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AIBU to think Nicola Sturgeon is deflecting criticism with sexism claims?

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Dawnintheageofaquariams · 31/05/2026 18:53

Nicola Sturgeon is cosplaying the victim, claiming that her being questioned over her ex husband's criminality is anti-women.
Is she seriously playing the woman card, when she actively deflected any criticism or investigation into SNP finances?

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CoraLdn · 31/05/2026 19:30

I am not a fan of her politics but she sounded completely believable to me. And, as was said before, she was already investigated. Some accusations are so unreasonable - if my husband bought a 2 grand pepper grinder , I wouldn’t be able to tell the difference between that and one from tk maxx.
he bought a car, hardly a Ferrari, and he was a childless guy on a good salary. Again, hardly unbelievable.

Purplecatshopaholic · 31/05/2026 19:29

PillsBox · 31/05/2026 19:17

So many MNetters making her responsible for this man’s crimes.

She’s right, it’s bloody sexist.

Yup, this.

Willowskyblue · 31/05/2026 19:29

Slight side issue but given the jewellery, expensive bags and other trinkets she has received from PM over the years, should she not be held to account for “receiving” fraudulently obtained goods, just as someone handling stolen goods would usually be.

WhatAMarvelousTune · 31/05/2026 19:28

AnonymityAnonymity · 31/05/2026 19:05

What is this with all the Nicola bashing?

She was investigated thoroughly, and very publicly, by the police. No charges have been brought against her. The focus should be on Murrell, not on his ex wife.

As has been pointed out the first minister for the first 5 years of Murrell's tenure if the job was Salmond. Why isn't he being pilloried in relation to Murrell's criminality?

He’s dead, and wasn’t married to him?

I don’t think it’s sexism that drives it. I think that if Victoria Starmer was found to have embezzled Labour Party funds (I’m aware she doesn’t work for the Labour Party), people would have the same attitude towards KS as they do to NS.

PillsBox · 31/05/2026 19:28

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 31/05/2026 19:24

People have been serial killers and their nearest and dearest didn't know, but it did sound a bit "playing the sympathy woman card", to me too.

Sounds more like calling out misogynistic shit to me.

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 31/05/2026 19:24

People have been serial killers and their nearest and dearest didn't know, but it did sound a bit "playing the sympathy woman card", to me too.

InconsequentialFerret · 31/05/2026 19:20

She's right, the focus isn't particularly on the man who defrauded the SNP, but on how much his wife knew, and how guilty is she really.

I just cannot imagine for a second that Police Scotland didn't overturn every possible stone, pebble and grain of sand in order to find something, anything, against her, no matter how tenuous.

But she's getting the trial by media and some of the general public anyway.

Jellycatspyjamas · 31/05/2026 19:19

I think she’s got a bloody cheek claiming other people are anti-woman.

PillsBox · 31/05/2026 19:17

So many MNetters making her responsible for this man’s crimes.

She’s right, it’s bloody sexist.

tilypu · 31/05/2026 19:14

I'm going to go with the results of the police investigation over the machinations of people with a chip on their shoulder for whatever reason.

Plenty of women discover their husbands have been up to things they shouldn't have been, long after the fact. Plenty of women that weren't working as long hours as she had to in order to keep a country running.

Did she know? No idea, but I'm willing to give her the benefit of the doubt, especially given that she faced an investigation and was cleared.

The question is: why do you doubt the police?

AnonymityAnonymity · 31/05/2026 19:05

What is this with all the Nicola bashing?

She was investigated thoroughly, and very publicly, by the police. No charges have been brought against her. The focus should be on Murrell, not on his ex wife.

As has been pointed out the first minister for the first 5 years of Murrell's tenure if the job was Salmond. Why isn't he being pilloried in relation to Murrell's criminality?