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If you are Reform are you ok with this repulsive man potentially becoming an MP and representing women in parliament?

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Johnogroats · 27/05/2026 14:51

Robert Kenyon, the “cheeky local chappie” who is standing for Reform in Makerfield is on record as making some shockingly sexist comments and statements. Reform are standing by him.

Can I ask the women on here who are Reform voters if they are ok with the him remaining a candidate given what I cite below. Btw I am absolutely not, but I’m not and never will be a Reform voter for a variety of reasons.

  1. Retweeting a post about performing a (graphic description) of a sexual act on Carol Voderman.
  2. He has attacked women as being promiscuous and accused them of taking any decision to have an abortion lightly. He wrote, “reproductive rights, women's rights, they can dress it up all they want.
  3. They're deciding to kill a baby inside the womb. What they mean is they want to shag anyone they want. And if they get caught, they get a second chance and treat it as a secondary, last form of contraception.”

Either you think this is ok (don’t understand how anyone let alone a woman could be ok with it) or presumably you’ll be contacting Tice and Farage etc to drop him.

Interested in your thoughts.

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Clavinova · 01/06/2026 20:24

BIossomtoes · 01/06/2026 20:15

Nobody mentioned the mosque until you brought it up.

They clearly did - I replied to this post originally;

Smeuse 29/05/2026 14:03
Kenyon is caught lying
He's saying in a post on X that the former St Mary's Church is now a Mosque.
It is not, it's a food bank with a Muslim prayer room.

BIossomtoes · 01/06/2026 20:15

Clavinova · 01/06/2026 20:13

I don't think that's fair - I had at least three or four posters directing multiple posts to me denying the building in Kenyon's video was a mosque or had ever been a church.

Nobody mentioned the mosque until you brought it up.

Clavinova · 01/06/2026 20:13

BIossomtoes · 01/06/2026 20:03

Clav.

I don't think that's fair - I had at least three or four posters directing multiple posts to me denying the building in Kenyon's video was a mosque or had ever been a church.

BIossomtoes · 01/06/2026 20:03

Piggywaspushed · 01/06/2026 19:37

How has this moved so very far away from the OP??

Clav.

5128gap · 01/06/2026 19:59

Clavinova · 01/06/2026 19:33

Clearly some angry nutcases though. AI is suggesting the foiled terrorist attack against an unnamed religious site in Rabat in the first link is a cathedral, although I cannot verify (2025). The second link refers to an attack on a church adjoining a cathedral in Cairo (2016). The third link refers to attacks on churches across Egypt on Palm Sunday(2017):

https://thearabweekly.com/morocco-france-foil-terror-plot-against-rabat-religious-site
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2016/dec/12/coptic-christians-criticise-security-failures-after-cairo-bombing
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/apr/09/egypt-coptic-church-bombing-death-toll-rises-tanta-cairo

I can't find any suggestion it was the cathedral either. The references are all to 'a religious site'. The person arrested had links to ISIS and tafkir ideology, which is more suggestive that a mosque would have been their target.
As you say though, angry nutcase. So not really pertinent to whether or not Christian buildings are lawfully permitted in a Muslim country.

Piggywaspushed · 01/06/2026 19:37

How has this moved so very far away from the OP??

Clavinova · 01/06/2026 19:33

5128gap · 01/06/2026 18:40

Well someone went and stuck a cathedral in the middle of Rabat in 1930, and no one seems to have told them to take it down yet.

Clearly some angry nutcases though. AI is suggesting the foiled terrorist attack against an unnamed religious site in Rabat in the first link is a cathedral, although I cannot verify (2025). The second link refers to an attack on a church adjoining a cathedral in Cairo (2016). The third link refers to attacks on churches across Egypt on Palm Sunday(2017):

https://thearabweekly.com/morocco-france-foil-terror-plot-against-rabat-religious-site
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2016/dec/12/coptic-christians-criticise-security-failures-after-cairo-bombing
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/apr/09/egypt-coptic-church-bombing-death-toll-rises-tanta-cairo

Piggywaspushed · 01/06/2026 19:18

I don't see the relevance to this thread really.

Weeallthewayhome · 01/06/2026 18:52

5128gap · 01/06/2026 18:40

Well someone went and stuck a cathedral in the middle of Rabat in 1930, and no one seems to have told them to take it down yet.

True. But it’s mainly for foreign Christians allowed to use it and the Moroccan government forbids conversion from Islam to Christianity so it’s not quite the freewheeling reciprocal arrangement its presence implies.

Nor may Christians there have civil marriages, funerals or build new churches.

