky you.

Forgive my anger; your blithe tone has really upset me.

I'm really sorry you had that experience 💐: that poster is being horribly insensitive.

May I ask which country you lived in? I understand fully if not.

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DustyMaiden · 04/06/2026 15:52

@Jane379 I don’t know where they were born sorry.

Jane379 · 04/06/2026 15:49

DustyMaiden · 03/06/2026 09:14

I had a strange experience that enlightened me to the difference in cultural perceptions of women.

I had worked for many years at a multicultural corporation. I had management meetings with many Muslim men. They were kind , respectful, intelligent people.

one day we had a team building exercise where we had to stand on chairs. So I took my shoes off.

In the coming weeks three of these men made unwelcome advances to me. I couldn’t understand why after working together so long.

I found out they thought I was promiscuous because my toe nails were painted red.

That sounds awful, I'm sorry.

Very weird too : were these men British born Muslims? Or from abroad- if so, do you know which country?

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Weeallthewayhome · 04/06/2026 15:47

Samysungy · 04/06/2026 12:35

Neither as both places are controlling and abusive for females.

I also wouldn't like it here as women minimise sexual assaults here to play oppression monopoly like you just have...saying it isn't bad to be sexually abused here as women get sexually abused in another country....imagine saying that like you just did.

Have you ever lived in a Muslim majority country? I lived in one as a young woman. Let me tell you there is NO, repeat NO comparison to this country,

In the UK, should I have the horror of being raped, the following are options:
hospital treatment
reporting to police
bringing a prosecution
being believed
not being stoned to death or outcast from society

I want to say your ignorance is terrifying and dangerous but I know you don’t have empirical experience of other, less civilised cultures, so I’ll wind my neck in and just say lucky you.

Forgive my anger; your blithe tone has really upset me.

Jane379 · 04/06/2026 15:42

BashthatTerriesorange · 04/06/2026 15:34

My friend was 14 in the West Midlands and an adult pakistani Muslim man became her ' boyfriend' ( she was recruited by another schoolgirl who was the 'boyfriend' of his friend. Her 'boyfriend' asked her to find a 'boyfriend' for his mate). They never did anything other than go to a flat where he would have sex with her. He told her to her face that he would never does this to a woman from his own community as he would have too much respect for her.

You are deeply wrong if you think there are not cultures where women are viewed very differently (respected or despised) depending on what religion, ethnicity, behaviour, presentation or sexuality they have or are.

This isn't just a cultural thing. Treating women differently depending on whether they are Muslim or not is written into the Qu'ran and Hadith, with additional rights and respect given to muslim women. It was a way for slave women to get additional 'rights'.

That's terrible. 💐

Can I ask what extra rights & respect are given to Muslim women in the Quran & Hadith, compared to non Muslim?

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BashthatTerriesorange · 04/06/2026 15:34

Samysungy · 04/06/2026 11:41

Men the world over have these views. They do not respect some women and not others...laughable to even suggest that those who hate women only hate western women and not their own!

Rape is virtually legal in the UK - 99% of rapists walk free. Bit like going 71mph when driving. It is not legal but you are unlikely to get done for it.

Deep rooted misogyny is a massive problem in the UK. That is why sexual assaults are so common and the norm.

My friend was 14 in the West Midlands and an adult pakistani Muslim man became her ' boyfriend' ( she was recruited by another schoolgirl who was the 'boyfriend' of his friend. Her 'boyfriend' asked her to find a 'boyfriend' for his mate). They never did anything other than go to a flat where he would have sex with her. He told her to her face that he would never does this to a woman from his own community as he would have too much respect for her.

You are deeply wrong if you think there are not cultures where women are viewed very differently (respected or despised) depending on what religion, ethnicity, behaviour, presentation or sexuality they have or are.

This isn't just a cultural thing. Treating women differently depending on whether they are Muslim or not is written into the Qu'ran and Hadith, with additional rights and respect given to muslim women. It was a way for slave women to get additional 'rights'.

Jane379 · 04/06/2026 15:32

50sandFabulous · 03/06/2026 09:14

They have lived in a country where women are covered from head to toe, so they are seeing for the first time : bare legs, lots of cleavage, pretty faces, long hair uncovered (blonde probably exciting, as never seen before).

They come from countries where women have no rights.

They come from countries where rape isn't a crime.

If they venture out late at night, in a City, they will have access to lots of women who are drunk, who will find it hard to fight off an attacker.

They can see from the news, that even if you get caught, and then convicted of rape, the sentence is non existent, or, even if you do go to jail, the jail is probably not that bad an option, as it'll be nicer than where they came from, they will get a roof over their head and 3 square meals a day for FREE.

AND

Many will be virgins, and those that aren't virgins haven't had sex for a VERY long time - they will be about as horny as it gets. Sexual urges and the raging horn, plus an erection in his pants, will override all common sense, in that moment.

I mean, how many times do men follow their dicks, without all the other stuff thrown in? We've seen it time, and time again, without all the extra factors listed above.

This exactly.

Re this : 'They come from countries where rape isn't a crime.'

