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About year 6 leavers hoodies

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Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 16:02

Dd is in year 6 and one of the parents very kindly organised leavers hoodies for the whole of year 6.

I had two older children that attended a different school and in their case, their school organised the hoodies and the children were allowed to wear them for the last half term (after SATS).

DD’s school have said no. They’ve even gone as far as to say that any children wearing the hoodies will have them confiscated. The school have said that the children can wear them on the last day only.

I’m very surprised as the school is actually quite lax when it comes to enforcing uniform rules generally.

The year 6 parents are not happy.

Aibu to think that the children should be allowed to wear their leavers hoodies now?

OP posts:
Winter2020 · 02/06/2026 18:06

Saucery · 02/06/2026 18:00

I don’t get the ‘non uniform’ thing. They are part of the uniform for our Yr6s. Extra uniform, if you like, but not non uniform. I haven’t noticed them making Yr 6 any more badly behaved than Yr6 normally are, in any of the schools I’ve worked in. Maybe that is because we don’t limit them to the last day/week of term. But our parents work with the school and agree on the same color as the school jumper, plus we provide the logo for the company to embroider.

This sounds more like year 6 has an extra item of uniform which is a hoody rather than a "leavers hoody". I say that because it's school colour and worn for the year. I doubt they choose to wear that after finishing do they?

Saucery · 02/06/2026 18:00

I don’t get the ‘non uniform’ thing. They are part of the uniform for our Yr6s. Extra uniform, if you like, but not non uniform. I haven’t noticed them making Yr 6 any more badly behaved than Yr6 normally are, in any of the schools I’ve worked in. Maybe that is because we don’t limit them to the last day/week of term. But our parents work with the school and agree on the same color as the school jumper, plus we provide the logo for the company to embroider.

678socks · 02/06/2026 17:59

Our school order them (paid for by parents) and won’t let any child wear them until the last day. Pretty unfair imo.

Papoy · 02/06/2026 17:59

I am with the school on that.

Children walking around with their names and school logo printed on them is a major problem in terms of safety (in my humble opinion).

I am almost a bit uneasy with the normal school uniform having a school logo on them.... It is almost advertising the location of a child + the timelines of entry exit times.. That's why I take it off when we are outside school (if we go to a park after school for example).... And I would probably won't buy them it going forward, just plain ones .....

I haven't read all comments, I am sure I am not the only one who think this could be a problem .... Perhaps I am paranoid but better be safe than sorry !!

Winter2020 · 02/06/2026 17:58

tttigress · 02/06/2026 17:43

I mean does it really matter either way?

Soon it will be a distant memory.

I would just go with the flow. I wouldn't get upset about it.

On a national level it is a lot of landfill if the vast majority of kids in a couple of year groups are buying a school crested hoody - and let's say 50% don't wear them beyond one day.

I thought we were teaching our kids to care more about the environment than this.

I have read this thread and people saying their kids have worn them for years. My guess is it will be a minority that would choose to wear a sweater emblazoned with their school and name outside of school but a survey (a year after getting them or something) would be interesting to see if the majority are wasted or used.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 02/06/2026 17:57

Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 16:53

They an be wasteful, I do agree.

But this is where I feel that there’s hypocrisy.

School do Christmas jumper days, world book days, various dress up days. Wear blue for this, wear orange for that. Inevitably people end up buying stuff.

I think that most of the parents were under the impression that the children would be wearing them after SATS.

They are only wasteful if they don’t get worn after whatever they were printed to commemorate, @Readyforthelaunch. As I said earlier, my dses wore their senior school leavers’ hoodies for ages after they’d left school, and I saw plenty of other kids wearing their leavers’ hoodies.

Cantbearssed · 02/06/2026 17:57

Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 17:27

They are all wearing PE hoodies.

Furthermore a lot of children don’t seem to bother wearing uniform at all and wear tracksuits, more reason why the parents are all so annoyed because anything goes. Children even wear crocs to school.

Same at our school in regards to uniform, some kids come in wearing whatever they want. Tracksuits, multicoloured trainers, white fox hoodies - it’s ridiculous!
Makes the school look so untidy.

Cyclingmummy1 · 02/06/2026 17:55

It's a non-uniform item. It's not allowed.

ByRoseBiscuit · 02/06/2026 17:52

All the schools I’ve worked in and both of my children were allowed to wear the leavers hoodies after SATs. No point having them for one day! As soon as my kids were in secondary they didn’t want to wear their primary hoodies anymore.

Bristolandlazy · 02/06/2026 17:51

My daughters school they wore them on the last day. I've seen loads of (presumably) school leavers wearing them in the school holidays. My daughter still wears hers now in her twenties. Parents are not happy, tough.

ElleJayC · 02/06/2026 17:51

Seems a shame, mine all loved their leavers hoodies. School made a big deal out of them, they all had a vote on the colour so the whole year group had the same. Parents ordered them early via school, and then school held onto them and handed them out after the last SATS exam along with a small celebration. They then wore them every day until they left - and over the summer.
It was such a special part of the end of Primary for all of mine.

andnowwhatdowedo · 02/06/2026 17:51

You would have done it differently if you were in charge OP, but you're not. It must be stressful and time consuming for the teachers to have to keep explaining their decisions to angry parents. Some things are not worth fighting over.