5128gap · 01/06/2026 18:40

Duvetdayneeded · 01/06/2026 18:17

Could we build Christian churches in Islamic countries do you think?

Well someone went and stuck a cathedral in the middle of Rabat in 1930, and no one seems to have told them to take it down yet.

Weeallthewayhome · 01/06/2026 18:36

Duvetdayneeded · 01/06/2026 18:17

Could we build Christian churches in Islamic countries do you think?

Could we fuck.

I had Christian friends in Saudi who used to worship secretly in a private house until someone tipped off the religious police who beat the shit out of them all.

this is not a fluffy gentle love everyone faith. Don’t make that ignorant mistake. The punishment for leaving it is death. Hence the terrified silence around it. Among other reasons.

Piggywaspushed · 01/06/2026 18:19

There are several in Palestine and many in Turkey.

Anyway, we are a muti cultural multi faith society which already has many churches, mosques, synagogues, temples, gurdwaras so I am not clear on your point.

Duvetdayneeded · 01/06/2026 18:17

Could we build Christian churches in Islamic countries do you think?

Clavinova · 01/06/2026 18:16

WheresMyHatGone · 01/06/2026 06:17

Yet again, the property initially lied about by Kenyon was taken over, repaired and opened as a community hub with food back and a small prayer room. It is open to all faiths.
I know there is a food bank there, along with several others in the town run by various community groups. I have no idea of ANY of the opening times or days, or how you get to use them as I have been fortunate to never have to need one.
And again, what is your issue with this derelict building being taken over and used for good? Does it matter to you so much what faith these people are?

Yet again (to use your phrase), the building is a mosque, as per their own website;
https://www.wiganrashidamasjid.co.uk/about

Advertising Standards or Trading Standards may be interested if the building is not actually a mosque. The owners have obviously received large donations for a mosque - in one campaign video they claim the new mosque will accommodate up to 1,000 worshippers. They are also offering services which will no doubt require a fee; Nikah Ceremony - Arrange an Islamic marriage ceremony at the mosque.

What do you mean Kenyon 'initially lied' - it is not obvious to me that he has lied.

I know there is a food bank there

How do you know?

And again, what is your issue with this derelict building being taken over and used for good?
It is open to all faiths

If I had one criticism it would be the Youth Programs - which do not sound very inclusive and open to all faiths;

Youth Programs
Engaging activities, mentorship, sports events, and educational programs designed specifically for young Muslims.

Does it matter to you so much what faith these people are?

I could ask you the same question - why are you so desperate for this building not to be a mosque?

Piggywaspushed · 01/06/2026 06:54

Yes, I was trying to be 'neutral' ... she is indeed those things.

Sewciopath · 01/06/2026 06:41

Piggywaspushed · 30/05/2026 14:19

It's worth looking up that councillor too . She has quite a long history of campaigning about various things. A lot of it centred on her own devout Christianity.

She is a rabid racist who supposedly devout Catholic beliefs go against every last bit of hate she spews about people who aren't the same colour as her. She was previously employed by Wigan Council until she was sacked for her behaviour. Becoming a local councillor was only her petty attempt to get back at them.

Johnogroats · 01/06/2026 06:33

Bushmillsbabe · 31/05/2026 22:46

Is there such a thing as a credible Reform candidate? And with 2 weeks until the by election is getting another candidate a feasible option? I absolutely agree with you that Kenyon is awful.

Burnham has said he may call a general election as thinks he can get a bigger mandate than Starmer. Are you absolutely sure that if he did, Labour would get back in?

I’d say no to both! I hold no truck with Reform at all. And personally I doubt anyone who stood for them would imho be a credible person. And if Burnham calls an early election I think he’d find himself losing badly… at best it would be a May situation where he massively reduced the majority.

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WheresMyHatGone · 01/06/2026 06:17

Clavinova · 31/05/2026 20:10

I have posted links for two mosques.

The contact address for the second link is;
240 Warrington Road, Ince, Wigan, WN3 4NH

Yet again, the property initially lied about by Kenyon was taken over, repaired and opened as a community hub with food back and a small prayer room. It is open to all faiths.
I know there is a food bank there, along with several others in the town run by various community groups. I have no idea of ANY of the opening times or days, or how you get to use them as I have been fortunate to never have to need one.
And again, what is your issue with this derelict building being taken over and used for good? Does it matter to you so much what faith these people are?

