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AIBU to think booing the exhausted charity climbers was unfair?

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dottiedodah · 29/05/2026 10:15

2 charity climbers booed ,because they went before the queue to touch the top!Had already done the 3 peaks challenge and were exhausted .A man physically tried to stop them by putting his hand out! YABU they should have waited .YANBU they should not have been booed

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Quokkas · 29/05/2026 12:04

I’ve just read the article and both men sound really selfish IMO.

I do understand they’re doing the challenge for a great cause, but they seem to put that over and above the needs of everyone else at the top of the mountain.

They both sound very entitled. They’re focused on their sunburn, them not having no shade and the discomfort the weather brought for them. Well, maybe choose another day to climb, or come better prepared! And please think about the other climbers who will also be feeling the same as you.

This article has really annoyed me!

StrictlyCoffee · 29/05/2026 12:00

HmmWhatNameToHave · 29/05/2026 11:50

It's timed, a 24hr challenge. Were other people timed who were waiting? No probably not, just there for a photo after climbing one mountain not 3. Just like people can park outside your house, people can also walk up past a queue and touch a trig point. Life was simpler without social media, no queues for photos, or the photo included other people who were milling around.

But no one actually cares do they whether it’s within the time or not. You certainly can’t expect other people on the hill to
give much of a shit. It’s an arbitrary time limit and matters outwith the control of the climbers can easily affect it. Would you ask for your donation back if it took them 25 hours to complete instead of 24.

ChillSoundtrack · 29/05/2026 11:59

FinchiePink · 29/05/2026 11:15

I find it a bit warped that there's a queue for the top of a mountain in the first place.

It's not a supermarket checkout.

Agree I would just walk past them all, it's ridiculous

FieryMexicanClive · 29/05/2026 11:57

Firstly people aren't queuing for the thrill of it - if there wasnt some sort of organised system in place there would just be a desperate mass for the top

It's not organised. What's happened is that the stepped access to the top has been taken over by morons who have created a queue there. If they weren't all buggering around taking selfies, people would be using the steps as they were intended to be used - for people who don't want to scramble to walk up, get to the top, drop down to where there's space, mill around a bit, enjoy the views, have a snack and some water etc. while those who didn't need the stepped access could do their thing away from the steps.

NotAnotherScarf · 29/05/2026 11:55

Divebar2021 · 29/05/2026 10:24

I don’t know anything about this incident but let’s not pretend there isn’t a certain amount of ego involved in undertaking these challenges for “ charity”. Queuing culture is very strong in the UK so it takes a certain arrogance to think that the rules don’t apply to you.

This John Finnimore had a radio sketch show and did one asking to be sponsored for lying on the beach, previously it was skydiving!

I know of a local small charity that raises about £25k a year and spends £24k doing it but the organisers have a great time

TightlyLacedCorset · 29/05/2026 11:52

Having now read the article, I am even more certain the two gentlemen did nothing wrong.

There are two sets of people:

People queuing for a selfie

And

Serious climbers trying to reach a goal.

Somehow in this Insta/Facebook/Tiktok clout chasing times we live in, the selfie queuers have become the supposed gate keepers of the mountain peak.

Absolutely ridiculous. As well as dangerous in hot weather.

And improprietous. People should be able to discern the difference between a charity or serious mountain climber and a leisure climber.

JulietteHasAGun · 29/05/2026 11:51

Divebar2021 · 29/05/2026 10:24

I don’t know anything about this incident but let’s not pretend there isn’t a certain amount of ego involved in undertaking these challenges for “ charity”. Queuing culture is very strong in the UK so it takes a certain arrogance to think that the rules don’t apply to you.

But there are no rules on this. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I think it’s arrogant to make a rule up and try and enforce it on others.

HmmWhatNameToHave · 29/05/2026 11:50

It's timed, a 24hr challenge. Were other people timed who were waiting? No probably not, just there for a photo after climbing one mountain not 3. Just like people can park outside your house, people can also walk up past a queue and touch a trig point. Life was simpler without social media, no queues for photos, or the photo included other people who were milling around.

Bristolandlazy · 29/05/2026 11:50

The queues are apparently sometimes over an hour wait, in general people are waiting to get their photo taken with the TRIG point. They wanted to use it for it's proper use and tap in.

SpaceRaccoon · 29/05/2026 11:48

I wouldn't wait in a queue for people to take selfiies if I just wanted to get to the top either.

latetothefisting · 29/05/2026 11:47

SandwichSuperstar · 29/05/2026 10:32

I too hate threads like this with no link.

I've Googled and to be honest, they sound a bit up their own arses and selfish in what they've said here...

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/creplqjdxqxo

Agree.
His comment "There's no policing of it at all, it is purely free will, if you want to queue you can."

Firstly people aren't queuing for the thrill of it - if there wasnt some sort of organised system in place there would just be a desperate mass for the top which would be both dangerous and likely to be "won" by fit younger men like them, leaving older people/children/those with additional needs for whom reaching the top is even harder and more of an achievement to struggle.

Something doesnt have to be "policed" (ridiculous comment in its own right, does he really expect Pc plod to be stationed up the top of a mountain every day!) to be moral.