Are there any countries where there us literally no crime of rape? Generally the difference is that countries define rape as virginal 'property' of a father or husband being "spoiled'. Whereas we thankfully recognise it as a crime against a woman in her own right, ban marital rape, recognise prostitutes can still be raped etc

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Jane379 · 04/06/2026 15:30

Twisterlollies · 03/06/2026 09:25

So? The British Army fought them despite how ‘scary’ they are but Afghan men won’t to save their own wives and daughters? They’ve fucked their women over for generations stop embarrassing yourself trying to excuse it

The idea that “British forces fought them but Afghan men won’t defend their own families” ignores the basic reality of what the conflict actually was. The British Army was part of an international coalition supporting a state with advanced military infrastructure, logistics, air support, training systems, and constant external funding. Afghan soldiers and police were not operating on anything like that level of support by the end.

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Jane379 · 04/06/2026 15:16

Twisterlollies · 03/06/2026 09:46

I’m perfectly capable of holding 2 thoughts but that does not mean this. Afghan men are hideously misogynistic and their country comes out time and time and time again as the worst in the world for women who are treated like dirt. I make NO apologies for blaming THE MEN for how THE WOMEN are treated.

And yes they are cowards who ran away when given the best opportunity to defend their country that they had ever had. Because they don’t give a shit.

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That explanation is much too simplistic and doesn’t match what actually happened.

The collapse of the Afghan state in 2021 wasn’t a case of individual men suddenly deciding they “didn’t care” or refusing to defend their country. It was the rapid breakdown of a system that had been heavily dependent on foreign military support, funding, logistics, and air power for years. Once that support was withdrawn under the withdrawal agreement with the Taliban and the US, many Afghan units found themselves without supplies, coordination, or effective command structures.

It’s also worth remembering that many Afghan soldiers and police did fight and die over the course of the conflict. In many cases, units collapsed because leadership fled, supply chains broke down, or positions were overrun,.

Calling an entire population “cowards” replaces a messy military and political collapse with a moral judgement about millions of people, which isn’t really a fair or accurate way to understand what happened.

This is like saying the South Vietnamese lost the war because they were cowards, the French were invaded in WW2 because they were cowards, the Chinese are ruled by the CCP because they're cowards. Inaccurate and unhelpful.

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Jane379 · 04/06/2026 15:12

Weeallthewayhome · 03/06/2026 11:10

No, don’t prioritise rural areas. They are the last bastions of an age where life wasn’t drained of colour, freedom and possibility. People who live there appreciate, revere and respect the culture.

I used to wonder how Soviet Russians could swallow such utter horseshit about things being good in their uniform grey groupthink drab dead lives.

But I’ve watched the country I love go that way for decades. Importing millions from the incompatible cultures some of us were thrilled to escape, has been a total disaster. No integration and two-tier everything has simultaneously emboldened those who have a dystopian world view.

I weep for my adopted country. I will vote for Rupert Lowe. The most unexpected revolutionary figure. No beret or guillotine; a ruddy face and a Barbour and the only patriot on the horizon.

They are the last bastions of an age where life wasn’t drained of colour, freedom and possibility. People who live there appreciate, revere and respect the culture

  • so in your opinion, these things are totally absent from all UK cities?
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Jane379 · 04/06/2026 15:08

Weeallthewayhome · 03/06/2026 11:29

Ironic really. I’m espousing colour and freedom in the country, not the towns.

Of course kids want lights and fun. But our cities are no go crime ridden shitholes not the exciting place you’d go for a career or to find a partner.

Our rural towns and high streets are so decimated there are no longer options for the horses that want to bring up young families in safety and in a familiar culture.

I know we have serious problems in cities but this is a hugely sweeping statement. I live in London and this doesn't describe my area at all.

Do you live in London? If not, where are you getting your information from?

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Jane379 · 04/06/2026 15:04

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 03/06/2026 11:48

Absolutely. How are they going to get them out when they can't leave the house or speak? How long can they survive with no young male relative? It can take up to 5 years to get to the UK, then get work, then claim asylum etc etc. The women they have left in a hell hole to fend for themselves will be dead in that time.

According to this 2024 BBC report, women were still going outside but only fully covered and in a lot of fear. The situation is terrible but I don't think it's got to the point where it's literally impossible for a woman to go out.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c20rq73p3z4o

That said, as I said to pp, I suspect, especially given large family sizes, probably a lot of the men who have migrated are not the only brother in the family.

Teenage girls are unable to attend school. The BBC is not showing their faces to protect their identities

Taliban ban Afghanistan women from raising voices

The new law, banning women from raising their voice in public, is the latest crushing women's rights.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c20rq73p3z4o

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Toops · 04/06/2026 14:48

Here we have had 3 female PMs. Women can go to school here and have an education. Women have careers, choice who to marry. Equal rights under the law. You don't have this in Afghanistan.

Jane379 · 04/06/2026 14:48

Toops · 04/06/2026 14:40

Look at the Poland rape rates astronomically lower than the UK. Also very low in the VAWG survey.

As a Pole myself, I'm proud that Poland is generally very safe for women to walk around in public.

Re DV & SA though, it's worth noting that Poland is still very socially conservative especially in rural areas, and this probably affects reporting rates.

https://notesfrompoland.com/2020/08/17/over-60-of-women-in-poland-have-experienced-domestic-violence-finds-leaked-report/

I suspect similar about places like Japan and China, where reported rates are very low but there are known problems with SA (particularly in Japan) and DV (China especially in rural areas).

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