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AIBU to think writing confidential HR notes on a train is inappropriate?

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Elphabababa · 28/05/2026 17:19

I am on a train in the UK.

Someone on the seat in front of me is writing up meeting notes from work. All clearly visible through the gaps between seats. I am slightly long sighted mind you.

I have seen that:

  • She works in HR for company X
  • The meeting was for an employee named Y (I can see his name and job title), following him raising a grievance about a GDPR breach of his data within work.
  • Subsequent notes of the meeting about this grievance.

She's still typing her notes now.

AIBU for thinking that people should be very mindful of what work they complete in public places? And that this is inappropriate, and if Y found out that these notes were being written in full public view, they would have a further grievance on their hands?

Or am I a nosey parker?

(Or both?)

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Imdunfer · 05/06/2026 07:18

EvieBB · 04/06/2026 11:45

Wow - I hope you said something! Silly arses...

I have to confess I'm a bit puzzled why you think I should have done. Business don't succeed by being nice to competitors whose staff make corporate mistakes.

blubberyboo · 05/06/2026 00:32

gannett · 04/06/2026 12:00

My takeaway from this thread is that MNers are far better at being nosy than I am.

I usually try to look at other people's screens if I can see they have Spotify open as I'm always interested in what they're listening to. I rarely manage it. I've also tried to glance at laptop screens on trains and never succeeded in seeing anything like the detail the OP has. I don't believe you'd ever be in a situation where you "just can't help" seeing a stranger's screen.

I would say that trying to get a random woman fired for something that doesn't remotely affect you is a far worse personality trait than her doing her job sloppily. In a situation where you don't owe any loyalty to either party, why on earth would you side with a random corporate company over a random individual? Have a word with yourself.

Reporting the individual would not necessarily lead to firing- likely only disciplined with a warning.

Also she would not be "siding with a corporate company" ! She would be siding with an individual....the one who had his data leaked and who was subject to harm!!!

What makes you think it is corporate allyship to point out to them that they have poor controls and behaviours!

Have a word with yourself

Worralorra · 04/06/2026 14:36

The fact that you could read the employee’s name and job title in a public place along with description of a grievance is a gross breach of gdpr!

Under the Employer’s duty of Integrity and confidentiality, employee’s personal data must be kept secure against loss, unauthorized access, or destruction.

You being able to see it is the unauthorised access, and the penalties against the employer are very severe for this. No HR employee worth their salt would dream of working with employee personal data in a public place without a privacy screen, and I am sure that even with one, they are breaking gdpr rules…

HelenaWilson · 04/06/2026 13:55

'Side with'? This isn't primary school, and it's not about 'siding with' anyone. It's about upholding the law, which is there to protect everyone.

The 'random corporate company' could equally be in trouble if it became known that their employees were so careless about data protection.

plsdontlookatme · 04/06/2026 13:28

I hold keys for my workplace, which is a valuable building. It is my responsibility to lock up said workplace at the end of each day. If I neglected to do so, and someone broke in and trashed/robbed the place as a result, I would not be able to shrug off my negligence by noting that vandalism and robbery are illegal.

gannett · 04/06/2026 12:00

My takeaway from this thread is that MNers are far better at being nosy than I am.

I usually try to look at other people's screens if I can see they have Spotify open as I'm always interested in what they're listening to. I rarely manage it. I've also tried to glance at laptop screens on trains and never succeeded in seeing anything like the detail the OP has. I don't believe you'd ever be in a situation where you "just can't help" seeing a stranger's screen.

I would say that trying to get a random woman fired for something that doesn't remotely affect you is a far worse personality trait than her doing her job sloppily. In a situation where you don't owe any loyalty to either party, why on earth would you side with a random corporate company over a random individual? Have a word with yourself.

EvieBB · 04/06/2026 11:45

Imdunfer · 04/06/2026 09:10

I once sat opposite two men working for a competitor company discussing the company's business strategy to expand into exactly the area my employer was focused on.

Wow - I hope you said something! Silly arses...

FinchiePink · 04/06/2026 11:21

I think if this thread proves anything it's how little an idea the general public have about good data security.

You shouldn't be working on the train - or in cafés, anywhere public - if anything you do is confidential or handles client data.

I don't work on the train at all for this reason. Yes, people are busy and have time-pressured lives. That is no excuse, however.

Imdunfer · 04/06/2026 09:10

GoodLife26 · 04/06/2026 08:29

It never ceases to surprise me what people do on the train. I once sat next to someone reading the pre-release financial statements for a large listed financial institution. More recently I could clearly see the draft Board minutes for a large asset manager.

I once sat opposite two men working for a competitor company discussing the company's business strategy to expand into exactly the area my employer was focused on.

GoodLife26 · 04/06/2026 08:29

It never ceases to surprise me what people do on the train. I once sat next to someone reading the pre-release financial statements for a large listed financial institution. More recently I could clearly see the draft Board minutes for a large asset manager.