Secondly by his own logic, in exactly the same way as there is no "policing" of the queue there's no policing that you HAVE to have touched a special magic point to have been considered to climb the mountain. He's climbing for charity - is anyone really going to demand photographic proof or refuse to pay him because he only climbed 1085 metres rather than 1086? They climbed to the top, who actually cares if they "touched the trig" before climbing down?

As a pp said, most people are queuing for a photo AT the trig point rather than because they dont think it "counts" unless they touch it.

Arrogantly pushing past because you're judging everyone else for "queuing like its alton towers" (Im surprised they didn't refer to the other climbers as sheep) is always going to put people's backs up.

Anonymousical · 29/05/2026 11:45

I'm a stickler for queuing patiently and politely but you shouldn't have to queue just because someone has decided there's a queue - you should only ever queue for the primary 'thing' that is being offered. Eg, Snowdon is an open mountain to climb (or walk or sit on the train to), it's not a selfie station, so if people want to queue to take unobstructed selfies they need to wait until everyone just climbing to 'be there' has finished and gone (not going to happen I know!) rather than expect them to queue too - or just take your selfie with people in the background!

Similar example - if there was a pretty bridge I'd expect people only to queue to walk across it (if it was that busy), anyone wanting to stop to take selfies should wait for everyone else to go. Taking clear selfies is not an innate human right 😂

FieryMexicanClive · 29/05/2026 11:44

CoyGoldenKoi · 29/05/2026 10:53

It's a mountain. The concept of a queue is inherently ridiculous and created by the social media obsession with a perfect shot.

IMHO no-one should be queuing. Take a (quick!) photo and accept that it'll have other people in it, you're not that special.

To me the inherent question is "Should people's desire for social media content be allowed to inconvenience others?"
To which, to me, the answer is clearly No.

So while I think they're ridiculous for getting upset about being booed (cos it's completely foreseeable that others who have decided to queue will be annoyed), I don't think they're unreasonable for bypassing a self-inflicted queue.

Exactly. It's the queue that's the inconvenience, not the people walking about doing their thing.

StrictlyCoffee · 29/05/2026 11:44

That pic of all the people at the top just cements how much I hate hillwalking and climbing! In the unlikely event I ever did want to do a trek like that, the reason is I would want to avoid people, not come across hordes of them there. I’d rather go into town.

AuDrusilla · 29/05/2026 11:43

Hoardasurass · 29/05/2026 10:48

The arrogance of those two men is outrageous.
How dare they try and shame people for booing them over the queue jumping, just because they were fundraising. The way they spoke about other people who complained about poor behaviour and excusing it by claiming that their charity t-shirts should have prevented it.
Honestly I thought that they were twats before I read their comments but now having read them and there oh aren't we so special and everybody should move aside for us crap I really hope that they get a social media pasting

Two charity hikers who skipped queues to reach the summit of Yr Wyddfa have spoken of their anger at being booed.

I read this and thought "oh fuck off"

FieryMexicanClive · 29/05/2026 11:39

Your thread header is inaccurate. This wasn't a queue to get to the top. It's a queue to take a photo at the trig point without anyone else in it, so you can pretend you're alone on the mountain. It's not an official queue. It's people who have decided to take up public space and turn it into a queue for this moronic reason. Those who don't want to queue for a photo, but want to get to the trig, don't queue.

StrictlyCoffee · 29/05/2026 11:38

Divebar2021 · 29/05/2026 10:24

I don’t know anything about this incident but let’s not pretend there isn’t a certain amount of ego involved in undertaking these challenges for “ charity”. Queuing culture is very strong in the UK so it takes a certain arrogance to think that the rules don’t apply to you.

Exactly this

I don’t know this incident but people tend to do these things as a personal challenge first and for charity second.

just because it is for charity doesn’t mean they are any more important or have any more right to get to the top ahead of the queue.

Deadleaves77 · 29/05/2026 11:37

PoliteGreyDreamer · 29/05/2026 11:23

I hiked up Snowdon/Yr Wyddfa on a glorious sunny day a month ago, the first day the trains started running (they brought it forward a week due to the fine weather...)

I queued an hour for pics at the summit as one of the friends I went with wanted to, and I was happy to do it for somebody who had driven and then hiked hours to climb a mountain at my invitation. Honestly though, the rest of us wouldn't have bothered otherwise.

And yes, the reason it takes an hour is people faffing around taking pics for Instagram.

When I was on it fights and arguments started breaking out with runners in particular running up the final 10m of ascent which the trig is stuck on tapping it and running down.

Honestly, I thought it was ridiculous to get annoyed by somebody simply tapping a part of the mountain to say they had summited, and chose not to an hour onto their time because of vain faffers. I don't think that people wanting a picture at the trig trump people who just want to summit quickly and bugger off. I felt like outraged of Tunbridge wells stood in this queue, and the sheer lack of optimisation of the space at the top of the mountain by picture takers. Runners/more serious hikers weren't causing the issue imo.

The queue is not benign, it takes up a lot of space at the top of a mountain that potentially prevents people summiting, and everybody spending an extra hour at the top would only make the issue worse.