Winter2020 · 02/06/2026 17:51

ViaRia01 · 02/06/2026 17:41

Why are people saying these hoodies are wasteful? You often see teens out and about wearing their school hoodies… how is that wasteful if they’re being worn?

I think it depends when the school dishes them out and on the child.

My son (16) just got his at half term. It's me that has taken it out of the cellophane and I don't think he will ever even try it on much less wear it. Utter waste of the earth's resources.

It's hard not to buy one - the school puts all the kids in the year groups first names on - only of those that have bought one so it's a bit of a guilt trip.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/06/2026 17:51

Can't they wear them to/from school and on their lunch breaks?

Monty36 · 02/06/2026 17:50

tttigress · 02/06/2026 17:43

I mean does it really matter either way?

Soon it will be a distant memory.

I would just go with the flow. I wouldn't get upset about it.

I think it sort of does.
Listening to the vast range of requests to pay for this, pay for that someone might want to add it all up. The next time a school begs for money for something basic like books they might want to remember what they are asking of people.
Years ago there really wasn’t this money for this, money for that. It isn’t right.

And the schools themselves are being a bit dim. How many hoodies, how many children ? They sanction it. But what, if any, records kept ?
If they sanction it they should keep some records.

Herewegoagainandagainandagain · 02/06/2026 17:48

It is a big deal to the children and parents who ordered one.

This is not the schools issue, those expectation have be created by the parents before approval from the school so it is the parents issue to reset those expectations without leaving the kids upset at their school for something that is not the schools fault.

School are allowing them to wear their leavers hoodies on the day they leave which sounds fair 🤷‍♀️

In ds's school they were allowed to wear them twice. Once on the day of a special leavers assembly and then later that week on the final day. Both days they wore them whole year group were giddy with excitement, strutting around in their hoodies, so I can see exactly why the school doesn't want to put up with that more than is necessary.

YourPoliteTurtle · 02/06/2026 17:48

Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 16:39

I don’t know what you mean, disingenuous?

Someone made the point about children being left out and that being the reason why the school said no.

I’m pointing out that no child has been left out, but also that there are lots of ‘paid for extras’ throughout the year that the school offer. Such as trips, PE hoodies, own clothes days, dress up days where you have to make a donation, Santas grotto, they do so much that you have to pay for.

I think it’s disingenuous to say that the school are worried about children being left out.

It is disingenuous because they are not the same things at all

They don't cost the same for a start, and some are fund raisers to try to benefit all the children, some are experience offered to the kids and someone has to pay for them, because there's no budget. Not exactly shocking that parents spend a little bit of money for their children education.

Not receiving a hoodie on the last day is not the same as seeing everyone wearing one when you don't have yours.

I get you are annoyed and you think the school rule is silly, but your children are really not going to lose out much but having their hoodie later. Again, just order a big size so they are baggy and can wear them months after, even at home if they prefer

bigsoftcocks · 02/06/2026 17:47

Ours were allowed to wear them on Fridays after SATs. Then end of term. But it was so hot end of term they were sweating but determined !

Ophy83 · 02/06/2026 17:47

Ours wear them for the whole of year 6... much more friendly for the environment and wallet as they get good use out of them and saved having to buy a logo cardigan this year

BreadedChickenLips · 02/06/2026 17:45

At our school kids have them for the whole of Y6 and are allowed to wear them to school on PE days. It means they get wear out of them and it goes with PE kit better than a cardigan. It's a very sensible approach and schools who fixate on uniform are focusing on the wrong things.

Knickerbockerglory75 · 02/06/2026 17:44

BauhausOfEliott · 02/06/2026 17:26

I mean, surely the fact that the school wasn't organising hoodies was a fairly clear indication that they didn't want the kids to wear them?

I don't think you have a case for getting pissed off that a school doesn't want kids wearing a non-uniform item that a parent took it upon themselves to purchase, and which the school had nothing to do with. I don't really see why you'd expect the school to say yes to wearing them at school after it was made clear to the parents that leavers' hoodies aren't something the school was choosing to do that year.

My son's school expects parents to organise and the school then hands them out (once said parent has labelled them) like manna from heaven.

tttigress · 02/06/2026 17:43

I mean does it really matter either way?

Soon it will be a distant memory.

I would just go with the flow. I wouldn't get upset about it.

Nursemumma92 · 02/06/2026 17:43

I've not heard of school letting them wear leaving hoodies after sats. At my DD's school they are paid for by the PTA and they are allowed to wear them the last week of school only.

Monty36 · 02/06/2026 17:43

pragmatismuniversalsentimentalist · 02/06/2026 17:35

Are you joking? The parent won't be making a penny. Do you think nobody out there does anything nice without making money from it?

Me and a couple of other parents organised this for our year 6's a few years back, i was the one collected the money and made the payment and i can tell you it actually cost me a little something as the hoodies were quoted at for eg £18.10 per hoodie and i just said £18 to people then paid the balance of a few quid myself.

You may have done so does not automatically mean others will do it your way.

I am afraid I have come too many people who would happily do it differently. Not all socially I hasten to add. And that would be the only reason they would do it.

So no, I wasn’t joking.

AlternateLook · 02/06/2026 17:42

Leavers hoodies? Deary me.. When did this become a thing?