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Ironing before packing - am I wasting time?

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Flounge · 27/05/2026 17:51

Going on holiday at the weekend. I saw DH putting several unironed shirts and t shirts into the case.

I told him he should iron them and he looked at me like I have two heads. He said why would he iron them when they get creased in the case and he has to iron them on holiday before he wears them anyway.

I then said he should get the car cleaned before we go and he looked really confused. Not a priority and it’s just going to sit on the drive for 10 days, and he’ll take it if there’s time.

Who is right here? Am I wasting time on pointless tasks and making life more difficult for the sake of it?

AIBU?

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CrushingOnRubies · 28/05/2026 22:25

I don’t really iron anyway or the majority of my clothes . But I don’t pack anything which is likely to get creased and need ironing in the first place. Have some linen dresses but don’t pack them for holidays

KateDelRick · 28/05/2026 09:43

crazytiredrn · 28/05/2026 09:03

Each to their own - I iron my clothes anyway so when packing everything is ironed, rolled and put into packing cubes. I clean the house and change bedsheets before going away as I like coming back to a clean house but I wouldn’t bother with the car. I’d leave your DH to pack however he wants to.

Yes, I'm the same, I iron anyway because I wear natural fabrics. I think if people wear polyester and leggings then there's no need.
I'd ignore the car though.
I like clean bedsheets to come home to as well!

KateDelRick · 28/05/2026 09:40

Topseyt123 · 28/05/2026 09:20

I never iron anything and I seem to have survived.

What is ironing?

As for cleaning the car when it will just sit on the drive for 10 days - just why?? Do you really think that people who are passing are going to come up to it and inspect it?

Can't remember the last time my car was washed and it seems fine.

Ironing is getting the creases out of clothing, helping them to look and feel better.
It's not about helping you to "survive", it's just a personal aesthetic, really. No right or wrong either way.

Weeellokthen · 28/05/2026 09:21

Team you op
Dp, does all the ironing and packing. It is perfectly fine coming out the other side of journey.

Topseyt123 · 28/05/2026 09:20

I never iron anything and I seem to have survived.

What is ironing?

As for cleaning the car when it will just sit on the drive for 10 days - just why?? Do you really think that people who are passing are going to come up to it and inspect it?

Can't remember the last time my car was washed and it seems fine.

tiramisugelato · 28/05/2026 09:12

pinkspeakers · 28/05/2026 09:08

We couldn't not ever wash our car. There are trees over our drive and it gets covered in stuff falling from them. We do try to keep it covered quite a lot of the time but it's impractical to keep that up all the time. But washing it before we go away is not a thing. We'd just make sure it was covered!

Mine is constantly covered with crap - I’m a dog walker and pet sitter and go on yards, farms and into woodlands so it’s always covered in a layer of mud, dust, dog hair, sap and god knows what else - as I’m never going to sell it I don’t really care how it looks 🤣

pinkspeakers · 28/05/2026 09:08

We couldn't not ever wash our car. There are trees over our drive and it gets covered in stuff falling from them. We do try to keep it covered quite a lot of the time but it's impractical to keep that up all the time. But washing it before we go away is not a thing. We'd just make sure it was covered!

cramptramp · 28/05/2026 09:07

I iron things that need ironing before I pack them but I don’t iron them again when they are creased when I get there. Cleaning the car before going on holiday is mental.

pinkspeakers · 28/05/2026 09:04

I think if you normally iron things then you'll probably want to iron them before they go in your case. They wont come out perfectly, but the ironing will still definitely make a difference. We'd never normally iron t-shirts anyway though!

Definitely understand why you need to clean your car before you go away. What's your thinking??

crazytiredrn · 28/05/2026 09:03

Each to their own - I iron my clothes anyway so when packing everything is ironed, rolled and put into packing cubes. I clean the house and change bedsheets before going away as I like coming back to a clean house but I wouldn’t bother with the car. I’d leave your DH to pack however he wants to.

AmazingGreatAunt · 28/05/2026 09:01

I do iron.
When packing I fold everything neatly and sometimes roll as well. I also pack to avoid things getting squashed. About 99% of the items arrive at my destination in a presentable state and generally only need hanging up or unrolling and put in drawers or on shelves.
As for the car, it would not be a high priority and I might prefer to wash it on my return, if it was dirty.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 28/05/2026 08:24

I iron mine, but then all my summer/warm weather things are cotton, linen, or a mix. I pack them in such a way that they don’t need ironing again after I arrive.

PurpleThistle7 · 28/05/2026 08:11

Yes. These are two non issues. His clothes have nothing to do with you, the car is fine and you won’t be there anyway.

add me to the never iron, never clean the car lists!

AImportantMermaid · 28/05/2026 08:06

I definitely wouldn’t clean a car and then leave it at Gatwick Airport or shared for 2 weeks. What would be the point of that?

Elsvieta · 28/05/2026 08:00

Has he told you what housework you need to do before you leave?

Flyingintotheunknown · 28/05/2026 07:52

I also don’t get the logic behind the car washing either. Are you wanting it to look nice and sparkly clean and shiny so that people can admire it while it’s sat on your drive? I don’t get it lol.

I never understand the logic of why some people want everything to look ‘perfect’ before going on holiday. You’re going on a holiday and coming back. You don’t need to preserve everything in case some historian might come and find it and take it to a museum. You won’t be gone forever!

SwatTheTwit · 28/05/2026 07:26

You can just ask for an iron at reception, even Travelodge has them.

Lilyhatesjaz · 28/05/2026 07:22

I iron most of our clothes anyway, I have a lot of fabrics that crease badly and really need it, so I would carefully pack ironed clothes but I have never ironed anything on holiday.
Our car gets washed once a year, it gets a complimentary wash with the annual service.

Ginmonkeyagain · 28/05/2026 07:14

I iron before I pack, it makes packing easier.

Octavia64 · 28/05/2026 07:08

I wouldn’t iron before packing, I wouldn’t see the point - it’ll get creased in the case.

totally fail to understand the car washing.

Silverbirchleaf · 28/05/2026 07:06

I would iron things as well, as then they’re less creased when you arrive. I don’t want to be ironing whilst on holiday.

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 28/05/2026 07:04

ToffeeCrabApple · 27/05/2026 20:30

I have barely ever cleaned the car I've owned for the last 15 years. It gets an annual wash when the local scouts are out doing it to raise jamboree money. It has no rust. I'm sure it looks less attractive than my neighbours vehicle which gets washed more than the average teenage boy, but given i'll run it into the ground I'm not fussed about the resale value!

We're the same. Washing the car once a month would cost £35 where I live, sod that.

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 28/05/2026 07:02

Flounge · 27/05/2026 20:00

By iron on holiday, he literally runs it over a shirt for about a minute to remove obvious creases, so he doesn’t look like a scruff.

That's still ironing 😂 surely once he had it on for 5 minutes all the creases would drop anyway? Even my most houseproud fastidious friends don't touch an iron on holiday.

tiramisugelato · 28/05/2026 07:00

Flounge · 27/05/2026 20:00

By iron on holiday, he literally runs it over a shirt for about a minute to remove obvious creases, so he doesn’t look like a scruff.

The creases will drop out once he’s had it on for about 2 minutes anyway.

I always see comments about scruffs who don’t iron but I’ve honestly never been able to tell.

outerspacepotato · 27/05/2026 20:35

Iron?

Unreasonable. You're going on holiday, not to hang with the Windsors.

And before packing them?

Hahahahano.

The car is just going to sit there. Why are you making your pre holiday workload so much more than it needs to be?