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AIBU to think writing confidential HR notes on a train is inappropriate?

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Elphabababa · 28/05/2026 17:19

I am on a train in the UK.

Someone on the seat in front of me is writing up meeting notes from work. All clearly visible through the gaps between seats. I am slightly long sighted mind you.

I have seen that:

  • She works in HR for company X
  • The meeting was for an employee named Y (I can see his name and job title), following him raising a grievance about a GDPR breach of his data within work.
  • Subsequent notes of the meeting about this grievance.

She's still typing her notes now.

AIBU for thinking that people should be very mindful of what work they complete in public places? And that this is inappropriate, and if Y found out that these notes were being written in full public view, they would have a further grievance on their hands?

Or am I a nosey parker?

(Or both?)

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Bjorkdidit · 28/05/2026 19:52

This is specifically prohibited where I work. It's not just nosy members of the public we have to be concerned about, but people who will go to the press, share information online or use anything they see to cause harm/distress. If they can see it, they can take a photograph of it.

OP if you don't want to identify the woman to her company, you could just send them a vague 'I saw one of your employees working on a train and could read confidential information recently' email, so hopefully they'll all get a reminder. Hopefully she isn't the only person who works for them to have used a train this week.

Newsenmum · 28/05/2026 19:49

AtlasPine · 28/05/2026 17:26

I’d let her know.

This. She may be tired and not thinking.

Backedoffhackedoff · 28/05/2026 19:49

MrsColinRobinson · 28/05/2026 19:29

Tell us you don't understand GDPR without saying "I don't know about GDPR" 🙄

Did that make sense in your head?

shuggles · 28/05/2026 19:48

@Flyingintotheunknown I think I would also be creeped out if some random person contacted me via linked and informed me they had seen a load of confidential information about me

That's just you. I would be thankful for someone providing me with information that I can use to nail my enemies.

Flyingintotheunknown · 28/05/2026 19:40

AD1509 · 28/05/2026 19:38

Not good practice no. But fairly sad that you’ve been snooping and want to go report them. Why bother? Says more about you than them.

The thing about handling confidential information is that you have to make sure that nobody else is given the opportunity to view it. The onus is on the HR person not the op. Yes it was nosey of the op but the fault lies with the HR person.

AD1509 · 28/05/2026 19:38

Not good practice no. But fairly sad that you’ve been snooping and want to go report them. Why bother? Says more about you than them.

TheSereneRaven · 28/05/2026 19:36

NotKatnissEverdean · 28/05/2026 19:17

Both of you at fault. OP for looking and person in the seat in front not working inside the company firewall. But that's what happens nowadays, similar situation to working from home.

The onlooker is not at fault as they should not be able to see anything. A reported breech is never going to result in the person reporting being penalised.

margegunderson · 28/05/2026 19:35

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 28/05/2026 18:15

@Elphabababa The reasonable thing to do would have been to have given her a heads up. You now come across as a snitch and you know you will get her into trouble. No one is obviously flaunting the notes! You just wanted a good look to see what you could read.

A snitch? Are you 12? People have lost all idea of privacy in public as the trend for loud phone calls on trains demonstrates. There could be bad actor looking between the seats who could do some serious damage rather than the OP who is basically posting a public warning. And yes - it’s not a breach of anything really personal but that’s just luck isn’t it? HR woman clearly wasn’t thinking about it.

Flyingintotheunknown · 28/05/2026 19:34

shuggles · 28/05/2026 19:23

@Elphabababa

I hate HR.

OP, please please write to this company with full details regarding the name of the person and the nature of this man's complaint, so they take action against this HR person.

You could even take it a step further and search for the man on Linkedin, and let him know directly.

I think searching up the man on LinkedIn is going a step too far as it’s not guaranteed to be the same person and would depend entirely on if they updated their LinkedIn account. I think I would also be creeped out if some random person contacted me via linked and informed me they had seen a load of confidential information about me

I imagine if the op’s reports this incident to the company then they will make the man in question aware anyway. I’m sure victims of a GDPR breach are supposed to be made aware of the breach.

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 28/05/2026 19:32

What has the fact that you need glasses to see things close to you got to do with anything? Being "long sighted" doesn't mean you have superpower vision!

