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To consider cancelling my holiday because of the EES?

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idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:21

I just can’t cope with this stress. I will be travelling alone and I can’t afford (literally or mentally) to miss a flight because of this system.

I just don’t want to go. It’s looming over me. I did it in February going into Norway, but that makes no difference. You’re still in the queue for hours. I’m flying with Ryanair and they only open their bag drop 2 hours before, they’re now saying three hours to get through. So it’ll be literally impossible.

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DappledThings · 31/05/2026 12:52

idontwanttogoanymore · 31/05/2026 09:03

Lots of lovely bullies on this thread!

There's a lot of lovely people who have given you lots of reassurance you have chosen to completely ignore

fantam · 31/05/2026 12:44

Lasyhappysunday · 31/05/2026 12:35

For everyone saying this is a nonissue, i missed a flight for this exact reason.

We arrived checked in our bags two hours before and then became stuck in the queue for getting our passports stamped out. All the other airlines were pulling their passengers out of the queue but Ryainair did not, we tried to go to the front and tell them the issue and were told that we would be called, we then missed the flight and Ryainair tried to charge us €100 to get on the next flight despite the flights for the next flight being £50.

This was at the beginning though but I wouldn’t put it past Ryainair using this to make more money.

If it’s really causing anxiety I would travel with hand luggage only

Did Ryanair offload your checked bags before taking off without you? Any airline that doesn't do that is taking a massive security risk and I'm sure it is not allowed to keep unaccompanied bags in the hold.

fantam · 31/05/2026 12:42

So to make it less worrying for you, the possible issue will be when you land in Milan. You will have arrived, you may have to Q for a while to get through EES. So what, you'll be there, and when you get through, your bags will be waiting.

On the return, yep there COULD be big queues, your bags will be checked in and if you are running close to the wire, you will be called out of turn, since your bags will be on board and airlines do not like to have to unload unaccompanied bags.

I'd just factor in an extra hour or two either end and relax a bit.

CallMeDaphne · 31/05/2026 12:38

dewne · 30/05/2026 22:40

It's literally nothing to do with Brexit

Hi Nige.

It is everything to do with Brexit. EU citizens travelling between EU countries don’t have to do this.

Lasyhappysunday · 31/05/2026 12:35

For everyone saying this is a nonissue, i missed a flight for this exact reason.

We arrived checked in our bags two hours before and then became stuck in the queue for getting our passports stamped out. All the other airlines were pulling their passengers out of the queue but Ryainair did not, we tried to go to the front and tell them the issue and were told that we would be called, we then missed the flight and Ryainair tried to charge us €100 to get on the next flight despite the flights for the next flight being £50.

This was at the beginning though but I wouldn’t put it past Ryainair using this to make more money.

If it’s really causing anxiety I would travel with hand luggage only

Pipsquiggle · 31/05/2026 12:29

Honestly @idontwanttogoanymore you are catastrophising.
Personally, travelling as a lone adult, is the ideal time to suss out the new travel process, this is the new normal unfortunately.
Are you never going to travel again?

Jaxhog · 31/05/2026 12:13

It may not be that bad. I've just got back from a river cruise, flying to Budapest and returning from Vienna (same weekend as the Eurovision song contest). It didn't take any longer than usual - less than 20 minutes.

FudgeFudy · 31/05/2026 12:12

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 23:10

They could easily negotiate a deal with the EU wherein we’re excluded from those checks. But he has to pretend to be a man of the people with his “Gooner” status.

Jesus! Whatever the land beyond Cloud Cuckoo Land is, you're in it. So if it weren't for Starmer watching a football game his government would be able to negotiate a deal with the EU that exempts a third country from a principal EU border security measure, all in time for your holiday? Of course! And if the lazy git could just miss Eastenders one evening he could sort out Russia/Ukraine too.

