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AIBU to think 33 is not too late to start TTC?

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Anxietiess · 30/05/2026 20:08

To think 33, nearly 34 isn't too late to start TTC 1st baby?

Just looking for reassurance here. I've only just started feeling ready and wanting to have a child. We have a once in a lifetime holiday booked for early next year, so thinking of TTC after this. AIBU to think I've plenty of time? No medical conditions, fit and well, ovulating normally as far as I can tell.

OP posts:
Noluthando · 30/05/2026 20:12

not at all , very average these days I reckon

cupfinalchaos · 30/05/2026 20:11

Why would it be too late?

Blondeshavemorefun · 30/05/2026 20:11

You never know. I ttc after I was married at your age. Took 10yrs and 5 private ivf to get my one and only ever bfp

unexplained infertility

so I was a mum at almost 44. Wanted to be 33

Mini blondes is now 9 and I’m almost 53

many will say you have loads of time. And prob do but some don’t fall easily. Like me

Matchalattecoco · 30/05/2026 20:10

sorry misclick, definitely not unreasonable isn’t that the average sort of age?

EternalDreamer · 30/05/2026 20:09

I got pregnant with my first child at 33, had her at 34. Followed by my second at 37 and third at 39. No issues conceiving but everyone is different x

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