Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To consider cancelling my holiday because of the EES?

489 replies

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:21

I just can’t cope with this stress. I will be travelling alone and I can’t afford (literally or mentally) to miss a flight because of this system.

I just don’t want to go. It’s looming over me. I did it in February going into Norway, but that makes no difference. You’re still in the queue for hours. I’m flying with Ryanair and they only open their bag drop 2 hours before, they’re now saying three hours to get through. So it’ll be literally impossible.

OP posts:
Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 31/05/2026 00:06

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:32

It’s just heartbreaking. I’ve had this holiday planned for a year and now I can’t go because of fucking Brexit, which I’ve never agreed with. It’s maddening

Well you can go, you are catastrophising. Get a grip.

Earlystartsmakemegrumpy · 31/05/2026 00:05

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Lucyccfc68 · 31/05/2026 00:05

I’ve read some ridiculous stuff on here, but this is probably one of the most ridiculous posts in a long time.

Between my son and I, we have flown to around 20 EU countries in the last 12 months, including Milan, Paris, Berlin, Lithuania etc. No issues with any of them. Lithuania gave us the longest delay, as we had to do our first finger print and photos and even then the delay was in Lithuania not the UK.

If you are really panicking that much, just cancel and sit in your back garden for the week.

RedToothBrush · 31/05/2026 00:01

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:26

They have literally just said on the news you need to be through security three hours before your flight, but Ryanair make that a physical impossibility.

I flew last week.

Registration on entry took about ten minutes, which was fine as my flight was twenty minutes early so I had to hang around waiting for my friend picking me up!

On return I got to the airport 4 hrs early. It has electronic gates to security but was time limited to 2hrs before the flight. I tried at 2hrs 30 and it did allow me through. It was a doddle. Bit of a queue but through security in 15 mins and passport control took two minutes.

It very genuinely depends on which airport you are flying through and how busy the airport is.

I had been panicking about it all but it was a absolute breeze.

Now, I flew through Schiphol last year before the introduction of the gates. That took use nearly two hours to clear passport control. That was fun. I have a hatred of Schiphol which goes back several trips and I wish to avoid if at all possible regardless of the new system or not.

Tbh, I think it depends on the size of the airport and how many none EU flights there are. A small airport with only a couple of flights a day to none EU destinations is going to be much better than Schiphol which is a world gateway city and huge.

Ryanair by default, tends to fly from the smaller more provincial airports so is less likely to be an issue, than say easyJet who go through some of the bigger airports such as Schiphol.

Your biggest problem airports are likely to be Brits abroad hotspots.

Norway? No not so much of an issue.

EternalDreamer · 30/05/2026 23:58

OP which Milan airport? I flew through Linate last month with no issues. You can use the egates there. I ended up having to go through manual gates but no queue.

devuskums · 30/05/2026 23:56

You are being ridiculous. Just go on your holiday. You will be embarrassed when it is all fine, but we will be happy for you that your holiday has happened.

fashionqueen0123 · 30/05/2026 23:53

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:23

No, you can’t. It’s three hour queues in the airport to get through. I did it in Norway. You have to be seen by a person.

We went to Spain and adults were literally going through the gates in minutes. We meanwhile spent 20 mins or so in a family queue to see a person cos kids can’t use the gates.

On the way home it was a person. The queue got long so they began waving people through.

JasonTindallsTan · 30/05/2026 23:50

10/10 ragebaiting OP 🙄

Sensiblesal · 30/05/2026 23:44

don’t check in any luggage & problem solved

CoralOP · 30/05/2026 23:43

Put the vodka down......you've had enough

geekone · 30/05/2026 23:36

I am currently in Portugal it’s been fine and getting out wilL be fine. This is on you not Starmer or Brexit or anything. Your anxiety is stopping you or, maybe you just want to call out the current government and you are either not going anywhere or you will
go anyway and complain a lot. Go enjoy your holiday op it’s possible whether your bag makes it or not.

FiveShelties · 30/05/2026 23:36

ThatLilacTiger · 30/05/2026 23:16

Omg just don't fucking go then.

This, absolutely this.😂

DrumsPleaseFab · 30/05/2026 23:36

Instead of being heartbroken to not go, why not just fly with hand luggage only? To keep it more simple?

in your case cancelling may also be a good option really as I think the stress is wearing you out and holidays are meant to be a bit relaxing

Quokkas · 30/05/2026 23:30

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:50

I want to go. I’m heartbroken that I’m going to have to cancel, but I guess that’s what spineless Starmer gets you. He’s more bothered by the football than getting us closer to Europe and sorting this mess out.

It’s nothing to do with the government being spineless. Why would the government focus on getting us closer with Europe when the Brexit referendum has been decided and there are much more urgent issues for the government to deal with?

Besidemyselfwithworry · 30/05/2026 23:30

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

This!

Heylittlesongbird · 30/05/2026 23:29

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 23:10

They could easily negotiate a deal with the EU wherein we’re excluded from those checks. But he has to pretend to be a man of the people with his “Gooner” status.

Just stop it now, please. Maybe think it through again in the morning.

If you want to go, it should be fine. If you don’t want to go back out, but don’t blame this for it.

And (I say this as someone who really doesn’t rate Starmer), don’t blame him or him supporting Arsenal for this.

OnGoldenPond · 30/05/2026 23:28

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 23:10

They could easily negotiate a deal with the EU wherein we’re excluded from those checks. But he has to pretend to be a man of the people with his “Gooner” status.

Now you’re just being silly.

Tortoisel · 30/05/2026 23:25

I do not know how people’s conclusion to ‘EU implements shit system’ is to blame the U.K. for voting to leave.

Come on now!

ScouserSue · 30/05/2026 23:24

LathkillDale · 30/05/2026 23:13

NRTFT. We went to Greece 2 weeks ago. They saw our British passports and waved us through - no fingerprints or photos! Greece has an income of £3.5 billion pa from British tourists. They announced they weren’t going to lose that revenue this summer, because British tourists went elsewhere rather than face EES.

they just waved you through? No they didn’t.they stamped your passport

MeltyMomenrs · 30/05/2026 23:24

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:49

Because the Airbnb cut off for check in is midnight. Normally would be fine. Now the government is spineless and allowing this to happen, it’s not going to be fine.

You are anxious & not being rational. Just go & take it one step at a time.

5foot5 · 30/05/2026 23:24

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:50

I want to go. I’m heartbroken that I’m going to have to cancel, but I guess that’s what spineless Starmer gets you. He’s more bothered by the football than getting us closer to Europe and sorting this mess out.

The only reason that you might have to cancel is because of your totally irrational meltdown. If you do genuinely suffer from such crippling anxiety that you can't cope with this then I feel very sorry for you and hope you can get some help for your problem. But it is a bit silly to be blaming the Government, the EU, Brexit, Ryanair and/or Kier Starmer for your potentially lost holiday when it is your own issues that are the stumbling block.

CheeseWisely · 30/05/2026 23:22

Ubugly · 30/05/2026 23:22

Dont they take your suitcase off the plane if you dont actually get on the plane.

Always, yes.

Ubugly · 30/05/2026 23:22

Dont they take your suitcase off the plane if you dont actually get on the plane.

Flipflopsandsunhat · 30/05/2026 23:20

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:50

I want to go. I’m heartbroken that I’m going to have to cancel, but I guess that’s what spineless Starmer gets you. He’s more bothered by the football than getting us closer to Europe and sorting this mess out.

You're choosing to cancel, for no good reason. Read the post specifically about Milan airport up thread. It will be fine.

Thelonelyshrew · 30/05/2026 23:19

Just cancel.

Swipe left for the next trending thread