I feel proud of not drinking for a night - does that mean I’m an alcoholic

I think worrying about whether or not you are an alcoholic is not necessarily helpful, as it's a concept people often use to justify not making changes (these days medical professionals tend to talk about an alcohol use disorder or similar- recognising that people can have dysfunctional ways of drinking without being a stereotypical alcoholic).

If you feel that your drinking is having a negative effect on your life, that's all you need to make a change. We have a strange culture in which there's almost been a sense that the only people who are allowed not to drink without comment are those who are addicts, and everyone else should be drinking as a social norm. It's really unhealthy and thank goodness appears to be changing.

Well done for having an alcohol free evening and I hope your dry June goes well. I bet you'll feel great at the end of it.

Well done OP! I agree with other posters that your relationship with alcohol sounds like it's gone a bit dodgy but not that you're an alcoholic. It's great that you recognised the issue and you're addressing it. Your drink and snacks of choice are right up my street but a break a few times a week is a good idea.
Can I recommend the Drink Aware app? I use it sometimes to log days off drinking (and sometimes units if I can be bothered), it's quite satisfying seeing the little calendar fill up with "drink free days" and you can set mini goals (like how many days off you want to do next week, how many units etc)

I would keep the crisps/olives and just swap out the wine a few nights a week with something else - martini vibrante with tonic is really nice and summery and feels like a 'proper' drink. That way you won't feel like you're depriving yourself of a treat.

Yes i would say enjoy being proud and don't shoot your self down in flames about it.

Im proud when i've done my first day of a diet or new exercise regime.

If you can't stick to it (the not drinking every day) that is when it's time to worry 💐

You aren’t an alcoholic.

You’ve realised you are drinking too frequently and are making efforts to change that.

I agree it’s very easy to ‘reward’ yourself with a glass of wine, in a busy life!

I find if I haven’t had one by 7 I don’t want one any more, maybe aim to start later and you’ll find you don’t start at all.

Big well done for making a change! I think it probably means you have an unhealthy relationship with alcohol, but not that you are a full blown alcoholic. If you can change your drinking so you maybe only drink 3 or 4 days a week (and can stick to it) then I think you'll be grand, if you can't do that I would recommend getting some professional help from your GP as drinking every day with no breaks isn't great for your body (as you know).