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About year 6 leavers hoodies

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Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 16:02

Dd is in year 6 and one of the parents very kindly organised leavers hoodies for the whole of year 6.

I had two older children that attended a different school and in their case, their school organised the hoodies and the children were allowed to wear them for the last half term (after SATS).

DD’s school have said no. They’ve even gone as far as to say that any children wearing the hoodies will have them confiscated. The school have said that the children can wear them on the last day only.

I’m very surprised as the school is actually quite lax when it comes to enforcing uniform rules generally.

The year 6 parents are not happy.

Aibu to think that the children should be allowed to wear their leavers hoodies now?

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Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 21:02

Witchonenowbob · 02/06/2026 20:19

No! Because those things are not visible day in day out like your idea of children wearing hoodies after sats, when everyday they’d be the odd one out.

Unkind.

It’s not ‘my’ idea. It a very widespread thing that a lot of schools participate in. It wasn’t my idea to order the hoodies but it was organised by another parent after she put the feelers out.there was a lot of enthusiasm and every single child has got a hoodie.

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AlexaStopAlexaNo · 02/06/2026 21:00

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TeamGeriatric · 02/06/2026 20:54

We ordered them at the start of Year 6, they are only allowed to wear them on the day they are in PE kit all day, but have done that throughout Year 6. They arrived just in time for the residential, which was September/October time, so they've had a good amount of wear at our school but not every day use.

ElleJayC · 02/06/2026 20:49

All of the primary schools near here have them. All of my children, nieces and nephews, and friends kids have gone through primary and had them. They all got them after SATS for the last few weeks of their final term and all wore them to death both inside and outside school. Right through summer too and only stopped once they got to secondary although I always see a few still kicking about into September.

For those saying how rubbish it is and what a waste of money etc, remember being 10 or 11. Remember leaving primary school and feeling so grown up. They absolutely love them, ours are even allowed to wear them when they go to the secondary school taster days in July and you see all of the Year 6's from all of the different primary schools proudly wearing their colour heading to big school (the schools somehow must discuss to make sure each school opts for a different colour). The PTA's step in quietly if needed to ensure no-one misses out.

It's really special for them and it brings joy.

Witchonenowbob · 02/06/2026 20:19

Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 17:01

Honestly it’s insane these days the amount of things that schools expect you to pay for and organise.

I forgot to add to the list all the Christmas card designs they do every year where you end up being pressured into buying a ridiculously overpriced mug, tea towel, cushion and whatever else with your child’s drawing on it. They’ve started doing them for Mother’s Day and Father’s Day too now.

School photos are extortionate.

They do Santas grotto every year during school
time £7 a go.

Really does throw the argument of left out children out of the window.

No! Because those things are not visible day in day out like your idea of children wearing hoodies after sats, when everyday they’d be the odd one out.

Unkind.

PinkPonyAnonymous · 02/06/2026 20:13

Near me the state school kids get a leavers’ hoodie at the start of their last year of primary and wear it constantly. I know there are 11, and I’m being mean but it’s just so lame! 😂 I can’t explain my irrational dislike of them. They are just so uncool, but the kids must think they are the bees knees.

Knickerbockerglory75 · 02/06/2026 20:10

SpidersAreShitheads · 02/06/2026 18:59

I agree with this.

And I also think that everyone being “given the option” of buying one is less than ideal. What parent wants to tell another parent in their class that they can’t find the money to buy their child a hoody?! That’s not the same as it being accessible and inclusive.

When schools organise paid events - like the residential etc - there are often behind-the-scenes arrangements for families that don’t have much money.

I understand the kids are disappointed- or is it actually really the parents?? - but the school had nothing to do with the hoodies, so their stance doesn’t seem unreasonable.

And there is usually a behind the scenes arrangement for leavers hoodies too.

LittlePinkDinosaur · 02/06/2026 20:08

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 02/06/2026 16:19

My dses wore their Senior school Leavers’ hoodies all the time, after they’d finished school, @Namenamchange. They didn’t have Yr 6 Leavers’ hoodies when they left primary school, but if they had, I’m sure they would have worn them until they out grew them.

My DS both had leavers joodies at the end of Y6 (provided by school/pta). They got them on the last day and spent the summer and following year wearing them until they were too small. We saw other similar aged children wearing their leavers hoodies out and about all over the place.

MyEasterBonnet · 02/06/2026 19:59

There’s still 7 weeks of term left, so yes they shouldn’t be wearing them now. It gives the impression that school is done. It’s a copy from y11s doing it, but the y11s are actually leaving or have left. Y6s don’t need them now (or at all imo)

Herewegoagainandagainandagain · 02/06/2026 19:58

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/06/2026 19:18

Is this your first time on MN? 😂
The many threads about kids being targeted at school beg to differ.

Eh? Not that it matters, I've been here for over 20 years. Not sure it that is a positive or not.......does time on MN make someone's post more or less valid in the discussion? 🤔

Most people reading my post would manage to work out I am talking about the actual subject at hand. Hoodies. No pupil is being "targeted" here, the parents on the other hand are getting their knickers in a twist over nothing.

hourspassed · 02/06/2026 19:50

I can understand why the school won't allow the children to wear them until the last day. If it's something that the school don't do, then the current Y5/Y4 children will be noticing them and then wondering why they aren't getting hoodies when they reach the summer term in Y6. I can also imagine that some children may think that the leavers hoodie means they have already left school (in their heads) so continuing to get the children to be engaged in school may be more challenging.

