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About year 6 leavers hoodies

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Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 16:02

Dd is in year 6 and one of the parents very kindly organised leavers hoodies for the whole of year 6.

I had two older children that attended a different school and in their case, their school organised the hoodies and the children were allowed to wear them for the last half term (after SATS).

DD’s school have said no. They’ve even gone as far as to say that any children wearing the hoodies will have them confiscated. The school have said that the children can wear them on the last day only.

I’m very surprised as the school is actually quite lax when it comes to enforcing uniform rules generally.

The year 6 parents are not happy.

Aibu to think that the children should be allowed to wear their leavers hoodies now?

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Suddenaborealstop · 02/06/2026 17:42

These hoodies aren’t uniform.

Non uniform can, and does, make some kids lose their sense of regulation.

I can see they may be reasons why the school don’t want them worn before then.

Also, at the risk of being told I lack fun, it’s the rules they’ve set out. I do wonder when parents question the rules if they think the school made them up for shits and giggles.

My kids all had these hoodies when they left primary. And unless it is peculiar to the area of the UK where I live, most summer holidays you see kids around and about wearing their hoodies. So if the issue is lack of use, encourage them to wear them during the summer holidays.

ViaRia01 · 02/06/2026 17:41

Why are people saying these hoodies are wasteful? You often see teens out and about wearing their school hoodies… how is that wasteful if they’re being worn?

Kaybee50 · 02/06/2026 17:40

I got roped into organising school leavers hoodies a few years ago as school didn’t want to arrange it. It was a logistical nightmare! Had to chase parents for weeks over payments (it wasn’t compulsory to get one but every parent asked for one) School then wanted to hand them out the week before the end of term. It was baking hot and the children were all wearing them in the scorching weather.

tinyspiny · 02/06/2026 17:40

The bottom line here @Readyforthelaunch is your opinion matters not a jot , the school has made its decision and frankly you are being utterly ridiculous thinking it’s a big deal .

worrisomeasset · 02/06/2026 17:39

Are leavers' hoodies a thing now? I'm a primary teacher and this is the first I've heard of them.

Creepyoctopus · 02/06/2026 17:37

My son in currently in year 6 and his school sold the hoodies themselves they where allowed to wear them from the minute they started year 6

drspouse · 02/06/2026 17:36

It's a pretty expensive thing to wear for one day only!
My DD school had school trip hoodies from the start of Y6 (they had a residential and they were very handy for the school to spot the kids!) and then a leaver's hoodie for the final term. They could wear the leaver's hoodie from the day they got it, which was the day before the Easter holidays.

pragmatismuniversalsentimentalist · 02/06/2026 17:35

Monty36 · 02/06/2026 16:32

I would want to see costs upfront and transparent. I know that won’t happen. I would assume the kind parent is making a bit out of doing it. But how much ?

Are you joking? The parent won't be making a penny. Do you think nobody out there does anything nice without making money from it?

Me and a couple of other parents organised this for our year 6's a few years back, i was the one collected the money and made the payment and i can tell you it actually cost me a little something as the hoodies were quoted at for eg £18.10 per hoodie and i just said £18 to people then paid the balance of a few quid myself.

Pam100127 · 02/06/2026 17:35

This happened in our son’s primary school too.
A very expensive purchase for basically one day!
The summer was warm, so he’d no opportunity to wear it, and by September, he was taller, and broader.
Also, he wanted to align with secondary school and move on from primary.
It also happened again at the end of secondary school for both my children.
However, not buying it, doesn’t seem an option.
It must seem like an even more unnecessary expense for people struggling financially.

NotAnotherChickenNugget · 02/06/2026 17:35

This seems such a shame, at our school the year 6s wear them from about Easter through til the end of term (only available in the same colour as the normal school jumpers)

Cooshawn · 02/06/2026 17:34

Ultimately you can think what you want, but the school decide the uniform policy and whether or not to relax it without having to provide justification.
So you'll just have to not like it.

As an aside, why didn't whoever organised them actually ask whether they'd be allowed to wear them?

Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 17:34

Bloozie · 02/06/2026 17:32

Why on earth should the school let them wear them? I don't understand. Not all the kids will have one, either because they can't afford it or they just don't want one. It's not organised by the school. Wearing it last day is the norm in loads of schools. I'm confused.

You haven’t even read any of my updates.

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Unprecedentedusername · 02/06/2026 17:33

They are a waste of money. Worn for a day or two there are several of my children’s upstairs fron 10+ years ago. You can’t charity shop them as no use to anyone else so essentially off to landfill. They did have yearbooks which are worth keeping.

trappedbynerves · 02/06/2026 17:33

Namenamchange · 02/06/2026 16:12

It’s such a waste of they only wear them for a few weeks, they’d be better off letting them wear them for the whole year.

