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AIBU to think writing confidential HR notes on a train is inappropriate?

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Elphabababa · 28/05/2026 17:19

I am on a train in the UK.

Someone on the seat in front of me is writing up meeting notes from work. All clearly visible through the gaps between seats. I am slightly long sighted mind you.

I have seen that:

  • She works in HR for company X
  • The meeting was for an employee named Y (I can see his name and job title), following him raising a grievance about a GDPR breach of his data within work.
  • Subsequent notes of the meeting about this grievance.

She's still typing her notes now.

AIBU for thinking that people should be very mindful of what work they complete in public places? And that this is inappropriate, and if Y found out that these notes were being written in full public view, they would have a further grievance on their hands?

Or am I a nosey parker?

(Or both?)

OP posts:
EuroNotVision · 28/05/2026 18:35

I would 100% email the company or if I had his name let him know and give him some evidence for his grievance!

PhaedraTwo · 28/05/2026 18:33

FinchiePink · 28/05/2026 18:15

It doesn't matter how overworked she is, this is a huge breach of client confidentiality!

It's completely unacceptable.

Exactly.

It also doesn't matter that the data wasn't "earth shattering" or had no impact. It's still a breach.

greencrab · 28/05/2026 18:33

you should definitely contact the company and possibly cc the person if you can figure out their company email

I can see a screen on my field of vision and have read it without even messaging too and lots of people are like that, it isn't sitting

Entangledlife · 28/05/2026 18:31

@GreenWheat surely you have the time if you're on the train, it's forced on you? As for not having the inclination, fair enough, but I don't think that means that someone who does have the inclination is wrong. Many a plot for a film or book has started by eavesdropping on a conversation or peeking between the gap of a carriage seat. Curiosity is generally a good thing.

BreadedChickenLips · 28/05/2026 18:27

You never know who people know on a train.

I was on a 4 table with 3 strangers and they spent 90 minutes talking HR about a company I used to collaborate with very closely over a long period of time. I knew about a quarter of the people they were talking about, including one person I had line managed until they moved to this organisation. Very personal stuff. I didn't say anything but I was aghast they were talking so personally. And full names too like Judy Dench (example) rather than just Judy.

So YANBU to think the train passenger shouldn't be doing this.

GreenWheat · 28/05/2026 18:23

I cannot imagine ever having the time or inclination to read the laptop and then follow up on the actions of a complete stranger on a train after the event. Sure, she probably shouldn't be doing it, in which case let her know at the time. This just seems like yet another example of a busybody hiding behind "reporting".

Kitestring · 28/05/2026 18:22

Where I used to work we had mandatory training about laptop use and security and gdpr. They specifically mentioned not allowing anyone to see your screen in à public place if what you’re typing is sensitive. She would be in big trouble where I used to work.

Back when I was more het up about life I might have said something but now I swerve stuff where I can for a quiet and drama free life. I would stop reading and put it out of your head. Ironic though.

NautilusLionfish · 28/05/2026 18:21

HelenaWilson · 28/05/2026 17:25

Of course it's hugely inappropriate. Probably a serious disciplinary offence if her employers knew.

But people will do it.
I once overheard on a train a conversation between what I think was a group of solicitors about court proceedings relating to a girl who was in care. They didn't mention names, but if I had known the girl or her family, I'd have known who they were talking about.

One of the reason people do it is because increasingly companies are asking too much of employees. People are working more than 8 hours each day, any moment they can grab they try to deal with some work related stuff. Three wrongs dont make a right: Wrong 1: Why is op snooping through seats and reading someone's writing. Inappropriate. Wrong 2: Person on train (least of my worrries in some respect. Wrong 3: Company not employing enough people or supporting them enough to do work in work hours only.

Now I know some here are lucky enough not to be overworked. They close laptop at work at 4 or 5 and never think of work again till next working day at the appropriate time in the office or at home in privacy. Many of us do not have this previlege. And before someone says quit or find a better job, its not always that easy.

CremeEggsForBreakfast · 28/05/2026 18:21

I was at a very busy tourist attraction with a big adventure playground a few weeks ago and a woman was sitting on the floor marking school work. I didn't stop long enough to spy on exactly what it was but it looked like exam papers (I assume mock/practice papers).

The issue is not that I nor the OP saw the information but who else could have seen it. I could have been someone's classmate and informed a vulnerable child that they'd made a mess of their essay question. The OP could have been a nasty, bullying co-worker looking to cause trouble.

