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To consider cancelling my holiday because of the EES?

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idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:21

I just can’t cope with this stress. I will be travelling alone and I can’t afford (literally or mentally) to miss a flight because of this system.

I just don’t want to go. It’s looming over me. I did it in February going into Norway, but that makes no difference. You’re still in the queue for hours. I’m flying with Ryanair and they only open their bag drop 2 hours before, they’re now saying three hours to get through. So it’ll be literally impossible.

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idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:57

CheeseWisely · 30/05/2026 22:57

To add OP, I work in travel. I had almost 1000 clients fly between the UK and Europe just today and I’m the emergency contact for all of them. I have had exactly 0 calls.

They wouldn’t call you though would they 😂 you’re a travel agent and it’s a Saturday. You’d be their last thought

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Pwlinafowl · 30/05/2026 22:57

OP in your shoes I would cancel and sort out my glue habit.

Andouillette · 30/05/2026 22:57

Puppylucky · 30/05/2026 22:48

It literally is as we are now 3rd nation status

Goodness me, how ever did we manage back in ye olden days when passport control was in operation everywhere?

CheeseWisely · 30/05/2026 22:57

To add OP, I work in travel. I had almost 1000 clients fly between the UK and Europe just today and I’m the emergency contact for all of them. I have had exactly 0 calls.

TheLocust · 30/05/2026 22:56

You're clearly not going to listen to a word anyone says on here, so just go ahead and cut your nose off to spite your face.

SomeOtherUser · 30/05/2026 22:55

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:50

I want to go. I’m heartbroken that I’m going to have to cancel, but I guess that’s what spineless Starmer gets you. He’s more bothered by the football than getting us closer to Europe and sorting this mess out.

I'm not sure I'd lay the blame for Brexit at Starmer's feet, to be fair.

I voted YABU because I travelled to and from the EU this last week (as a family) and it went nice and quick both ways. Maybe depends where you're going? I think the media is doing its usual thing and blowing things out of proportion.

MrsDoof · 30/05/2026 22:55

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:50

I want to go. I’m heartbroken that I’m going to have to cancel, but I guess that’s what spineless Starmer gets you. He’s more bothered by the football than getting us closer to Europe and sorting this mess out.

Ah yes, Keir Starmer is the spineless one whilst you’re having a meltdown and wanting to cancel a holiday over something that will likely be fine as thousands of people are doing it everyday. But sure, it’s Keir Starmer’s fault because of checks notes football

OnGoldenPond · 30/05/2026 22:55

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:23

No, you can’t. It’s three hour queues in the airport to get through. I did it in Norway. You have to be seen by a person.

You don’t need to be seen by a person if the airport you go to has the registration machines and egates fully up and running. Most do, despite the sensationalist headlines. Many are reporting small queues. Where are you flying to?

ToffeeCrabApple · 30/05/2026 22:54

I think you've gone a teeny bit crackers op.

Dh & I went through with the kids in Italy. It was a bit slower than it has been, it wasn't awful and certainly wasn't "missing flights".

I think the people who are getting caught are the ones who like to sit in airport bars till the last call for their gate, only to have not remembered there's passport control before the gate (with a queue) in many European airports.

ChickenBananaBanana · 30/05/2026 22:54

You're ignoring what people are saying and being daft now

MomOfTwoGirls2 · 30/05/2026 22:54

Well how about travelling with hand luggage?? Vacuum pack your clothes. Buy sun cream, etc at destination or in duty free?

Then you can go through security well in advance and not be so stressed.

bittertwisted · 30/05/2026 22:54

this has not entered even the tiniest corner of my mind, travelling within Europe 3 times in the next 2 months, and I’m still not remotely worried after reading this
you really should cancel, you won’t enjoy it, evident you are not going to be reassured

titchy · 30/05/2026 22:52

What the fucks it got to do with Ryanair what time you go through security? Confused Don’t check in any baggage, turn up six hours early if you want job done.

Or catastrophise and never do anything ever again. Up to you.

Kinekia · 30/05/2026 22:52

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:50

I want to go. I’m heartbroken that I’m going to have to cancel, but I guess that’s what spineless Starmer gets you. He’s more bothered by the football than getting us closer to Europe and sorting this mess out.

Sorry I re-read your OP and can see you’ve already done Norway and are going somewhere different now.

There’s a 99% chance all will be fine. I’ve been straight sailed through the past 3 EU airports I’ve visited! Mind you Lanzarote last November was carnage.

Letsgocamping67 · 30/05/2026 22:52

Just flew London to Alicante bank holiday Monday and back today. Literally 15 min through both ways.