Yup. DS loved his hoodie so much. He wore it for the last weeks of school and many summer evenings. Then he started secondary and his lovely hoodie has never since seen the light of day.

mrsskater · 02/06/2026 17:32

I think all schools are different in how they organise them. My sons friends school organise the hoodies but they are all the school colour and included the school logo, they got given them after sats and wore them to school after that. My sons school hoodies are organised by parents who are also organising the yr6 leavers party which last year included me. We gave the children the option to pick the colour of their hoodies, because of this the children only got to wear them for last 2 weeks at school as head teacher didnt understand why they weren't all the same colour. We also gave the kids the option of all same or different and not 1 kid out of 22 wanted a jumper the colour of the school uniform. So kids didnt mind at all.

Mcdhotchoc · 02/06/2026 17:32

My dd is 18 and her primary school one still fits! Her one from secondary school is still worn all the time
I can see both sides tbh. I'm pretty sure that the primary ones were given out at the leavers party.

Bloozie · 02/06/2026 17:32

Why on earth should the school let them wear them? I don't understand. Not all the kids will have one, either because they can't afford it or they just don't want one. It's not organised by the school. Wearing it last day is the norm in loads of schools. I'm confused.

Knickerbockerglory75 · 02/06/2026 17:32

I organised the yr 6 hoodies this year - it was an absolute ballache and I absolutely did not make money out of it! Parents paid the school which sent a bulk payment to the printers.The PTA paid for 3 whose parents requested financial assistance. The kids were allowed them the Monday after SATs and they are now the year 6 uniform. They are allowed whatever colour they like.

Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 17:31

BauhausOfEliott · 02/06/2026 17:26

I mean, surely the fact that the school wasn't organising hoodies was a fairly clear indication that they didn't want the kids to wear them?

I don't think you have a case for getting pissed off that a school doesn't want kids wearing a non-uniform item that a parent took it upon themselves to purchase, and which the school had nothing to do with. I don't really see why you'd expect the school to say yes to wearing them at school after it was made clear to the parents that leavers' hoodies aren't something the school was choosing to do that year.

That’s true and like I say I wasn’t the organiser, however I was/am surprised that the school didn’t organise the hoodies because they seem to do so many paid for extras and are generally extremely lax about uniform.

We all thought it was just an admin/organising thing rather than school being against them being worn.

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FallingIsLearning · 02/06/2026 17:30

At my child’s school, a parent organised them (without taking a cut). A lot of effort went into making sure all children were included, and the PA covered for those who could not afford.

The hoodies were all the same colour as the PE sweatshirt, and school agreed to let them wear the hoodies for PE days only from Christmas

I think this is a nice compromise.

There has been an issue with a few hoodies going walkabout for a while, even apparently some clearly labelled on the outside, which I guess was predictable with 60-odd identical items. It caused some upset as some children found that their pristine hoodie went missing, but there was a slightly tatty one left at school.

I’d recommend therefore to anyone who may be in the position of the organiser to see whether initials could be added to the front, so it’s obvious to the children which is which.

Sirzy · 02/06/2026 17:29

The way these parents are acting sounds a sure fire way to make sure they are just banned in school all together for future year groups.

School have made a clear rule. Parents don’t need to fight back against everything!

Otterbabiesholdhandstosleep · 02/06/2026 17:28

Maybe it’s an attitude issue? They don’t want to push the idea that it’s almost the end or the year yet because they need to wrangle the classes for another 3-4 weeks. They don’t want the kids to be in holiday mode yet.

WhitegreeNcandle · 02/06/2026 17:28

Why does everything we do now have to cost money and create stuff. What was wrong with your classmates signing your shirt?!?!

Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 17:27

Samysungy · 02/06/2026 17:21

Let's be realistic...

  • It is June so kids wearing hoodies in warmer weather is pointless.
  • Y6 kids stink to high heaven...the smell is awful by the end of the day. Worse if they have been wearing jumpers in hot weather!
  • They only have 1 so it will either need washing daily or not get washed at all which means more sweaty, smelly classrooms.
  • Nothing stopping them wearing it outside of school.
  • Parents do not get to choose the school rules.
Edited

They are all wearing PE hoodies.

Furthermore a lot of children don’t seem to bother wearing uniform at all and wear tracksuits, more reason why the parents are all so annoyed because anything goes. Children even wear crocs to school.

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noworklifebalance · 02/06/2026 17:27

RightOnTheEdge · 02/06/2026 17:23

YANBU. Your school is being a bit miserable OP and so are some posters.
It made me laugh thinking about young people having problems in work because they were or were not allowed to wear leavers hoodies in primary school 😂

We were lucky because in my kids' school the leavers hoodies were organised and paid for by the PTA. They gave them out and took pictures of them all and the kids loved them. They were allowed to wear them instead of a school jumper for the last half term.

Good grief! No-one is saying that not being able wear hoodies causes the issues later on. 😆

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