Bushmillsbabe · 31/05/2026 22:46

Johnogroats · 31/05/2026 20:08

I’m sorry but I think that’s daft. Labour will be in for another 3 years. Maybe with Burnham for some of that time. They are not bad people - even if you fundamentally disagree with their politics. Kenyon is a bad guy objectively. He’s sexist and racist and stands by his revolting posts. He should not be electable. And if Reform want to be considered a serious party they should deselect him. And put up a credible candidate.

Is there such a thing as a credible Reform candidate? And with 2 weeks until the by election is getting another candidate a feasible option? I absolutely agree with you that Kenyon is awful.

Burnham has said he may call a general election as thinks he can get a bigger mandate than Starmer. Are you absolutely sure that if he did, Labour would get back in?

Clavinova · 31/05/2026 20:10

WheresMyHatGone · 31/05/2026 20:06

Just had another look at your links.
The ones you have posted are indeed for a mosque, situated in an entirely different part of the town to St Mary’s. You are embarrassing yourself now.

I have posted links for two mosques.

The contact address for the second link is;
240 Warrington Road, Ince, Wigan, WN3 4NH

WheresMyHatGone · 31/05/2026 20:09

Clavinova · 31/05/2026 20:07

Trust me, it’s a food bank

How do people from other faiths know about the food bank if the days and times are not advertised on their website?

Why don't they highlight the food bank here either?

About Us
Wigan Rashida Masjid aims to be a cornerstone of the Muslim community in Wigan. Our mosque serves as a place of worship, education, spiritual development, and community gathering for people from all backgrounds.

We strive to provide a welcoming and inclusive environment that nurtures faith, promotes good character, strengthens community cohesion, and builds positive relationships between diverse communities.

How long has the mosque been open? I would make allowances if it's only been open for a few months and the food bank is not up and running yet.

You are posting about an entirely different place, a different building, in a different part of town. 😂

Johnogroats · 31/05/2026 20:08

Bushmillsbabe · 31/05/2026 09:04

Of course it is reasonablefor you to have brought your boys up that way, i wish more women did. But given that it's apparently a 2 horse race, taking votes away from Kenyon benefits Burnham.

As abhorrent as Kenyon is, he can do limited damage to the country. Burnham on the other hand could, if gets voted in as party leader, do tremendous damage to this country as a whole.

I’m sorry but I think that’s daft. Labour will be in for another 3 years. Maybe with Burnham for some of that time. They are not bad people - even if you fundamentally disagree with their politics. Kenyon is a bad guy objectively. He’s sexist and racist and stands by his revolting posts. He should not be electable. And if Reform want to be considered a serious party they should deselect him. And put up a credible candidate.

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Clavinova · 31/05/2026 20:07

WheresMyHatGone · 31/05/2026 19:55

You seem to have ignored my last post to you.
I live in the town. Trust me, it’s a food bank and it helps a lot of people.
Stop trying to make out you know what the building is about, you are making yourself look silly now.
Also, why are you so against mosques? Are people not allowed somewhere to pray?

Trust me, it’s a food bank

How do people from other faiths know about the food bank if the days and times are not advertised on their website?

Why don't they highlight the food bank here either?

About Us
Wigan Rashida Masjid aims to be a cornerstone of the Muslim community in Wigan. Our mosque serves as a place of worship, education, spiritual development, and community gathering for people from all backgrounds.

We strive to provide a welcoming and inclusive environment that nurtures faith, promotes good character, strengthens community cohesion, and builds positive relationships between diverse communities.

How long has the mosque been open? I would make allowances if it's only been open for a few months and the food bank is not up and running yet.

WheresMyHatGone · 31/05/2026 20:06

Clavinova · 31/05/2026 19:49

I expect most mosques in the country would say they are open to people from all backgrounds and faiths. Just up the road, the largest mosque in Wigan 'is open to people of all religious affiliations, men and women' - that doesn't mean it's not really a mosque;

https://www.masjidtooba.co.uk/about

As for the food bank, I'm not entirely convinced there is one in operation.

In the London Economic article there are several quotes;

'The main business is a food bank that anyone who needs it can use, whether they be Jewish, Christian, Muslim or of no faith.'

'it's a food bank with a small prayer room'

Quite clearly from the website, the main business of the mosque is not a food bank;
https://www.wiganrashidamasjid.co.uk/about

Just had another look at your links.
The ones you have posted are indeed for a mosque, situated in an entirely different part of the town to St Mary’s. You are embarrassing yourself now.

BIossomtoes · 31/05/2026 20:01

Clavinova · 31/05/2026 19:57

As an aside, I remember noting (before the 2024 general election) that Angela Rayner had voted considerably more times than Keir Starmer - so he must a bit lazy on the sly.

More whataboutery.