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Called DP a disrespectful **** in front of our friends

79 replies

Seasidescarl · 30/05/2026 08:38

Views welcome on if I was OTT, this is a couple we are very close with for context. Over dinner at at a restaurant last night , we saw a group walk past who were all in ‘costume’, some sort of odd animal get up, onesies etc. We had a chuckle.

My friend jokingly said that is a normal night in the bedroom for us - to which my DP replied we never do dress up and ‘the most she allows is a finger up the arse’. I replied unkindly- swore at him and he said he was joking.

He claims I’ve had a sense of humour failure and over reacted in front of friends. WIBU?

OP posts:
Ace56 · 30/05/2026 08:59

YANBU. He started it by discussing your sex life in a derogatory way, and now the poor baby is offended cos you called him a cunt? Diddums

Evaka · 30/05/2026 08:48

What the fuck? He's revolting.

Renataz · 30/05/2026 08:47

gross.

Lalalouloulee1 · 30/05/2026 08:39

This cannot be serious.