LathkillDale · 31/05/2026 12:06

ScouserSue · 30/05/2026 23:24

they just waved you through? No they didn’t.they stamped your passport

No, they didn’t. There is no 2026 Greek stamp on my passport in or out of the country. (We flew to Athens and flew back from Heraklion)

There was an East Asian woman on my left, going through passport control. She had to give her fingerprints and have her photo taken. When I offered to do the same, the passport officer waved me through!

honeylulu · 31/05/2026 11:58

Edited - duplicate.

honeylulu · 31/05/2026 11:57

How long are you going for? If its a week or less just ditch the hold baggage and take a rucksack as hand luggage, go through security as early as would provide you with reassurance.

I started doing this once add-on baggage costs got ridiculous and I have been amazed how little I really need. Even if you're going for longer you can launder clothes at the hotel, books on a kindle etc.

In reality it would probably be fine anyway but if it gives you some comfort and means you don't have to cancel then that's what you need.

I did an easy jet flight this week (back from Montenegro albeit that isn't a Schengen country) and almost everyone on the flight seemed to be hand baggage only. The luggage carousel was virtually empty as we all strolled past it!

Thechaseison71 · 31/05/2026 11:53

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 31/05/2026 08:29

You’re right, they lock you in there and you live the rest of your life in the airport.

You ask someone and they take you through. (As an aside, at some airports you can do exactly this).

In fact, the last time I flew I was told I should have done exactly that and so my bags didn’t fly with me, I just didn’t know I was supposed to do that. There’s a process for these things.

Makes me think of" The Terminal" film

Stepmumto3 · 31/05/2026 11:53

The queues really depend on the country you are going to (some like Greece seem to have been completely unprepared for it). It also depends on how many other non- Schengen area flights land in the 90mins before yours. Check the arrivals list of the airport to see how many there are.

elessar · 31/05/2026 11:51

@idontwanttogoanymore

Either you started this post just to goad people or you have serious anxiety issues.

Hundreds of people are telling you that this is basically a non issue. And if you’re really that worried about it, then take a cabin bag only to forego the checked baggage if you want to go through security much earlier. Surely better that than cancel if you’d really be heartbroken about it.

Oh, and I also work in travel (not a travel agent) and there have been no issues with customers missing flights due to EES. And believe me when I say I would know if there had been.

I’m with you on Brexit btw, but that’s not a reason not to go on holiday.

YourWildAmberSloth · 31/05/2026 11:49

I haven't read the whole thread but I have read all of your posts OP and this is either not real (although I believe it is) or there is other stuff going on, some other form of anxiety or something. I say this because it is not normal for someone to be so worked up and angry about having to queue - even for hours- when travelling. I'm not saying it's fun, of course it isn't but most people would just suck it up if they really wanted to go - especially if they are travelling as a single person with no kids. You know its happening so can be prepared, take something to sit on - walking sticks with a seat for example. You just angry at everything, even at the solution of cancelling the trip or going somewhere else.

havingoneofthosedays · 31/05/2026 11:49

Think you have been on the duty free already

OnGoldenPond · 31/05/2026 11:49

Italianmeringuebuttercream · 31/05/2026 08:02

@idontwanttogoanymore i panicked about this also. I was flying from Gatwick on bank holiday Monday with easyjet. I arrived just over 3 hours before my flight to Spain and thought I'd have to wait for bag drop to open, but went over to easyjet bit and they were open already. There were also no queues at security and the passport business was fine, again no queue. There was a person helping with the initial bit. When we left Spain, the return was just as easy. Hopefully you'll be fine. As pp have said Ryanair will be aware. Also in Turkey last year, we were stuck in traffic to get to the airport and arrived with 20 minutes before our flight! Every one was in the same situation (president visiting or something and roads closed etc) no one missed their flights as all airlines were aware and held them til their passengers were through. Very delayed, but at least we got home! You'll be fine.

There’s no point arriving at Gatwick three hours early, that’s not where the holdups are. It’s when you arrive at the European airport, or are returning home from a European airport that the delays occur ( if there are any delays).

Sallysparkles · 31/05/2026 11:36

Hotupnorth · 31/05/2026 10:36

We always were able to pass our own laws, what do think the 2 Houses spend some of their time doing. Our politicians were elected - including the sainted Farage who wasn't backwards at accepting European money.