CheeseWisely · 30/05/2026 22:52

OP you’re being slightly hysterical. You CAN go on holiday and in all likelihood you will be absolutely fine. Tens of thousands of Brits are travelling in and out of Europe every week, hundreds of thousands this week for half-term, many of them with Ryanair and/or to Milan, without issue.

Also, your suitcase will not fly without you. That is for obvious security reasons absolutely not a thing. If you don’t make the flight they’ll offload your bag, which is exactly why they have people with a flight boarding jump the queues where necessary, because they never want to offload a bag.

unicornflakegirl · 30/05/2026 22:51

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:37

It’s their policy.

This AI information is incorrect, as @hilariousnamehere has pointed out.

If you want to know Ryanair policy, go to their website.

It sounds like you're letting your anxiety spiral. The reality is, you will very likely be able to drop off your bag 3 hours before the flight at Milan (or is it Bergamo?), you will very likely be able to get through security on time, you will possibly be able to buy a fast track security pass, you will be able to tell staff your flight is leaving soon and ask for help. You won't be the only one. Ryanair can be awkward, but they are also pretty efficient. As the systems bed in things will improve.

I would suggest some CBT but in the meantime maybe rescue remedy or similar for travelling. Go and enjoy your holiday, seriously. Don't let this not happen after looking forward to it for so long.

mynameiscalypso · 30/05/2026 22:51

What exactly do you expect the UK government to do about it? Other than re-join the EU before your holiday?

ThreeWheelsGood · 30/05/2026 22:51

Norway isn't in the EU.
You'll be fine OP especially travelling alone. Take a book.

hilariousnamehere · 30/05/2026 22:51

@idontwanttogoanymore you are literally basing your reaction on totally wrong information from the shit AI summary. The actual Ryanair website says at the latest 2 hours before departure and the screenshot you shared of the AI summary says "earliest 2 hours" which just... isn't correct.

Edit to add link again: https://help.ryanair.com/hc/en-gb/articles/12890531028497-How-far-in-advance-can-I-drop-my-bag-at-the-bag-drop-counter

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:50

Kinekia · 30/05/2026 22:49

OP I did Italy in March, Austria in April and Greece in May and they’ve been fine. I was maybe delayed 10 minutes compared to my partner who is a EU citizen. Norway is hardly a major British holidaymaker hub. You really will be absolutely fine. It sort of sounds like you don’t want to go and are just looking for reasons to justify not bothering?

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I want to go. I’m heartbroken that I’m going to have to cancel, but I guess that’s what spineless Starmer gets you. He’s more bothered by the football than getting us closer to Europe and sorting this mess out.

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idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:50

Catroo · 30/05/2026 22:44

No, you can't go because of your anxiety.

Thousands are flying with absolutely no problems.
With the numbers of people flying there will inevitably be issues with a small %

While it's not ideal when your suitcase doesn't make it to the same destination, it really isn't the end of the world

Of course it’s the end of the world if your suitcase goes to London and you end up across the country. Fucking government not stepping up and sorting it is a joke

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Kinekia · 30/05/2026 22:49

OP I did Italy in March, Austria in April and Greece in May and they’ve been fine. I was maybe delayed 10 minutes compared to my partner who is a EU citizen. Norway is hardly a major British holidaymaker hub. You really will be absolutely fine. It sort of sounds like you don’t want to go and are just looking for reasons to justify not bothering?

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:49

Summerbay23 · 30/05/2026 22:45

I’m not sure I understand what your flight landing at 9.30 has to do with it? Presumably that’s what you were expecting?

Because the Airbnb cut off for check in is midnight. Normally would be fine. Now the government is spineless and allowing this to happen, it’s not going to be fine.

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idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:48

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 30/05/2026 22:47

What?! You’d be at the original airport so you’d get your bag and recheck it.

You won’t get stuck in some infinite loop of checking your bag and then not getting through security. Plus Ryanair will accept your bag earlier most likely. I’ve checked a Ryanair bag more than 2 hours in advance before, and if they know the queues are so bad they definitely will. If you think you’re going to miss your flight, alert staff and ask what to do. No one wants the hassle of having to take your bag off the plane, they’d rather get you on the plane with it.

And I’d be taking Ryanair to small claims court if they wanted to charge me for a replacement flight if they booked me on one that was impossible to catch.

Worst case scenario, get yourself to a lesser affected airport and fly from there - there’s plenty a train ride from Milan.

Also nothing you just described is the end of the world.

You’re hugely overreacting.

You can’t just walk out from being airside and pick up a bag that’s been put on another plane 😂

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