Yes, OP was nosey (as I probably would have been, in all honesty) but the existence of nosey people is precisely why an HR manager should know better than to be working on confidential matters on a busy train!

Random321 · 28/05/2026 18:19

It's a complete breach.

How anyone could be happy that someone could be sharing their private information but working in public is beyond me.

It's also probably a breach of company policy.

FinchiePink · 28/05/2026 18:16

Fortysevenpl · 28/05/2026 18:14

I feel a bit sorry for the woman. Trying to get work done in transit, busy life etc. I mean it’s overall not great, but reporting her could really fuck her job up. I would consider that a totally awful busy body thing to do. I mean the data she working with, whilst confidential, isn’t earth shattering.

No, it's her failing to keep to proper standards is what would fuck up her job.

FinchiePink · 28/05/2026 18:15

SandwichSuperstar · 28/05/2026 17:40

Or lost some poor overworked woman her job.

If the OP really cared, she'd push her face further between the seats and tell the woman she can see her screen.

It doesn't matter how overworked she is, this is a huge breach of client confidentiality!

It's completely unacceptable.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 28/05/2026 18:15

@Elphabababa The reasonable thing to do would have been to have given her a heads up. You now come across as a snitch and you know you will get her into trouble. No one is obviously flaunting the notes! You just wanted a good look to see what you could read.

Fortysevenpl · 28/05/2026 18:14

I feel a bit sorry for the woman. Trying to get work done in transit, busy life etc. I mean it’s overall not great, but reporting her could really fuck her job up. I would consider that a totally awful busy body thing to do. I mean the data she working with, whilst confidential, isn’t earth shattering.

TY78910 · 28/05/2026 18:11

TY78910 · 28/05/2026 18:09

Oh the irony…

Sorry i thought you meant he was raising a grievance about a GDPR breach. Yeah, she shouldn’t be doing that anyway. and if she needs to work on the train because it’s a high pressure job, she can easily buy a privacy screen for a fiver off Amazon.

Glitchymn1 · 28/05/2026 18:10

IDontHateRainbows · 28/05/2026 17:26

Tell Alanis Morrisette to put that in a song! Isn't it ironic! ( the gdpr breach)

This. It may not have been a GDPR breach she was generating- could’ve been more sensitive.

TY78910 · 28/05/2026 18:09

Oh the irony…

Nogimachi · 28/05/2026 18:09

She is likely breaking company policy here. Why didn’t you just tap her on the shoulder and make her aware that you could see the notes? That would have been a constructive way to handle it.

ABG0 · 28/05/2026 18:09

Don't complain to the company. Perhaps the poor woman is under pressure and has little choice but to work on the train. A friendly 'word to the wise' tupe intervention and suggest a privacy screen. Next time the person behind her might be taking screenshot on their phone.

AllTheChaos · 28/05/2026 18:05

Backedoffhackedoff · 28/05/2026 17:40

Which section though?
and what personal data are you referring to?

Well, I mean his name for starters! Even job titles can be personal data under the right circumstances. Data relating to an identified or identifiable individual. So in this case it sounds like a fair bit of what Op could see would count.

RoseField1 · 28/05/2026 18:02

Backedoffhackedoff · 28/05/2026 17:28

i wouldn’t think twice about this. I do think its really odd you’ve been reading it between the chairs- you must really be looking.

what section of GDPR do you think it’s breaching?

Handling of confidential data?? Writing notes on a train in clear view of anyone looking couldn't be more of an obvious breach

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 28/05/2026 18:02

AndyBurnhamForPM · 28/05/2026 17:21

I would contact the company and complain.

Dh is in the biz and would total troll this person and report them too...

A gdpr breech about a gdpr breech...
Lmfao....

Shedmistress · 28/05/2026 17:58

I'd have taken a photo and tried to track him down and sent it to him.

MrsKeats · 28/05/2026 17:52

I saw a video online of someone from HR talking to what was presumably a manager discussing how to get rid of an employee. This was a zoom type meeting in a coffee shop!!
People should be far more aware of what they do in public.

MyThreeWords · 28/05/2026 17:49

The woman working on the train should be more careful but, honestly, peeking through the gap between seats to read a screen is really, really going the extra mile with nosiness. I can totally understand the error she made, of feeling she was typing confidentially in that situation.

Don't contact the company. That would make you officious on top of being nosy.