Of course you can disagree with the school and think they should be doing hoodies but, for their own reasons they choose not to. I see your examples of what the school do and request but there is no logic in the Y6 being allowed to wear them or not. If it's the school policy and they don't do hoodies and don't want children to wear them then that's up to the school. Our local primaries don't do them so it's not all schools who do it. Just my take on it all!

Figgygal · 02/06/2026 19:48

How odd
My children's school see it very much as a rite of passage. Those who want them have their year 6 hoodies ordered at the end of year five so that they have them at the start of year six they're then allowed to wear them p days for the entire year.
I know our school pay for everyone to have one if affordability is an issue

Pinkie89 · 02/06/2026 19:48

My daughter is in year 6 and got her leavers hoodie a few weeks ago and they’re allowed to wear them at school. Your school sounds very harsh! I wouldn’t be happy either. What’s the harm in letting them wear hoodies for a month or 2!

YourPoliteTurtle · 02/06/2026 19:47

I can understand why the kids are grumpy about not being allowed to wear the hoodies, but I feel some parents are far too invested in this matter. And it's always the ones who have done nothing, organised nothing who have the. most to say and complain about.

ERthree · 02/06/2026 19:46

What is the issue? The school have said no non uniform until the last day and here we have a parent taking to the internet to whinge about it. This is why children can't follow rules.

Shufflebumnessie · 02/06/2026 19:44

Our school hands them out at the Leavers Assembly which normally takes place a few days before the end of term. The children can then wear them for the rest of the week (if it's not too warm!!).

BreadedChickenLips · 02/06/2026 19:42

Yes it's too hot in the summer term to wear hoodies too!

IfyouStealMySunshine · 02/06/2026 19:39

That’s a real shame all of my dc have loved wearing them the last few weeks of term. It’s like a right of passage. You find that once they go up to high school they get forgotten about quickly.

At our school once the SAT’s were done and it was after half term then it was wear it when you want.

Marieb19 · 02/06/2026 19:38

Then you shouldn't be adding to this waste. Not everyone can afford this stuff.

Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 19:36

Marieb19 · 02/06/2026 19:30

Really. You complain about the cost of things the school organise and then complain that the school isn't supportive if this wasteful initiative. Schools have uniform policies for a good reason and even if everyone you know has bought one, it pressurises others and sets a precedent for future years.

Again, I think you have misunderstood where I am coming from.

People are saying that the school isn’t allowing th because of the waste/cost, and I am saying that the school organise many, many things that are far more wasteful and costly. Such as asking everyone to dress as Elves, and all of the other things previously mentioned.

Again schools have uniform policies but the school does not enforce the uniform policy usually. They allow tracksuits, trainers, crocs and all sorts.

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NotSmallButFunSize · 02/06/2026 19:32

Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 16:02

Dd is in year 6 and one of the parents very kindly organised leavers hoodies for the whole of year 6.

I had two older children that attended a different school and in their case, their school organised the hoodies and the children were allowed to wear them for the last half term (after SATS).

DD’s school have said no. They’ve even gone as far as to say that any children wearing the hoodies will have them confiscated. The school have said that the children can wear them on the last day only.

I’m very surprised as the school is actually quite lax when it comes to enforcing uniform rules generally.

The year 6 parents are not happy.

Aibu to think that the children should be allowed to wear their leavers hoodies now?

Ours give them out at their Leaver's assembly, so virtually the last day - the kids survive!

As for them getting "use out of it" as some have said, pretty much every kid in both my DS and DDs years wore them almost solidly for the next 6m - we used to keep a tally on the group chat about who had gone the longest refusing to have it washed.... 😆

Marieb19 · 02/06/2026 19:30

Really. You complain about the cost of things the school organise and then complain that the school isn't supportive if this wasteful initiative. Schools have uniform policies for a good reason and even if everyone you know has bought one, it pressurises others and sets a precedent for future years.

OneFunBrickNewt · 02/06/2026 19:26

As a teacher (and parent of a child who wanted two hoodies) and owner of several hoodies that are kindly gifted to me by the parents of whichever Y6 class I'm teaching that year, my observations:

  1. Only buy one- your child will never wear it again
  2. Please wash it often- they are thick hoodies worn at the hottest time of the year by children who've started puberty but often aren't good at washing!
  3. Just agree with the school.
  4. Do be careful with the info on the top. One year the PTA put the children's full name on the hoodies- not good for safeguarding.
  5. I am appreciative but now I own about 6, I'd secretly be happy not to have one in future! My school allows kids to wear them in the summer term, which seems fair. Too early and they get lost, and become meaningless. Too late, and what's the point?
Moonlightdust · 02/06/2026 19:22

All 3 of mine wore them for 1/2 day only as they were only allowed to wear them on the last day - which was always baking hot so they were discarded by lunchtime! Despite me spending a fortune on them, none of my kids ever wore their hoodie again. They no longer wanted to be associated with being primary age by then and were ready to be high schoolers! Total waste of money 🤦‍♀️

Readyforthelaunch · 02/06/2026 19:20

I get the waste/cost issue but schools have gone so ridiculous these days most don’t seem to care about waste or cost. That’s what is so irritating.

One they they all had to dress as flipping elves, then there’s Christmas jumper days, we have to pay for a bag of crap every year from the Santas grotto, Ibr got 5 bloody Christmas mugs because it was encouraged by the school. I’ve donated to endless raffles.

So yes a lot of us do feel miffed that we spent years doing all of these things, and what is the point? Because it’s fun for the children, but when it’s something that the parents and children actually want to do it’s a NO.

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