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Heatwave water deaths - campaign required

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aurpod1980 · 29/05/2026 06:56

I saw the tragic news of two more lives lost in the heatwave, in water.

I believe there needs to be some sort of National campaign to warn people of the dangers of open water on hot days - or any day.

so many lives lost.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn0p7j3lwepo

Search and rescue teams at the side of a pond

Teenage boys die in Kent and Oxford in latest heatwave water deaths

The body of a boy is recovered from a pond in Kent, while another teen dies in the River Thames in Oxford.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn0p7j3lwepo

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LakieLady · 29/05/2026 12:02

I think that they should bring back the short "public information films" that they used to have between programmes.

There are so many things that my generation were made aware of:dangers of wild swimming, railway safety, including not ignoring the lights at level crossings, using fireworks safely, not crossing roads like a twat, cycle safety, how to behave around cattle or horses when out walking (and the importance of shutting farm gates), not going close to cliff edges etc.

I get particularly exercised by the cliff edges thing. I live in Sussex, and often walk along sections of the Seven Sisters. It's remarkable how many idiots ignore the warning signs and stand really close to the edge for photographs, or even sit on the edge with their legs dangling over. Every year, large amounts of those cliffs just fall off, they're really fragile. I don't even like walking along the beach close to the cliffs, because of the risk of a fucking great lump of chalk landing on me. These twats really are Darwin Award contenders.

Oohanothername · 29/05/2026 12:02

I let my DS and DD go, but give them guidelines. Do not jump into the water, do not jump off anything. Do not drink them swim (drink after swimming) and stay where your feet touch the bottom. I've hammered these home but I'm still absolutely terrified.

A 12 year old lad died on Tue in the exact spot I'd been swimming with my DD the evening before. Heartbreaking and so worrying. But I'd rather send my kids out with permission and guidance than no knowledge at all.

godmum56 · 29/05/2026 12:00

purplezigzag · 29/05/2026 08:47

My 11yo DS had the RNLI come into school a couple of years back to talk about water safety and float to live/ the starfish. He was interested in it so we looked up more about rips etc.

I’ve been showing him the news articles about water related deaths since and we’ve been talking about them. Some might not agree with it but I don’t believe in shielding children, especially when it can provide a valuable lesson. So he’s fully aware of the dangers. 11 deaths in a short space of time recently!

I don’t believe not being able to swim is the issue; I think the confident swimmers are the ones who tend to go in thinking they’ll be fine because they can swim. There are various other factors at play. Cold water shock is definitely a thing, especially in warm weather, unseen hazards under the water etc https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cjepg7vkzwwo

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I think you are right.

RudolphTheReindeer · 29/05/2026 11:57

I agree op. Some really terrifying ones like the Aussies used to do!

SummerMadnessBegins · 29/05/2026 11:50

Whilst cold water shock seems to be a buzz term now, back in the 90s during life guard training we learnt that jumping into cold water from being hot makes people gasp, inhaling a load of water that then, even if "saved" can cause secondary drowning later on.
I don't know if that's "cold water shock" but it's definitely the shock caused by jumping into cold water.

SummerMadnessBegins · 29/05/2026 11:47

NameChangeMay2026 · 29/05/2026 08:36

I do always wonder how people drown if they can swim. It's not like the Thames has big waves and tides. Did they get cold-water shock?

They were drunk, it was dark (disorientation occurs) and the Thames has weeds which prevent easy movement so drunk swimmers get caught and tire very easily.

noblegiraffe · 29/05/2026 11:46

XelaM · 29/05/2026 11:42

@NameChangeMay2026 I do always wonder how people drown if they can swim. It's not like the Thames has big waves and tides. Did they get cold-water shock?

My teenage daughter and I are strong swimmers and often swim out to the furthest point allowed when swimming in the sea, but two years ago in the sea in Italy - we swam out quite far from shore in lovely conditions and then SUDDENLY (literally within a matter of seconds) the weather turned, the sky turned very grey and the sea angry with huge waves and pushing us away from the shore - it was utterly terrifying and it's very lucky we made it back.

Another example was in one of those on-sea inflatable waterparks in Spain. My daughter had to dive UNDER the inflatable to get back on it (she was told to do this by one of the "life guards" who was loosely supervising people on the inflatablebles (absolutely xero safety measures and an accident waiting to happen). Anyway, she couldn't see in the dark when she dived under it and was trapped underneath when trying to get back up with absolutely no one noticing (including me as I was at shore). She was absolutely terrified she would drown but managed to find her way back up somehow from underneath the inflatable.