Flyingintotheunknown · 02/06/2026 16:25

HelenaWilson · 02/06/2026 16:21

It's more like peering through a hole in your fence at your naked neighbour.

The neighbour is on her own property. The train is a public place.

And I should think confidentiality and data protection requirements still apply even if you are wfh in your own house or garden. You would still need to ensure that no-one, not even your close family members, could see your screen or overhear calls.

Yup! People keep trying to blame the op. But everything all points back to the person who had the information on display - the person who’s job it is to protect the privacy of that information

HelenaWilson · 02/06/2026 16:21

It's more like peering through a hole in your fence at your naked neighbour.

The neighbour is on her own property. The train is a public place.

And I should think confidentiality and data protection requirements still apply even if you are wfh in your own house or garden. You would still need to ensure that no-one, not even your close family members, could see your screen or overhear calls.

JoeyJava · 02/06/2026 14:40

igelkott2026 · 31/05/2026 13:30

Seriously? Does that mean if someone dances around their garden naked, I am not allowed to look out of my window anymore?

For goodness sake.

That's not what I'm saying. It's more like peering through a hole in your fence at your naked neighbour.

Bluedenimdoglover · 01/06/2026 13:32

If you were that concerned, why not tap her on the shoulder and point out your concerns to her?
Did you complain to the company?
If you did nothing, what is the purpose of your post? We can't do anything?

dh280125 · 01/06/2026 10:54

She's being very inappropriate to do that work in public. At companies I've worked for she's certainly be disciplined if caught.

Wildefish · 01/06/2026 10:38

Elphabababa · 01/06/2026 05:35

Oooo more personal quips, beautiful.

But true…

Bubblewrap22 · 01/06/2026 07:47

Elphabababa · 28/05/2026 17:19

I am on a train in the UK.

Someone on the seat in front of me is writing up meeting notes from work. All clearly visible through the gaps between seats. I am slightly long sighted mind you.

I have seen that:

  • She works in HR for company X
  • The meeting was for an employee named Y (I can see his name and job title), following him raising a grievance about a GDPR breach of his data within work.
  • Subsequent notes of the meeting about this grievance.

She's still typing her notes now.

AIBU for thinking that people should be very mindful of what work they complete in public places? And that this is inappropriate, and if Y found out that these notes were being written in full public view, they would have a further grievance on their hands?

Or am I a nosey parker?

(Or both?)

I don’t think you should report it to the company! Perhaps the person was in a rush to complete said notes etc and just completely overlooked people can see her laptop. Sometimes I do confidential work on a train but just turn my brightness down… maybe she forgot to do that? I don’t think it’s worth her losing her job over just because you saw what she was writing. She might then lose her job and might be supporting her kids etc - who knows

floatinginacoolpool · 01/06/2026 07:38

HelenaWilson · 30/05/2026 13:59

People are remarkably careless about their own privacy, never mind anyone else's.

I was in my garden once when a woman on a first floor balcony in the flats behind was having a long phone conversation with a social worker about her child. If I could hear her, any number of other people in the flats and in the back gardens could also hear.

Another time I was trying a new cafe in my local High Street. While I was there the assistant was on a long phone call to the DSS. That wasn't the only reason why I didn't go back, but it was one of the reasons.

In fairness, if the child was in the house she may have been trying to protect the child from over hearing .
I had a lot of calls in my car for that reason!

Raspberryripple11 · 01/06/2026 07:33

A couple of years ago I was trying to look out the window on a train, but the person in front of me’s phone was reflected, and for like twenty minutes he was just scrolling through photos of naked men.

Ihatetomatoes · 01/06/2026 07:33

Duvetdayneeded · 28/05/2026 17:24

Call the company and tell them!!

Indeed this person is writing a report for data breech, whilst committing their own data breech.

Let the company know.

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Dogmum74 · 01/06/2026 06:59

Elphabababa · 01/06/2026 05:35

Oooo more personal quips, beautiful.

She is right though. Get a life

Dogmum74 · 01/06/2026 06:58

The amount of people on here advising to call the company and effectively try and get her fired, is mind boggling. And I cannot believe you OP, posted this on here. Mind your business.

Flyingintotheunknown · 01/06/2026 06:10

Elphabababa · 01/06/2026 05:35

Oooo more personal quips, beautiful.

Ignore them op. Even if you were being “nosey” the HR woman was way more in the wrong than you for having the information on public display when they, as an employee of the company have a duty to keep confidential information private.

Elphabababa · 01/06/2026 05:35

Whatthefork1 · 31/05/2026 20:24

Inappropriate? Yes. Would I care? No. I don’t concern myself with what others are doing. I’m more concerned about the fact you read such screen to know all the details you do and have then come onto MN to ask about it. You don’t have much going on in life, do you?

Oooo more personal quips, beautiful.

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