MrsColinRobinson · 28/05/2026 19:29

Backedoffhackedoff · 28/05/2026 17:28

i wouldn’t think twice about this. I do think its really odd you’ve been reading it between the chairs- you must really be looking.

what section of GDPR do you think it’s breaching?

Tell us you don't understand GDPR without saying "I don't know about GDPR" 🙄

PrincessofWills · 28/05/2026 19:28

ParmaVioletTea · 28/05/2026 17:37

Yes, you're a nosey parker.

Reading people's screens is as rude as reading their newspapers or books over their shoulders.

I can't agree with you. It is not up to Op to ensure confidentiality and to take a professional approach, it's the duty of the HR employee. Op hasn't breached anything, that's on the employee.

Pushmepullu · 28/05/2026 19:26

Thing is you can’t help seeing things if they are in front of you, it’s like listening in to a conversation when it’s taking place a few feet away from you. The responsibility lies with the person talking, or typing to ensure that they can’t be heard or seen.

I would contact the company OP

TwitchyNibbles · 28/05/2026 19:25

The fact that the employee concerned is complaining about a GDPR breach and the HR person dealing with it has all their identifiable information on a screen in a public area is just 😬

shuggles · 28/05/2026 19:23

@Elphabababa

I hate HR.

OP, please please write to this company with full details regarding the name of the person and the nature of this man's complaint, so they take action against this HR person.

You could even take it a step further and search for the man on Linkedin, and let him know directly.

TeaIsLovely · 28/05/2026 19:21

You could have tapped her on the shoulder and discretely tell her “I think you need to get a privacy screen”. And get on with your life.

lordbaddingham · 28/05/2026 19:19

The irony!

NotKatnissEverdean · 28/05/2026 19:17

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 28/05/2026 17:25

Yes I would let them know. Another GDPR breach right there!

Both of you at fault. OP for looking and person in the seat in front not working inside the company firewall. But that's what happens nowadays, similar situation to working from home.

ThePM · 28/05/2026 19:16

I would definitely send an email to him just to stir the pot. It isn’t difficult to find someone these days if you look.

I can beat you though, many years ago I had a good old listen to barristers preparing their case - which was on tv the next day. Although that was in 1st. 😂

mrsbowes · 28/05/2026 19:15

I'd read over her shoulder because I am nosey.

A company putting someone's details out publicly for anyone to read is worse than a random member of the public being nosey.

Backedoffhackedoff · 28/05/2026 19:14

RetiredFromExplaining · 28/05/2026 19:12

This is a significant breach under GDPR Article 32:

Data Breach: Unauthorised third-party viewing constitutes a confidentiality breach (Article 32). If the data is highly sensitive, it may require reporting to the Information Commissioner's Office (ICO).

Under ISO 27000 for information security management systems, which is the international standard, leaving screens visible in public areas violates Annex A 7.7 (Clear Desk and Clear Screen), which dictates that information processing facilities must be secured to prevent unauthorised access.

I would report her to the company and advise them it may be reportable to the ICO.

how do you quantify significant, out of interest?

RetiredFromExplaining · 28/05/2026 19:12

Backedoffhackedoff · 28/05/2026 17:28

i wouldn’t think twice about this. I do think its really odd you’ve been reading it between the chairs- you must really be looking.

what section of GDPR do you think it’s breaching?

This is a significant breach under GDPR Article 32:

Data Breach: Unauthorised third-party viewing constitutes a confidentiality breach (Article 32). If the data is highly sensitive, it may require reporting to the Information Commissioner's Office (ICO).

Under ISO 27000 for information security management systems, which is the international standard, leaving screens visible in public areas violates Annex A 7.7 (Clear Desk and Clear Screen), which dictates that information processing facilities must be secured to prevent unauthorised access.

I would report her to the company and advise them it may be reportable to the ICO.

TrufflePigs · 28/05/2026 19:12

Go to the head of the company and tell them what you have read. It will support the guys case. See if you can’t find him on linked in and tell him.

Elphabababa · 28/05/2026 19:12

I'm off the train.

I remember the company name. I'll sleep on it. I'm considering sending a generic email not specifying any details but suggesting they consider reminding employees of expectations around working in public.

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Elphabababa · 28/05/2026 19:09

The number of posters who have accused me of taking joy in the thought of reporting her...

When I haven't once said that's even a consideration. That's other posters.

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