Disclaimer: When I'm not hiking I am a trail runner/Strava wanker.

Edited

This is what I've done when climbing snowdon. Tapped the top of the stone pile not the trig. I'm not queueing an hour for photos and it's pretty arrogant to suggest people should be forced to join a long queue of photo takers just to touch the top

It wasn't that many years ago there was no queue. There's no other mountain you are expected to queue at in the UK (maybe scafell pike or Ben Nevis I've not done those for a while).

Last time I climbed Snowdon it was like a war zone of people collapsed at the path side in really inappropriate shoes with no water/food. People having panic attacks halfway down and causing hold ups. Compared to basically every other British mountain it's really bizarre

Mcdhotchoc · 29/05/2026 11:36

Never have a read a more British thread on Mumsnet

MayaLui · 29/05/2026 11:34

Evilkineavel · 29/05/2026 10:17

There’s a queue. They should have waited.

It's a mountain, not a shop counter, there's no queue.

PoliteGreyDreamer · 29/05/2026 11:33

outdooryone · 29/05/2026 11:08

Thank you for the link @SandwichSuperstar

Last time I climbed Yr Wyddfa there was chaos - I had gone up the more challenging Crib Goch way with my two sons and emerged after not seeing anyone to a queue in about 3c while each person and group took turns to get multiple photos, one as we arrived was filming a short piece to camera etc. My sons and I ignored the queue, walked up to the base* of the rocks on the summit, snapped a selfie and left. I don't need to step up to the trig, and I certainly did not want to get cold waiting for others to faff around so I could do so.

Sounds like these two did just jump the queue to get right to the trig - and do sound somewhat entitled to suggest that by wearing a charity t-shirt they should be entitled to push past...

Ironically on the way down we were shouted at on the lead into the Pyg track as there was snow. So an even bigger queue had developed both uphill and downhill while folk took turns to nervously navigate the rocks past one section. My sons and I just glissaded (sledged) down on our bums past everyone and away from the path...I was given a right telling off by some chap about being safe in the mountains and how dangerous it was to show kids this. I asked for the gent's qualifications to tell me off - apparently 'common sense' from him trumped my Summer and Winter Mountain Leader, day job as Chief Instructor at a busy outdoor centre that walked Munro's in Scotland every week with groups of kids, and probably my 10th time up Yr Wyddfa...

Edited

I accept there is a difference to climbing up to touch the top of the mountain and climbing up to touch the trig.

But when I was on the mountain last month, people were shouted at as they walked past the queue whether or not they were trying to touch the top of the mountain vs the trig. They weren't allowed to get that far before it got aggy. I thought that was ridiculous. The people in the queue on the steps don't have any ownership of the pile of rocks they are standing next to.

Livpool · 29/05/2026 11:30

SandwichSuperstar · 29/05/2026 10:32

I too hate threads like this with no link.

I've Googled and to be honest, they sound a bit up their own arses and selfish in what they've said here...

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/creplqjdxqxo

Agreed! I know a few people who have done this challenge for charity/and some who just did it. No one person is more deserving than another.

JulietteHasAGun · 29/05/2026 11:28

@PoliteGreyDreamer the runners can’t afford to cool down either. They could injure themselves if they set off down after waiting an hour. They often don’t carry kit for hanging around for a hour either. The train passengers wouldn’t understand that.

outdooryone · 29/05/2026 11:27

FinchiePink · 29/05/2026 11:15

I find it a bit warped that there's a queue for the top of a mountain in the first place.

It's not a supermarket checkout.

Indeed.
The issue on YrWyddfa, Ben Nevis and Scafell is the shear numbers of people. YrWydffa particularly as it has a railway up there and a very easy, wide path to follow...plus Instagram. Put it all together on a sunny bank holiday and the crowds are crazy.

I went up many times through the '90s and only took my lads up as they can now say they have summited the four highest mountains of the four UK countries. I would not go back, would not recommend anyone else does, and would suggest many a better walk ahead of Yr Wyddfa (and even if you do go do it, go do Crib Goch for fun).

JulietteHasAGun · 29/05/2026 11:26

StandingDeskDisco · 29/05/2026 11:01

What fresh hell is this?

In years gone by, if you climbed a popular mountain there was sometimes a small crowd people at the top, drinking or eating sandwiches whilst sitting around the trig point or cairn, and if you wanted a photograph, they were in the background. Nobody would dream of queuing for photos or expecting other people to get out of the way.

Do you now have to stay away from the summit until it is your turn?

We are going on holiday to North Wales in a couple of weeks. I am now wondering if we should give Snowdon a miss?

I honestly would give it a miss. I hear parking is very limited now and there’s a shuttle bus to the top of the pass. Guess you could walk it from llanberis without needing the bus. Or park nant Paris type side and go up a different route. I couldn’t think of anything worse than the tourist route up snowdon.

I did see a really bad video the other day of people cycling up it in the middle of the day weaving through the crowds. The etiquette is if you're biking you finish by 10 which is what I’ve always done.

I also hear Pete’s Eats has closed. Sad times.

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