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I was once on a pedalo on a lake in Switzerland on a glorious day when similar happened and we really struggled to get back to shore. There were guys on a boat trying to round everyone up as we were pedalling on suddenly very choppy water.

2dogsandabudgie · 29/05/2026 11:46

aurpod1980 · 29/05/2026 07:23

but where might these teens see/hear something? Like something hard hitting to stop them. It’s so so sad to wake up to hear more news like this and it seems it’s more than ever before.

There are lots of things teen boys don’t do wrong - there has to be something they they’ll see or hear?

You will never stop teenagers from being reckless especially boys. At that age they think they are invincible.

XelaM · 29/05/2026 11:42

@NameChangeMay2026 I do always wonder how people drown if they can swim. It's not like the Thames has big waves and tides. Did they get cold-water shock?

My teenage daughter and I are strong swimmers and often swim out to the furthest point allowed when swimming in the sea, but two years ago in the sea in Italy - we swam out quite far from shore in lovely conditions and then SUDDENLY (literally within a matter of seconds) the weather turned, the sky turned very grey and the sea angry with huge waves and pushing us away from the shore - it was utterly terrifying and it's very lucky we made it back.

Another example was in one of those on-sea inflatable waterparks in Spain. My daughter had to dive UNDER the inflatable to get back on it (she was told to do this by one of the "life guards" who was loosely supervising people on the inflatablebles (absolutely xero safety measures and an accident waiting to happen). Anyway, she couldn't see in the dark when she dived under it and was trapped underneath when trying to get back up with absolutely no one noticing (including me as I was at shore). She was absolutely terrified she would drown but managed to find her way back up somehow from underneath the inflatable.

Bjorkdidit · 29/05/2026 11:39

The powers that be might be starting to see what's required. I've just read on the local new website that the council have launched an anti knife crime campaign with a 44 second music video featuring a cool looking young man talking about the consequences of knife crime. So they just need to do one featuring a boy in a wheelchair at the graveside of his mate after they both got into trouble jumping into a flooded quarry. And get it all over Tiktok.

LetsMakeThisMomentLast · 29/05/2026 11:39

LaliqueSaltGrinder · 29/05/2026 07:13

Teenage boys do not heed warnings.

I agree with this. Most of them think they’re invincible. And that they know better than everyone else. I think there should definitely be a huge effort to get the information across to them, but sadly I believe most of those who want to take the risk won’t let a wagging finger from some boring adult put them off.

I look back with horror at some of the utterly stupid risks I took as a teenage girl and I would call myself pretty risk averse overall.

Lastqueenofscotland2 · 29/05/2026 11:22

There are so many different sources now, when I was a child you had terrestrial TV.
The issue is now for every good warning/announcement you’ve got some idiot on TikTok/YouTube with “beginners hike in the Lake District - striding edge” making people think they can do whatever.
Im a pretty keen hiker/fell runner and I’ve seen people out and really struggling in completely inappropriate gear (wellies on rough ground, hoodies and jeans in wet weather etc). The issue is social media and until the outdoors influencer types actually start posting about how dangerous jumping into a giant body of cold water is, not just “oh look at this fab wild swimming spot” it will continue to happen

Dollymylove · 29/05/2026 11:06

Mochudubh · 29/05/2026 10:00

For the under 50s:

Public Information Film voiced by Donald Pleasance as referenced by pps above.

Omg I remember this!! It scared the living daylights out of me!!

Feastsbaby · 29/05/2026 10:54

Gingernaut · 29/05/2026 07:10

  1. People are so locked in their own social media/media bubbles, that they often miss important messages
  1. Too many people overestimate their ability to swim
  1. Too many people can't grasp simple physics - very large bodies of water are very cold, even in warm weather, cold shock is deadly and even if one becomes accustomed to the cold, trying to swim in cold water is very tiring

If you jump into large bodies of cold water, especially on hot days, death is more likely

Bring on Donald Pleasance and the rest of the water safety ads

Which brings us to point number one again

Yes bring back the service announcement.

susiedaisy1912 · 29/05/2026 10:50

My grandmother who would have been 95 if she were still alive told me that a boy drowned whilst they were all swimming in water back when she was a teenager. They all knew not to swim there because it had reeds in the bottom but they went anyway. She said the boy jumped in and just didn’t come back up. He got caught up in the reeds and drowned. She got a right bollocking when she got home and her parents found out.