As for trade deals and controlling borders, now that we have Brexit that's really working well isn't it.

Your argument doesn't stack up.

Plus thinking that the guy who spent one of the least amount of time in the European Parliament supposedly representing his constituents and claimed among the most amount on expenses is the guy who’s a man of the people most likely to help to get us out of the difficult financial situation he more than practically anyone helped get us into.

But as Mark Twain probably said, ‘It’s easier to fool someone than to convince them they’ve been fooled’.

zingally · 31/05/2026 11:32

OP, people have given you tons of very sensible, logical, "talking you down" advice, but you're determined to poo-poo it all.

If you're that upset/bothered, then just don't go. It affects exactly no-one apart from yourself. Literally no-one else will care if you're in Milan or not.

OnGoldenPond · 31/05/2026 11:29

GalaDinner · 31/05/2026 06:41

Waves to @OnGoldenPondfrom HDA, 15 minutes from Corvera

OP, I'm taking your post to read that you registered for the EES in Norway in February. Your registration lasts for three years, so you don't have to queue up for the machines every time. I flew into Alicante last week, spoke to one of the staff and he let me through the barrier. I was less than a minute behind my EU DH.

Hi @GalaDinner, is HDA Hacienda del Alamo? Did an overnight at the hotel there when my flight from Murcia was grounded due to high winds earlier this year. Lovely room and facilities, promised myself I would go stay again when I had more time to enjoy them (and better weather!) 😊

Helpwithdivorce · 31/05/2026 11:26

So in the last 8 months I’ve flown to Dubai, France, USA, turkey, Berlin, Lanzarote, Azerbaijan, Porto and Barcelona. I have missed zero flights. Have had zero stress. There was a long queue at security last week to fly out but just because it was school holidays. Took 40 mins to get through. No issues whatsoever with passports. Even in the USA where they said it would take hours to clear passport control. You’re causing yourself massive amounts of stress for no reason

Ace56 · 31/05/2026 11:21

You’re right OP, definitely cancel your holiday. There’s no point even trying. Makes sense to lose the money now and a trip you were really looking forward to. That’s definitely rational, non-deluded thinking. In fact, you’re probably never going to be able to go abroad again, so might as well accept it now.

In all seriousness, have you perhaps missed a few doses of your anxiety medication recently? DP often has kind of deluded thinking if he does…

Namechange546 · 31/05/2026 11:21

Op, I really think you need to get some real life support if the level of anxiety and over reaction you are showing on this thread is genuine.

Your travel will be fine. Go to the airport early and follow the system. It might be a bit slower than normal but thousands of people are travelling every day and it is fine. Ignore the news. It's half term in a lot of places - there is always an "airport chaos" story at half term and it's never as bad as the press make it seem.

You are irrationally focused on Starmer. He wasn't the cause of Brexit. This is the EU's rules. The EU won't be up for negotiations on a Saturday night and even the Prime Minister is allowed to have a night off to watch the football. The new rules are not really different from travelling to other countries (US, Australia etc).

PoorPhaedra · 31/05/2026 11:14

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 23:10

They could easily negotiate a deal with the EU wherein we’re excluded from those checks. But he has to pretend to be a man of the people with his “Gooner” status.

You are utterly deluded. Of course Starmer can’t “easily negotiate” an exemption to rules that impact every single non-EU country in the world. The fuckwits in the UK voted for Brexit and this is one of the many results of that. Why on earth would the EU give us an exemption after we voted to throw away all the benefits of membership!!! You should be directing all your anger at Farage and his Brexit lies.

Sahara123 · 31/05/2026 11:14

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:57

They wouldn’t call you though would they 😂 you’re a travel agent and it’s a Saturday. You’d be their last thought

This is actual proof that you’re not listening to a word people are saying and are determined to be hysterical. Nowhere does this poster say she’s a travel agent. I took it to mean she’s an emergency call number for the kind of situation you’re worried about. And that she’s had literally NO calls over a period of time.
I for one can’t imagine cancelling my holiday over something that might not even happen. I suppose you’d never know but imagine cancelling and then finding out that everything was fine . What a waste of.

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