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AIBU to think writing confidential HR notes on a train is inappropriate?

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Elphabababa · 28/05/2026 17:19

I am on a train in the UK.

Someone on the seat in front of me is writing up meeting notes from work. All clearly visible through the gaps between seats. I am slightly long sighted mind you.

I have seen that:

  • She works in HR for company X
  • The meeting was for an employee named Y (I can see his name and job title), following him raising a grievance about a GDPR breach of his data within work.
  • Subsequent notes of the meeting about this grievance.

She's still typing her notes now.

AIBU for thinking that people should be very mindful of what work they complete in public places? And that this is inappropriate, and if Y found out that these notes were being written in full public view, they would have a further grievance on their hands?

Or am I a nosey parker?

(Or both?)

OP posts:
Flyingintotheunknown · 28/05/2026 19:07

MajorSamanthaCarter · 28/05/2026 19:05

MNers can't wait to report people can they, it'd be a dream come true seeing something like this!

Agree… kind of. But there’s a time and a place for confidential information and it isn’t on public transport.

GinToBegin · 28/05/2026 19:07

I’m taken aback by the number of people saying it isn’t important. I’ve had three typed appraisals this year as part of training for a new role, and I would be royally pissed off if any were done in any kind of public place, whether a train, tram or coffee shop. Talk of nosiness or worse, snitching, downplays the seriousness of this, imo.

Privacy matters, confidentiality matters, and the woman OP has observed is breaching both. It’s deeply unprofessional (privacy-ensuring kit is widely available) and she should be held accountable for it.

In the OP’s shoes, I’d probably tell the woman and leave it at that, but even a whiff of pushback, and I’d be going to the company.

Changedmyname123456 · 28/05/2026 19:07

1dayatatime · 28/05/2026 17:37

Honestly @Elphabababait would be so fitting if you reported this breach of GDPR by HR about writing up a document about an employee complaining of a breach of GDPR. You will have single handed won his complaint for him like a guardian angel!!😀

yes definitely find him on sm and let him know!!

Lurkingandlearning · 28/05/2026 19:07

Duvetdayneeded · 28/05/2026 17:24

Call the company and tell them!!

Call the company and tell him

MajorSamanthaCarter · 28/05/2026 19:05

MNers can't wait to report people can they, it'd be a dream come true seeing something like this!

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 28/05/2026 19:02

Elphabababa · 28/05/2026 17:19

I am on a train in the UK.

Someone on the seat in front of me is writing up meeting notes from work. All clearly visible through the gaps between seats. I am slightly long sighted mind you.

I have seen that:

  • She works in HR for company X
  • The meeting was for an employee named Y (I can see his name and job title), following him raising a grievance about a GDPR breach of his data within work.
  • Subsequent notes of the meeting about this grievance.

She's still typing her notes now.

AIBU for thinking that people should be very mindful of what work they complete in public places? And that this is inappropriate, and if Y found out that these notes were being written in full public view, they would have a further grievance on their hands?

Or am I a nosey parker?

(Or both?)

I would call the company's whistleblowing hotline to complain. They may then have to report the data breach to the ICO.

I work in governance and compliance, always have a privacy screen on my laptop. Only last week I was saying to a colleague that I can tell the names, jobs and employers of so many people I sit near on trains who do nothing to protect their data. It's frightening how ignorant so many people are.

BillieWiper · 28/05/2026 19:02

Backedoffhackedoff · 28/05/2026 17:28

i wouldn’t think twice about this. I do think its really odd you’ve been reading it between the chairs- you must really be looking.

what section of GDPR do you think it’s breaching?

She just said she could see it was about someone else alleging a GDPR leak. And obviously if she can see their name and company name then that's a breach all over again.

I wouldn't say anything though. I'd find it ironic. But it's hardly some earth shattering national secret that Gary from business development at Acme Widgets has an HR grievance.

Peterdottir · 28/05/2026 19:01

Flyingintotheunknown · 28/05/2026 18:51

This!! There are so many work related conversations that happen on trains and for some reason these people seem to talk as loud as they possibly can so that the whole carriage can hear them. And yes some of it is confidential. I don’t know why public transport and cafes have now become offices for people to discuss work related issues in earshot of everyone else.

Many years ago I used to very occasionally catch the train to London to the company's HQ. I always remember a colleague saying 'never discuss anything work related on the 7.45 am train as you never know who is listening'.

OneOfEachPlease · 28/05/2026 18:58

I can see why she might be - I don’t get paid for work travel (aka travelling for work, not commuting) unless I work as I travel. So I find myself trying to find completely non-sensitive work. Which is probably impossible if you work in HR.

aWeeCornishPastie · 28/05/2026 18:58

Your highly nosey

thinkingaboutipswich · 28/05/2026 18:58

Yes, this is not on and probably gross misconduct. I would probably reach over and tell her. If she was arsey about it I’d report to the company.

TeenLifeMum · 28/05/2026 18:57

I’m impressed by your eye sight but baffled why you’d think it normal to read a strangers laptop screen. Clearly not your business. I just cannot imagine doing that.