Locutus2000 · 29/05/2026 10:42

NameChangeMay2026 · 29/05/2026 08:36

I do always wonder how people drown if they can swim. It's not like the Thames has big waves and tides. Did they get cold-water shock?

I came incredibly close to death in my late teens, I was in with the hippies and went skinny-dipping in the local 'pits' - ex quarries.

It went fine - I was a very strong swimmer back then - until I went just an extra metre and the water turned ice-cold, I had reached a huge drop in the depth of the floor and it literally took my breath away. Somehow made it back to shore and nobody had any idea I was in trouble. I will never forget it and my kids are well-educated on the risks of open water.

MrsClattenburg · 29/05/2026 10:38

StillAGoth · 29/05/2026 09:23

I hear Andrew Tate is quite popular with teenage boys. Perhaps he could teach them.something useful!

Unfortunately Andrew Tate was the first person who sprang to mind (awful as that is!) 😫

MolkosTeenageAngst · 29/05/2026 10:37

There are warnings and campaigns. I have been to one of the lakes where a death happened last week, there is a big, prominent sign which says danger, no swimming but every time the sun comes out it is packed with people swimming in the water literally right next to the sign.

Gloriia · 29/05/2026 10:28

Maybe there's nothing you can do. As a pp said they know the risks and do it anyway.

BlackeyedSusan · 29/05/2026 10:23

Bring back Charlie. Scare the shit out of them young.

Mummyoflittledragon · 29/05/2026 10:23

cauliflowercheeseplease · 29/05/2026 07:19

Sadly the youth of today are a law unto their own. I live near a big lake and constantly see teenage boys going to it everyday at the moment. There are more than enough signs and warnings surrounding it to tell them how dangerous it is but obviously they know best. I genuinely don’t think it’s the parents fault here either, I live in a lovely area with great schools.. it’s teenager boys entitled, defiant don’t care behaviour.

It was no different in the past wrt swimming. Just we didn’t have signs up. My uncle used to swim in the Thames regularly apparently.

Backedoffhackedoff · 29/05/2026 10:19

Dollymylove · 29/05/2026 09:52

The 80s was a completely different world from today's world. There was still discipline by parents and in schools. Crime was taken seriously, if you got caught shoplifting you were arrested and taken to court.
Knife culture was rarely heard of. Drugs were frowned upon and only hippies smoked weed.
Now its a free-for-all. Its all me me me, im entitled to kick your door off its hinges and harrass your grandparents if I want to and nothing will be done about it. Although use some "hurty wordz" and off to jail you go..Respect for your environment and your neighbours went down the toilet years ago

What dya what? Talk about rose tinted glasses. i was caught shoplifting in the 80s. Nothing was done. Rave culture was drugged addled, not to even touch on the heroin epidemic!

noblegiraffe · 29/05/2026 10:19

Skybluepinky · 29/05/2026 10:16

Go back to the old style videos they use to show at schools that warned everyone of what would happen if they did certain behaviours.

When something bad happens involving kids, people always say 'they should be taught about this at school'.

We have endless assemblies where people come in to talk about the dangers of drugs, fire, water, traffic, knives, punching people.

Because schools see the dangers and don't want it happening to their kids.

People assume that these things happen because kids haven't been told, when often they have.

ApplebyArrows · 29/05/2026 10:18

fairydustt · 29/05/2026 09:24

I don’t think that’s a fair conclusion. Most of the incidents weren’t in cities at all, they happened at places like Ribchester, Pickmere, Kingsbury and Angle, which are villages, as well as lakes and rivers near small towns. And I don’t think it’s been said where the individuals were from.

And suggesting the parents were “ignorant” seems quite harsh when we know nothing about the families involved. Open water can be dangerous for anyone, regardless of where they live or how experienced they are.

There are loads of urban areas with a lot of water about. (Towns tend to be built around rivers and big cities will often still have a lot of canals; also urban lakes are not uncommon.) And most inland rural areas do not have as ready access to open water as the Lake District! So I don't think it's fair to suggest it's a town vs country thing anyway.

Skybluepinky · 29/05/2026 10:16

aurpod1980 · 29/05/2026 07:23

but where might these teens see/hear something? Like something hard hitting to stop them. It’s so so sad to wake up to hear more news like this and it seems it’s more than ever before.

There are lots of things teen boys don’t do wrong - there has to be something they they’ll see or hear?

Go back to the old style videos they use to show at schools that warned everyone of what would happen if they did certain behaviours.