TheSereneRaven · 28/05/2026 18:56

DaffodilLill · 28/05/2026 18:52

The person (OP) seated behind her is peering through the tiny gap in the seats. That's not in most people's field of vision unless the make an effort to see through the gap,

But it is possible, seat gaps aren’t that small and a train is a public place. That is exactly the point, in public you do not know who is able to see your documents and if there is a possibility that they can be seen then confidential documents should not be handled in a public place.

DaffodilLill · 28/05/2026 18:54

@Elphabababa If you are both still on the train, get out of your seat and tell her, kindly.

CaptainCalm · 28/05/2026 18:53

Of course she shouldn’t be doing this. I’d expect at least a privacy screen. We also often use initials or descriptors such as ‘witness 1’ so that nothing is identifiable on confidential data wherever we write it. It would be a breach of policy for us and probably a warning for the employee.

However OP you seem to be taking some perverse pleasure in actively spying on her (you must really be staring to be able to provide this level of detail)) and a smug delight in the thought of reporting her. A more mature and kinder approach would be to be to politely make her aware. Is your aim to get her in trouble and feel smug about it, or to stop the breach?

DaffodilLill · 28/05/2026 18:52

TheSereneRaven · 28/05/2026 18:47

It’s absolutely not fine!

The information security training I do for work warns about making sure your screen is not visible through windows in your own home. The onus is on the user to protect the information not the onlooker not looking and not using the information they see.

The person (OP) seated behind her is peering through the tiny gap in the seats. That's not in most people's field of vision unless the make an effort to see through the gap,

dippy567 · 28/05/2026 18:52

If its confidential stuff no she shouldn't be doing it. For the exact reason someone else could peep through a gap in the chair. I'm nosy, and if bored on a train journey, I'd be reading it - its on her to keep it confidential.

I used to work for civil service and we had v strict rules about this.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 28/05/2026 18:51

JuliettaCaeser · 28/05/2026 17:35

Stop being such a nosy Parker!

You have entirely missed the point.

DaffodilLill · 28/05/2026 18:51

Elphabababa · 28/05/2026 17:19

I am on a train in the UK.

Someone on the seat in front of me is writing up meeting notes from work. All clearly visible through the gaps between seats. I am slightly long sighted mind you.

I have seen that:

  • She works in HR for company X
  • The meeting was for an employee named Y (I can see his name and job title), following him raising a grievance about a GDPR breach of his data within work.
  • Subsequent notes of the meeting about this grievance.

She's still typing her notes now.

AIBU for thinking that people should be very mindful of what work they complete in public places? And that this is inappropriate, and if Y found out that these notes were being written in full public view, they would have a further grievance on their hands?

Or am I a nosey parker?

(Or both?)

Why don't you look away?

I assume this is an airline seat you are in with the back of her seat facing you and you're both facing the same direction.

If you think what you see if confidential, look away.

She will have no idea it's in your line of sight.

If you really want to you could get out of your seat and tell her that you can read it.

Flyingintotheunknown · 28/05/2026 18:51

HelenaWilson · 28/05/2026 17:25

Of course it's hugely inappropriate. Probably a serious disciplinary offence if her employers knew.

But people will do it.
I once overheard on a train a conversation between what I think was a group of solicitors about court proceedings relating to a girl who was in care. They didn't mention names, but if I had known the girl or her family, I'd have known who they were talking about.

This!! There are so many work related conversations that happen on trains and for some reason these people seem to talk as loud as they possibly can so that the whole carriage can hear them. And yes some of it is confidential. I don’t know why public transport and cafes have now become offices for people to discuss work related issues in earshot of everyone else.

TheSereneRaven · 28/05/2026 18:47

LarksAscending · 28/05/2026 18:41

Its fine, the assumption is that a) you shouldn’t eyeball other people’s monitors and b) you don’t know who is referenced.

Possibly she should put a privacy screen sticker on.

It’s absolutely not fine!

The information security training I do for work warns about making sure your screen is not visible through windows in your own home. The onus is on the user to protect the information not the onlooker not looking and not using the information they see.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 28/05/2026 18:43

SandwichSuperstar · 28/05/2026 17:31

Odd.

We had exactly this thread a few months ago, complete with peeking through the gap between the back of the seat.

Mumsnet has millions of users, many of which may travel by train, and work while on the train.

Not that odd that this has come up.

Its not likely every thread on Mumsnet is going to be unique and never been discussed before! Confused

LarksAscending · 28/05/2026 18:41

Its fine, the assumption is that a) you shouldn’t eyeball other people’s monitors and b) you don’t know who is referenced.

Possibly she should put a privacy screen sticker on.

Shedmistress · 28/05/2026 18:41

GreenWheat · 28/05/2026 18:23

I cannot imagine ever having the time or inclination to read the laptop and then follow up on the actions of a complete stranger on a train after the event. Sure, she probably shouldn't be doing it, in which case let her know at the time. This just seems like yet another example of a busybody hiding behind "reporting".

A what else are you gonna do on a hot train journey?
B it kinda proves his point and provides evidence to HR

EBearhug · 28/05/2026 18:38

Nosey or not, people should think about their surroundings when working on this sort of information/data - or even personal stuff like the young man who read out all hus card details in my hearing on a train. He couldn't know I am trustworthy. I didn't say anything, as he was still on the phone as he got off the train.

I might say something in this case, or I might report to the company. Probably depends a bit on my mood as much as anything else.